Why do older men become bi-curious?

[peterheer51]

I'm interested in the idea of an implant. I have an enlarged prostate, so some ED and no ejaculation. Can you tell me more, please?

They put pencil like balloons in your penis connected to a little round pump and release valve in your scrotum.
It takes a little while to get used to it but with practice, and boy did I practice, you can pump it up pretty hard. Certainly hard enough for a good fuck.
It does tend to ache a little if I leave it up for too long.
Don't know what it is but while I can no longer ejaculate, my orgasms are extremely intense.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

They put pencil like balloons in your penis connected to a little round pump and release valve in your scrotum.
It takes a little while to get used to it but with practice, and boy did I practice, you can pump it up pretty hard. Certainly hard enough for a good fuck.
It does tend to ache a little if I leave it up for too long.
Don't know what it is but while I can no longer ejaculate, my orgasms are extremely intense.

Thanks for that. But I looked it up and the cost here (in Australia) is between 12 and 19grand. Beyond me, I'm afraid.

 

[peterheer51]

Didn't cost me anything near that but we have good medical cover.

Where are you in Australia? Brisbane here.

 

[Harley55]

I am a 64 y/o mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thinh. Is this a common phenomenon?

I was bicurious for years and heard so many stories in this site about how awesome it is once you get the courage to try it. Well I finally had the opportunity to try it and immediately it felt so natural and I loved it right away. Fast forward to now, I have 4 guys I can connect with on a semi regular basis. I am totally hooked. I still I’ve my wife and sex with her but I prefer cock, both sucking and getting fucked. Best decision I made in years.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I was bicurious for years and heard so many stories in this site about how awesome it is once you get the courage to try it. Well I finally had the opportunity to try it and immediately it felt so natural and I loved it right away. Fast forward to now, I have 4 guys I can connect with on a semi regular basis. I am totally hooked. I still I’ve my wife and sex with her but I prefer cock, both sucking and getting fucked. Best decision I made in years.

I love it when a plan comes together...

 

[rc1989]

Most guys that are older today were in there teens in the 70s and 80s when sex with another guy was forbidden. So if you were bi or gay you didnt act on it or did it discretely until you found a woman like I did. So your family didn't hate you.

For the record i sucked and got sucked and fucked and got fucked alot in my teens until I married.

 

[muycurioso]

My wife is still very interested in sex, but, alas, the medications she takes ruin her ability to orgasm. So no sex for us. I love her, and don't want to have an affair with a woman. Two dudes helping each other out works fine for me. I know it's rationalizing, but, since there's no emotional attachment, I'm okay with the occasional man on man action.

being newly divorced and having a wife hate. I miss just holding a woman tight, aka CUDDLING.

 

[J6222]

To a great extent I have to agree that our spouses losing interest in sex, for whatever reason, drives us to seek that missing connection with someone else, even if it's with another man. It's not just the sex, but the intimacy and passion. At least for me, it's an incredible turn-on to have my partner react to what I'm doing to/for them.

In my limited experience, I've found that I really enjoy pleasuring another man, slowly taking him to the edge until he can't take it any more. It's an amazing turn-on to make him explode!

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Didn't cost me anything near that but we have good medical cover.

Where are you in Australia? Brisbane here.

Ha! Tasmania. Bit of a stretch.

 

[Lee364]

Having that explosion hit your tongue, throat, or roof of your mouth is indeed a powerful feeling. I just love that I’m giving pleasure to someone. It’s quite a rush for me.

I would really like to experience that for the first time. I have fantasized about it for a while now and am looking for a clean/safe friend first with some experience and patients to teach me how to give a good blow job.

 

[saintcero]

I am a 64 y/o mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thinh. Is this a common phenomenon?

Why do old men get bi-curious? I have no idea. But I can tell you that I was thrilled when bi-curious became simply “bi”. Now I need to work on “bi experienced”.

 

[Series 6]

Why do old men get bi-curious? I have no idea. But I can tell you that I was thrilled when bi-curious became simply “bi”. Now I need to work on “bi experienced”.

