Why do older men become bi-curious?

[drobert44]

Not curious for your cute sissycock..........



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[drobert44]

Sorry babe......



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[chame1eon]

I've seen similar feelings from a lot of men online, that they don't look at a man and find him sexually attractive or turned on by him. That they still find themselves turned on/attracted to a woman's face and body. But they find themselves turned on jerking off or sucking on another man's penis.

I have actually seen people say this a lot too.
It makes me wonder if that is where the penis obsession a lot of straight men seem to have comes from. Its like its the only thing they could understand that anyone could be attracted to.
It seems like its almost easier if you were always 100% bi or gay since you can more easily understand what a person would find attractive in yourself without having to take someone's word for something you can't imagine or see for yourself.

 

[Jeph77]

I have actually seen people say this a lot too.
It makes me wonder if that is where the penis obsession a lot of straight men seem to have comes from. Its like its the only thing they could understand that anyone could be attracted to.
It seems like its almost easier if you were always 100% bi or gay since you can more easily understand what a person would find attractive in yourself without having to take someone's word for something you can't imagine or see for yourself.

Cocks, balls vaginas, clitorii, boobs, asses, are similar in ways. A little variety can be highly stimulating, if you can handle resisting taboos and convention, and be respectful.

 

[Oldsucker]

Sorry babe......



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A lovely combination, beautiful breasts alongside cock and balls

 

[TempSpawn]

Personally, my bi side comes from an experience I had when I was much younger. I tried to suppress it for many years but now I've started to accept thos feelings & desires.

 

[saintcero]

Personally, my bi side comes from an experience I had when I was much younger. I tried to suppress it for many years but now I've started to accept thos feelings & desires.

I suppressed mine also but a Domme on Fetlife made contact with me and she is bringing my sub/bi/sissy side out to blossom. Once released, the change in me is snowballing to the point of being scary. Alice is falling down the rabbit hole (except my new name is louise and not Alice.

 

[55ChevyBelAir]

This thread has me thinking about new desires and urges. Just turned 75 and am craving and lusting to suck my first cock. The urge for licking and kissing a hard cock is getting me so horny.

 

[paulman999]

i'm glad older guys get bi-curious!

We are too

 

[saintcero]

We are too

We don’t know why we get bi curious but we sure as hell know why we stay bi after curiosity changes to experienced

 

[haventdonethat]

As I have become older my thoughts turn more and more to my first experiences with another guy and his cock. Hindsight is 20/20 as I think of all the missed opportunities with him and others.

I am not in a sexless relationship, it is sometimes too much sex, but It doesn’t stop me fantasizing about the bi side of life.

 

[saintcero]

As I have become older my thoughts turn more and more to my first experiences with another guy and his cock. Hindsight is 20/20 as I think of all the missed opportunities with him and others.

I am not in a sexless relationship, it is sometimes too much sex, but It doesn’t stop me fantasizing about the bi side of life.

Exactly the same. Pussy twice a week now gets in the way of cock masturbation fantasies

 

[Elite_Goblin]

Exactly the same. Pussy twice a week now gets in the way of cock masturbation fantasies

I would be down for pussy twice a week!

As far as the original intent of this thread....if that girl/lady aproached me, I would probably suck on anything she had down there. I am not necesarilly against penises, I rather enjoy mine after all. A cock is pretty much just a big clit. It is just what it is attached to that I am not attracted to at all. I would be all for it, but men turn me totally off.

I will say that as I am getting older, my mind is at least a little understanding to the path other men have taken. Especially due to either sexless marriages or the amount of effort required to get their SO in the mood just to enjoy pleasure for the sake of it. Seems like the guys that suck love it and are happy to do it. The guy getting sucked loves that his cock is getting sucked and likely swallowed like a pro. A win-win situation is hard to beat!

 

[saintcero]

I would be down for pussy twice a week!

As far as the original intent of this thread....if that girl/lady aproached me, I would probably suck on anything she had down there. I am not necesarilly against penises, I rather enjoy mine after all. A cock is pretty much just a big clit. It is just what it is attached to that I am not attracted to at all. I would be all for it, but men turn me totally off.

I will say that as I am getting older, my mind is at least a little understanding to the path other men have taken. Especially due to either sexless marriages or the amount of effort required to get their SO in the mood just to enjoy pleasure for the sake of it. Seems like the guys that suck love it and are happy to do it. The guy getting sucked loves that his cock is getting sucked and likely swallowed like a pro. A win-win situation is hard to beat!

Men turn me off too but cock and balls have now changed. Never ever thought I would suck one. I went to get sucked but something happened and I got tired of passive pleasure. Next thing you know I was down on it and getting my tonsils tickled. It really did feel natural once it settled on my tongue and my lips closed around it. Super glad his jizz tasted light. Getting a load of funky spunk might have changed my opinion

 

[starfish71]

For me it was not a question of becoming curious as I got older... the curiosity was there for a long time... it was a matter of acting on it that didn't come until later (and even that was in stages)... I think many of the reasons offered in the thread still apply, sexless relationship might lead to wanting to pursue something, internet making things more accessible making it easier to pursue...

 

[PersonalFavors]

I have actually seen people say this a lot too.
It makes me wonder if that is where the penis obsession a lot of straight men seem to have comes from. Its like its the only thing they could understand that anyone could be attracted to.
It seems like its almost easier if you were always 100% bi or gay since you can more easily understand what a person would find attractive in yourself without having to take someone's word for something you can't imagine or see for yourself.

