Chaos... to be continued

[AngelWithAShotgun]

Good morning everyone...
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[AngelWithAShotgun]

Make it too warm and it is impossible to sleep.

I have a lighter blanket for summertime, already thinking switching next time I change my sheets.

I get weird during summer, the blanket has to cover my shoulders but the rest can go blankie free

 

[Strixaluco]

I get weird during summer, the blanket has to cover my shoulders but the rest can go blankie free

Doesn't sound weird to me. I like being covered, so when it get really warm I need to balance with that need and not being too warm.

For me the most crucial part is the lower back and bum, I guess.

 

[Strixaluco]

Good morning everyone...
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So you sneaked up and took a photo of me this morning!

 

[Mei5ter]

Good morning everyone...
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The thing is, my cat is 8 and still randomly falls off things occasionally. But she's fed, and I have coffee, and Sunday can begin. Morning all!

 

[SinfuIDreams]

I have weight blankets, I use them all year round just different weight ones. I need to be covered or I work myself up and can't sleep

 

[Titsandclits]

Stop sleeping with your windows open o.o?

Warm helps, I can't sleep without a blanket, even in summer

Sorry need window open especially in summer, and fewr bed clothes for me.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Good morning everyone...
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Good morning
That is such a cute kitty

 

[AngelWithAShotgun]

I have weight blankets, I use them all year round just different weight ones. I need to be covered or I work myself up and can't sleep

i wanna try those, it sounds like being cuddled to sleep

 

[SinfuIDreams]

i wanna try those, it sounds like being cuddled to sleep

It is, super good for anxiety or if umm constriction gives you the warm and fuzzy feelings.

 

[Mei5ter]

And this is another curious thing about Lit. IRL, it can take years before you find that you can't sustain a relationship where one of you wants to sleep in the freezer in sepulchral silence as far away from any other living soul as possible, while the other needs weighted blankets, meditation music and to be kept at an ambient temperature of 100F. And this is what makes and breaks relationships, folks.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

And this is another curious thing about Lit. IRL, it can take years before you find that you can't sustain a relationship where one of you wants to sleep in the freezer in sepulchral silence as far away from any other living soul as possible, while the other needs weighted blankets, meditation music and to be kept at an ambient temperature of 100F. And this is what makes and breaks relationships, folks.

This so, so true. I require a cool, dark, cave. With a fan. I probably still won’t sleep much, but it will maximize the likelihood.

 

[AngelWithAShotgun]

And this is another curious thing about Lit. IRL, it can take years before you find that you can't sustain a relationship where one of you wants to sleep in the freezer in sepulchral silence as far away from any other living soul as possible, while the other needs weighted blankets, meditation music and to be kept at an ambient temperature of 100F. And this is what makes and breaks relationships, folks.

You forgot to factor in the mattress too

 

[Strixaluco]

And this is another curious thing about Lit. IRL, it can take years before you find that you can't sustain a relationship where one of you wants toF. [...... ] . And this is what makes and breaks relationships, folks.

You can also substitute that .... with plenty many practical things. Which makes finding a suitable partner a challenge.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

And this is another curious thing about Lit. IRL, it can take years before you find that you can't sustain a relationship where one of you wants to sleep in the freezer in sepulchral silence as far away from any other living soul as possible, while the other needs weighted blankets, meditation music and to be kept at an ambient temperature of 100F. And this is what makes and breaks relationships, folks.

Very true, before I found weight blankets and learned how to wrap myself up like a sausage roll I would toss and turn the night away thankfully M was a heavy sleeper not even my screaming and thrashing woke him up most of the time. Either that or he got used to it over the years.
Even after play session or sex with someone else I have never attempted to sleep with anyone because I know my way of sleeping is beyond fucked up and would prefer people not to think I'm any more of a basket case then they already do

 

[AngelWithAShotgun]

This so, so true. I require a cool, dark, cave. With a fan. I probably still won’t sleep much, but it will maximize the likelihood.