I know that there is the Kubler-Ross stages of grief. Is there a similar thing for stages of bisexuality and what is each stage consisted of?

 

[2tallpaul]

Mine wasn't so much curious as having women that wanted multiple partners. One thing let to another and we are having a ball or two. The female lovers we have added are hotter than any I could find and the men are built too' I put away my homophobic fears years ago.

 

[Just2Kinky]

I don't think I was ever "curious". I was always "open" and then one day I was opened up and I loved it. Never looked back.

 

[69plus1]

I recently had a new thought on this. Yes everything mentioned is still true but I think it brought the excitement of the unknown back.
Remember way back when we were young and just starting to explore sexually? The excitement and fear of what was about to happen. Everything for the first time and the overwhelming feelings we were feeling for the first time. Will she, will I, how far will we go? Were all those thoughts and fantasies about to come true?
Well I was feeling that all over again.
That and the realization that we may have been brainwashed against something that is a shared experience between two, or more willing partners.

 

[MidTownBob]

In my case, I think that it stemmed from discovering bi/gay porn in my 40s. While I’d had limited exploration in my teens, my fear of being outed suppressed any desires that I might have had to continue my experimentation (this was the late 1960s & early 1970s). However, as I was in a sexless marriage at the time, finding how excited this type of porn made me opened my eyes to other possibilities (or, perhaps I should say, revealed interests that had always been there). Eventually, I decided to pursue activities with other men and the rest is history.

 

[Reggie2xx]

I sucked my first cock when I was in my late 50’s I’m now in my mid 70’s I still enjoy giving oral and swallowing. Married with no sex started my desire for man to man increased. Now semi retired not on the road at all. It’s hard to find someone now who will let me please them.

 

[tristantrotsky]

I recently had a new thought on this. Yes everything mentioned is still true but I think it brought the excitement of the unknown back.
Remember way back when we were young and just starting to explore sexually? The excitement and fear of what was about to happen. Everything for the first time and the overwhelming feelings we were feeling for the first time. Will she, will I, how far will we go? Were all those thoughts and fantasies about to come true?
Well I was feeling that all over again.
That and the realization that we may have been brainwashed against something that is a shared experience between two, or more willing partners.

Because these truths are persistent, and refuse to be silenced...

 

[Oldsucker]

The need cannot be contained. Well, I could not. Contain it…..

 

[Oldsucker]

and so….it overflows….into my mouth…when I have the opportunity.

 

[luv23way]

When I was mid-40s, T level dropping…I could feel myself changing. I was also in a MFM relationship, M was bi, and I enjoyed pleasing him because it made her hot! But, I enjoyed the feeling in my mouth…a soft, spongy cock growing hard and the more times I sucked his cock the more I enjoyed it. Almost like I could feel it myself, and it is still that way for me. I do not do it often for many reasons, but when I do..

 

[Crios]

When I was mid-40s, T level dropping…I could feel myself changing. I was also in a MFM relationship, M was bi, and I enjoyed pleasing him because it made her hot! But, I enjoyed the feeling in my mouth…a soft, spongy cock growing hard and the more times I sucked his cock the more I enjoyed it. Almost like I could feel it myself, and it is still that way for me. I do not do it often for many reasons, but when I do..

Do you have full on sex with him? If so, given your low T levels, do you bottom?

 

[timmy8]

I started getting interested in guys when in my mid 50's.Had a few encounters and enjoyed them.I like reading stories of guys who get curious later in life.There are a few here at lit.I'd like a story about two guys,mid 60's who have first-time exploring with each other.I'd welcome any suggestions.Thanks

 

[Series 6]

I've played with my cock for 50 years and thought it might be fun to play with an other.Also,this is weird,is it not so bad to just have sex play with a guy who wants only the same.Whereas you are not cheating with an other woman?

I think some guys would not view it as cheating, that they could rationalize it as a form of pornography. Kind of like how back in the days of AOL chat rooms you could go in and have some sexually charged chat encounters, but not consider it cheating. Kind of having a secret sexual fantasy without getting attached emotionally to a person.

 

[OlderBtm4U]

I think you're right about guys not seeing it as cheating. I know that's how I saw it.