Why do older men become bi-curious?

[straitupcurious]

Plenty reasons mentioned why older guys become bi-curious to various extents, and all seem individually valid. Being in that "older guy" group, we were raised in an era when such curiosities were firmly taboo. Do you think that it's just perhaps some guys are just hard wired to have a bi-curious interest and as society is more open now, as we get older we're more inclined to let those interests surface?

Bingo . This observation is spot on most especially sense almost everyone has a thread of bi-curiosity anyway then couple that with a more open society means more guys opening up to it.

 

[Newshowoff]

I can't speak for anyone but me, and I'm only 35, but I started to become bi curious when I started getting tired of always being in control. Professional life, private life, sex life. I crave sexual submission and it just seems like a more complete surrender with a man. The adrenaline surge and taboo aspect is there too

 

[cubbyfire04]

Been "bicurious" since my teens... But I had someone willing to explore that with me. Opportunity meets preparation? I don't think it's something you "become" as much as it's something you realize.

 

[martinfs]

me

I had always been a little curious but it was only when I was about 35 that I did anything about it (other than a very drunk snog in a nightclub when I was about 25)
I think the availability of internet porn helped, when I realised I was mostly wanking to gay porn I decided to do something about it.
Bathhouses work best for me, been going 4 or 5 times a year for over a decade till covid stopped it.
Never had a bad experience there, a couple of mediocre ones though.

 

[Dougos]

Some days I just don't feel the urge and wonder where the bi thoughts are coming from. Other days I'm so horny for it and would do almost anything for another cock. My thoughts are consistently inconsistent.

My thoughts exactly. There are days I wouldn’t entertain the thought of it and days that’s all I seem to think about.

 

[priscilla1730]

Because they can’t get it up.
So they want ppl who can get it up.
Whacko old men
Fuckin psychos!

Oh, you're sooooo enlightened Suzie

 

[hisplaceof]

I have 2 points of view on this from friends.

The first comes from a group of male married buddies who are all “he man this and he man that” whose wives give it up freely maybe once a month or on a very special occasion so the poor guys are always lacking. I read this “Why do older men become bi-curious?” asking their thoughts on it. First response was no way, not happening, dude why the heck are you reading something like that? As the night wore down the conversation circled back to it. Here’s what I got: I bet those older men are like us their wives never suck them off; I haven’t had anal sex in so long I’d F about anything backdoor, so I get why older guys might go there; we have always wanted more sex than our wives, why the heck can’t they be more like us, we get it guys and guys all wanting to get sucked and to F; I suppose if someone is going to suck you off you should be willing to return the favor somehow, at least a hand job, if not a suck, possible a F. By the end of the night they all got in from their point of view.

Second point of view comes from my wife’s circle. Bi married couples who openly eat, F, suck, share, play, and so forth. “Why do older men become bi-curious?”, Because many no longer have wives interested in sex or anywhere close to the same frequency, are single and men are easier to hook up with (no joke), they have opened up to a broader horizon, cock fantasies, cum fantasies/fetishes, even anal. Anal pleasures, orgasms are hard to compete with especially since they can be multiorgasmic and even as good and playing feels, there is still nothing as good as the real deal bareback there. They get that women can do everything but the real deal.

I do not know any single older men to ask and I am only attracted to women so I do not get any of the attraction stuff but I can see it as one poster put it, it’s the sex. I can see a penis being a focal point, and I get anal pleasuring, I also totally get the whole cum thing now. I see it as fun sex so I agree with that statement and the facts about the things only a real penis can do. So perhaps that’s why older men may become bi. Oh and I do agree with the whole men are probably easier to have sex with than women over all. I can’t remember but a few times in college when I’ve ever whipped out my penis and have ladies jump on the chance but we went to some gay bars on dares and we could have all gotten sucked off repeatedly until we could no longer walk if we had pulled them out (yes we saw it). The same went for mardi gras. Yes there were some drunk females willing to mess around but the men would almost attack you. Anyway that’s the scope of my thinking. I’m always trying to learn more.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

For me, it is the taboo factor and enjoying new experiences

 

[Brick1950]

The answer is ...

Why do older men become I curious ? Two words " sexless marriage "

If a guy who not getting anything at home he feels rightly or wrongly he looks elsewhere .

Elsewhere offen means another bi curious or even gay guy.

Wihile a curious guy sounds good gay guys are to host and boy do know how to suck and they want to swallow !

 

[Crios]

Why do older men become I curious ? Two words " sexless marriage "

If a guy who not getting anything at home he feels rightly or wrongly he looks elsewhere .

Elsewhere offen means another bi curious or even gay guy.

Wihile a curious guy sounds good gay guys are to host and boy do know how to suck and they want to swallow !