I've developed a weird sleeping habit lately, I don't just require a blanket now. I need a fan to be on, regardless if its winter, so I can feel/hear its vibration. And I have Friends or music playing in the background all night, if it stops, I wake up. And I have to hear it over the fan

 

[Mei5ter]

You forgot to factor in the mattress too

Well, I do prefer to sleep on a bed which has one of those. But if folk here want to sleep on wooden slats they can be tied to, or have a nice bed of nails, that's fine too. I'm British. We compromise.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Very true, before I found weight blankets and learned how to wrap myself up like a sausage roll I would toss and turn the night away thankfully M was a heavy sleeper not even my screaming and thrashing woke him up most of the time. Either that or he got used to it over the years.
Even after play session or sex with someone else I have never attempted to sleep with anyone because I know my way of sleeping is beyond fucked up and would prefer people not to think I'm any more of a basket case then they already do

That sounds really rough to deal with. I’m glad you found something that works for you!

I have no such excuse and when I was single and had a guest I would wait until they fell asleep and then go sleep on the couch in the other room. Yep, in my own place. I’m just such a light sleeper and do not do well with sleep cuddling relative strangers that I would not be able to fall asleep at all. I think it’s by far my most neurotic or high strung tendency. I’m laid back in almost every other aspect

 

[SinfuIDreams]

That sounds really rough to deal with. I’m glad you found something that works for you!

I have no such excuse and when I was single and had a guest I would wait until they fell asleep and then go sleep on the couch in the other room. Yep, in my own place. I’m just such a light sleeper and do not do well with sleep cuddling relative strangers that I would not be able to fall asleep at all. I think it’s by far my most neurotic or high strung tendency. I’m laid back in almost every other aspect

I still don't sleep much just because my stepson, DIL and 2 grandbabies live in another part of my house. I'd hate to wake them up with my terrors. I tend to wait until my body is in nap sitting up uncontrollably mode before I try. I max out at around 5hrs every couple of days.

Nah it's not high strung or neurotic it's a safety mechanism. Your body and brain won't relax in a place you don't feel 100% comfortable in. It's actually showing your intelligence on a baser level. Sleep is when we are at our weakest your brain was to smart to trust those people even if you had trusted them enough to do other "things" with them

 

[AngelWithAShotgun]

Well, I do prefer to sleep on a bed which has one of those. But if folk here want to sleep on wooden slats they can be tied to, or have a nice bed of nails, that's fine too. I'm British. We compromise.

I meant the firmness of the mattress. I know one guy who had a really soft mattress, he would sink into it. And take me down with him. Which would have been fine but he didn't like a warm body next to him cause he was a furnace.

So I'd end up awake half the night, trying not to fall in into his pit of blazing warmth. My back suffered

 

[SinfuIDreams]

I meant the firmness of the mattress. I know one guy who had a really soft mattress, he would sink into it. And take me down with him. Which would have been fine but he didn't like a warm body next to him cause he was a furnace.

So I'd end up awake half the night, trying not to fall in into his pit of blazing warmth. My back suffered

That would have been a you have to sleep at my house or not at all moment for me

 

[AngelWithAShotgun]

That would have been a you have to sleep at my house or not at all moment for me

I thought of that, but sadly my place was across an ocean. I did consider the couch, but decided against it cause I couldn't figure out how to turn his living room heater on

 

[Mei5ter]

Even after play session or sex with someone else I have never attempted to sleep with anyone because I know my way of sleeping is beyond fucked up and would prefer people not to think I'm any more of a basket case then they already do

How does aftercare work in that scenario?

I meant the firmness of the mattress. I know one guy who had a really soft mattress, he would sink into it. And take me down with him. Which would have been fine but he didn't like a warm body next to him cause he was a furnace.

So I'd end up awake half the night, trying not to fall in into his pit of blazing warmth. My back suffered

I do not trust men who like soft mattresses.

 

[Diosax]

I do not trust men.

I fixed it for you

 

[AngelWithAShotgun]

How does aftercare work in that scenario?

I do not trust men who like soft mattresses.

Why o.o?