Yea pretty much only interested in his dick and balls and his interest in mine... It's not a date. Once discovered, giving a blow job is erotic. Many of the same feelings of trust when you lick a pussy. Only with a guy it is in secret and there is a report!!! And there is the 'need' that got me there in the first place. I needed a blow job and was willing to give one to get one. Good times were the bj-buddies that were repeat offenders. But in that I never became friends with them. Here near DC with work and traffic hardly that much time with what one apply to family. But a nice bj without all the hoops and rules is a good thing. If I were somewhere else and had the time I could be friends with a guy who enjoyed releasing each others energy from time to time. I just haven't ran across a 'like minded' friend that hunted fished or played golf. I'm still not going to kiss or fuck him or get discovered.

 

[simplelogic1]

This thread has me thinking about new desires and urges. Just turned 75 and am craving and lusting to suck my first cock. The urge for licking and kissing a hard cock is getting me so horny.

Me too and I don’t know why

 

[Gabe619]

I suppose at 53 I am not that old, lol, but I started seeing my desires turning more bi, more gay a few years back. I am MWM, married 11 years now, but we hardly ever have sex. I jerk off a lot to porn and found my tastes turning to gay porn which made me very hard. Eventually I succumbed to exploring a local gay cruising spot and sucked my first cock in decades and loved it, now I can't stop thinking about it.

 

[mad825]

I am a 64 y/o mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thinh. Is this a common phenomenon?

I'm turning 50 and it is happening to me now...

 

[mad825]

Having some jack off buddies when I was growing up was a lot of fun not only because I had ejaculations from their hands, I liked making them cum also and marveled at the fact that no two dicks are the same, soft or hard. I had only one instance where I had an erection in my mouth and I did not follow through and really suck it good.
Girls came into my life and the following decades sex for me was all about pussy. As I got older those long ago memories seemed to come to life. I began reading and watching bisexual porn and got up the nerve to start tasting my own sperm.
I liked it - a lot!
The taste, the taboo aspect, and the desire to suck dick grew stronger by the month.
I drank my own semen all the time then (and now) and it is thrilling when I give a guy a blow job and the first blast of warm thick cum shoots from his cock makes me feel wonderful. I absolutely love everything about giving head, licking and kissing balls, swallowing cum, and more.
So my memories led to the curiosity, which led to obsessive desire, which led to craving cock to the absolute NEED TO FULFILL THIS DESIRE.
Age is just a number, and male on male sex is my preference. Giving oral pleasure is the most intimate sexual act a man can give to another man in my opinion. I am now an avid cock sucker and nothing is going to change that.

I like your post! you are getting me thinking...

 

[CarnalDavid]

Happening to me too. Am 49. I take photos of myself and share them with gay men or tvs. Haven't yet had the courage to go thru with a proper experience.
Was having an affair with a lady in work, she kind of seduced me as an M, made me her slutty s. But it wasn't quite right, her strap on wasn't real.

 

[ILman56]

At my age, my cock doesn't always work, but my mouth and throat always work!

 

[CthuluLives]

It's basically not to have a life of regrets in a lot of ways, were not here for long enough. I get and understand cheating or betrayal and wouldn't want to hurt her..

I felt myself starting to waffle there and not be honest with myself. It's when I'm horny I have the urges. If I was sober, not turned on and I see a cock (would be picture) I'm like 'it's a cock'
But you see as soon as I get horny, and in fairness that could be triggered by the guy saying do I like it?, then yes, yes I'd like to play with that. It's like there's a guy attached to it but who cares, look at lovely cock, I wonder how it would feel in my mouth, or more..

And I've always felt that. So I question myself sometimes, is that bi-curious? Is it gay? I mean I don't care either way, I'm happy in my attitudes and tolerance, I have nothing against anybody, but I'm just interested in that hard cock.

I had a hook up with someone that we did nearly everything except kissing and actual anal.
Starting to waffle again, need to make a point, my wife says I always waffle when I'm nervous.

I gave myself my 1st prostate orgasm 2 weeks ago. I have never came or had an experience like it in my life, I thought I was going to pass out, I felt the orgasm everywhere, I was breathless, took me ages to get myself together. House was empty and I knew I had a good few hours to myself so decided to try. Ground myself on a dildo from the toy box, watched some suitable porn and just went to work. Kept pushing more and more, im getting hard writing this and remembering. By the time I was nearly coming I was almost bent double, telling myself to take more, get it deeper, its a double ended 16" and I could see half was gone. Felt pain and then so much pleasure from vocally telling myself to take it and pretty much collapsed as the most unbelievable orgasm coursed through me, took nearly 10" by the time I was finished.

Wanking wise I am trying to get another empty so I have freedom to try.

And I want now more than before want to feel a guy doing that to me. Have someone else use me like I used myself. Is that still curious?

Think I really just wanted to tell someone that who won't judge or think badly. But I do want that now, more than before, want to feel another guy filling me up, I want to know what that feels like.

Sorry for the waffling, this feels like a confession thread..

 

[PG564E]

I like your post! you are getting me thinking...

Thanks! Would you like sharing what's been going thru you mind? I'd really like to know. PM me anytime.

 

[simplelogic1]

This thread has me thinking about new desires and urges. Just turned 75 and am craving and lusting to suck my first cock. The urge for licking and kissing a hard cock is getting me so horny.

Me too I am 71 and the urge just will not go away