Certainly many become curious because of that. Not true in my case though. While we certainly don't fool around as much as we did when we were younger, my wife and I still have a pretty decent sex life. Hell, over the holidays, we were doing it like 4x/week. Not bad for a 65 yo guy (I DO need a little blue pill to help out).

 

[MrAngel]

Here to help

If any older men would like to chat or meet I’m available.

 

[Just2Kinky]

I am a 64 y/o mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thinh. Is this a common phenomenon?

Become curious? That would imply that there was a time when I wasn't "curious". I always thought both sexes were attractive... just took me until my 30s to run into an opportunity to explore all the combinations two men can find to "couple" in.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I never thought about cock until I was 66 (eight years ago). Then a woman told me she thought watching guys sucking was really hot.
And I thought, I've been missing out on half the population. I should try this before it's too late. So I did.

 

[Jaime1493]

I am a 64 y/o mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thinh. Is this a common phenomenon?

Yes, because once women go through the change their interest in sex disappears, at least it did in my house. I have be bi since I was 15, and I love gay sex.

 

[Crios]

Yes, because once women go through the change their interest in sex disappears, at least it did in my house. I have be bi since I was 15, and I love gay sex.

My wife's interest in sex and the ability of her body has dropped in the last couple of years after menopause. We still get it on at least once/week though. So I can't say that my becoming bi-curious is a result of that.

 

[Hawk66]

From my perspective as a female whose desires have widened over the years, I think it has to do with "permission."

Growing up in the "free" and noncomformist late 60s and early 70s, there was still a huge compulsion for one's noncomformity to conform. Same sex attraction wasn't part of the equation.

The older I get, the less I feel I have to fit someone else's view of what I should be.

At some point you don’t care about societal pressures. Internet porn is a part of it, but it is not the only factor. There are a myriad of reasons & it’s different for everyone.

 

[Hawk66]

I agree with that. a married friend is best in my opinion

Or a horny single friend.

 

[Hawk66]

I feel the Exact same way..but I have had a few wonerful experiences lately.The first time the cum explodes in your mouth... you will never forget it. Wish I could find a regular safe buddy.

Having that explosion hit your tongue, throat, or roof of your mouth is indeed a powerful feeling. I just love that I’m giving pleasure to someone. It’s quite a rush for me.

 

[slutindianwife]

coz they get impotent and cant fuck

 

[davion2308]

Guys get bi-curious as we get older because we get less concerned about pre-conceived notions about 'sexuality' and realize sex just feels good. And it's fun. There's an element of novelty and a want to try new or different things too and recognizing that we don't need to judge ourselves or worry if we want to try different sexy things makes us curious.

 

[44special]

I realized that I was curious long before I ever reached the 'older' stage. The bi feelings have increased over time.

 

[JHouston]

I have always had secret fantasies. But, it is easier to come out now than it was thirty years ago.

Also, the internet makes you realize you're not a lonely weirdo. Many other 'normal' people are turned on by the same thing. It is empowering to know you are not alone and that society is more tolerant (at least in some places).

 

[bimori]

Guys get bi-curious as we get older because we get less concerned about pre-conceived notions about 'sexuality' and realize sex just feels good. And it's fun. There's an element of novelty and a want to try new or different things too and recognizing that we don't need to judge ourselves or worry if we want to try different sexy things makes us curious.

I have been bi all of my life. I sucked my first cock long before I tasted my first pussy. I do love both for many different reasons. But nothing like the feel of a hard cock releasing hot cum into your mouth. Just love the feel and the taste.

 

[peterheer51]

Like many others here, the wife's menopause cut down the frequency too much for me.
Didn't want to cheat with a woman but became fascinated with the guys jerking off in xxxx theatres.
Graduated to touching and sucking with the guys in theatres.
No interest in anal or having them cum in my mouth.
Had prostate cancer so can no longer ejaculate. Consequently love watching guys ejaculate especially over my cock and then rubbing it in.
One upside is I have a penile implant so can stay hard for as long as I like, much better than viagra.
Had a regular suck buddy but he got too far into the sissy, humiliation thing and put me off.
Back to Mrs Palm unfortunately.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Like many others here, the wife's menopause cut down the frequency too much for me.
Didn't want to cheat with a woman but became fascinated with the guys jerking off in xxxx theatres.
Graduated to touching and sucking with the guys in theatres.
No interest in anal or having them cum in my mouth.
Had prostate cancer so can no longer ejaculate. Consequently love watching guys ejaculate especially over my cock and then rubbing it in.
One upside is I have a penile implant so can stay hard for as long as I like, much better than viagra.
Had a regular suck buddy but he got too far into the sissy, humiliation thing and put me off.
Back to Mrs Palm unfortunately.

I'm interested in the idea of an implant. I have an enlarged prostate, so some ED and no ejaculation. Can you tell me more, please?