Why do older men become bi-curious?

[peter49parker]

Well I thought this was all good advice ... right up until the last statement.

Why is there no going back? Where are there any barriers to a return to what you were doing - or not doing - before, except of your own creation?

Assuming you choose someone who is discreet and respectful, who will ever know except you two? You may be known to your partner as a guy who sucks cock; or you may be known to him as a guy who he knew sucked a cock, his cock, one time. And that would be as far as it ever goes. Done.

I've done some one-time things with wives and lovers that haven't left me known for that or anything else by anyone else.

I've eaten some things I didn't care for - and done so in public - and never eaten them again. However, I've never, as a result, come to be forever known as the guy who ate that.

It's like any number of other things in life that you try, don't care for, and never try again. That's all there is to it. There's absolutely no need for it to change your life forever. What you will be known forever as, is the guy that everyone who knows you has known forever.

I believe that if there's to be any internal conflict, there would be much more of that arising from never finding the courage to try something that you would really like to do. Personally, I'd find that much harder to live with.

I stand by my advice. If you don't get the point of the last statement ... think about it. It will come to you, or not.

 

[cuck72]

I stand by my advice. If you don't get the point of the last statement ... think about it. It will come to you, or not.

I agree, a specially if that guy you sucked tells even one other guy. I know there would be NO! going back if he told another friend That I sucked his cock. It would be great to keep it a secret between the two guys. But I do like the fantasy too, of him telling and I get a couple other guys to suck off. NO! turning back, a specially if you enjoy it. Word can get out real easy that you are a read cock sucker.

 

[peter49parker]

I agree, a specially if that guy you sucked tells even one other guy. I know there would be NO! going back if he told another friend That I sucked his cock. It would be great to keep it a secret between the two guys. But I do like the fantasy too, of him telling and I get a couple other guys to suck off. NO! turning back, a specially if you enjoy it. Word can get out real easy that you are a read cock sucker.

Well cuck72, you get it. It's like anything else you do for the first time. You can 'never' go back and un-fuck your girlfriend, just like you can never go back and un-suck a cock. And a secret is only a secret until someone talks.

 

[bimori]

Well cuck72, you get it. It's like anything else you do for the first time. You can 'never' go back and un-fuck your girlfriend, just like you can never go back and un-suck a cock. And a secret is only a secret until someone talks.

Well I guess that once you have sucked your 1st cock you are at least not bi curious anymore. This also doesn’t mean that you don’t like women it just means that you may also enjoy cock and what that can offer you.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I've thought

about this a lot since I sucked my first cock, about seven years ago. And I think it's about the enjoyment, the physical, mental, animal enjoyment of sex, whether it involves cocks, cunts, arseholes, whatever.

 

[partsecond]

Why?

Why do older men get more BI as we get older?

Because we get smarter, care less about what people thing, and more willing to be the person we really were the whole time.

 

[peter49parker]

Well I guess that once you have sucked your 1st cock you are at least not bi curious anymore. This also doesn’t mean that you don’t like women it just means that you may also enjoy cock and what that can offer you.

Exactly, bimori. It doesn't mean that one has to give up women or their desire for them. If anything it just gives you another 'tool' to get the job done with. And, yes, it sure puts an end to the bi curious 'stage' of your life in a hurry.

 

[priscilla1730]

Why do older men get more BI as we get older?

Because we get smarter, care less about what people thing, and more willing to be the person we really were the whole time.

So true! Wish i had the confidence to have tried it when i was in my 20s. Now, all i want is for a bromance with a guy whose wife is as hot as I am horny.

 

[MarriedMumbaiMom]

Because they can’t get it up.
So they want ppl who can get it up.
Whacko old men
Fuckin psychos!

 

[Wageslave]

Because they can’t get it up.
So they want ppl who can get it up.
Whacko old men
Fuckin psychos!

Always a pleasure to hear the voice of reason and tolerance

 

[saintcero]

Because they can’t get it up.
So they want ppl who can get it up.
Whacko old men
Fuckin psychos!

But Aarti, the thread title says ‘Bi curious’. I have not given up on pussy. I have just opened another door to explore sex. I would still be curious about pushing (and twisting) your buttons.

 

[Marty Fisher]

Always a pleasure to hear the voice of reason and tolerance

Hahaha - truer words were never spoken Wageslave!

 

[ozdui]

My first m2m was when i was 21 and was mainly at glory holes getting sucked and sucking. Guilt and shame led to me stopping. Now I am older I realise I was wasting time! So now I crossdress, suck and offer myself to men women and crossdressers.

 

[sultrysandy]

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Hey Marty Fisher!


You joined the ranks of the more than seven dozen scum to troll my threads, having no regard for others, and caring only about yourself. Despite being explicitly posted, you decided to post what you wanted.

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This forum is GLBT Chatter, not guys posting whatever sexually explicit girl-on-girl porn made for guys they want. That is considered hetero.
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Guys, do not post Sexually Explicit Images, displayed or as links
This has recently become quite a problem. Guys think because this thread is Lesbians that they can post whatever girl-on-girl sexually explicit porn for guys they want. That is made for the y-chromosome, not females.

Buckle up Buttercup and enjoy the ride
You just Flipped my Bitch Switch

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One more thing, considering posting rules haven’t been enforced, and guys been getting away posting genitals, sexually explicit, and copyrighted photos. However your posts have been removed by chargergirl and Laurel. Go ahead and ask your friends what that means.

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[priscilla1730]

Oh the irony! You're into BBC, voyeur and cuckold fantasies. Kettle meet pot!

Because they can’t get it up.
So they want ppl who can get it up.
Whacko old men
Fuckin psychos!

 

[Empirestateguy]

I became attracted to men later in life too mostly from watching internet porn and mostly enjoying scenes where women would service multiple cocks at once. Also wife wasn’t into sex as much as I was. After years of being curious had my first experience about 5 years ago and now am a full fledged bisexual. Love sucking, getting sucked and getting fucked. Only regret is I don’t get to be with a man as often as I like, maybe once a month, because I am also married to a women. Had a few group situations where I felt like a kid in a candy shop on my knees with multiple cocks in my face. I can honestly say that I now enjoy sex with a man more than a women.

Next time you're going to that "candy shop" again, let me know, sounds like fun.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Originally Posted by Doogiedoogie View Post
I am a 64 y/o mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thing. Is this a common phenomenon?

There does seems to be a trend. It has been surprising, and nice, just to be open and chat, or exchange messages, about common interests with other guys around our age that admit to being more and more bi-curious with age.
Its nice to know there are others out there.

 

[saintcero]

Not only curious but also bottom preferential

Along with the trend for older men to become bi curious or even bi ‘was curious’, doesn’t it seem that the tendency is to prefer to be a bottom or at least vers but bottom preferred? Why do bottoms outnumber TOPS?

 

[jimmyturtleman]

Along with the trend for older men to become bi curious or even bi ‘was curious’, doesn’t it seem that the tendency is to prefer to be a bottom or at least vers but bottom preferred? Why do bottoms outnumber TOPS?

Here's my theory. By the time we get older a lot of our 'equipment' isn't working as well as it used to. So. it's more likely that we make better bottoms than tops. Besides, most of us have been the 'fucker' for lack of a better term, and we want to experience what it's like to get fucked for a change of pace. Variety.

 

[Samisstout]

Here's my theory. By the time we get older a lot of our 'equipment' isn't working as well as it used to. So. it's more likely that we make better bottoms than tops. Besides, most of us have been the 'fucker' for lack of a better term, and we want to experience what it's like to get fucked for a change of pace. Variety.

I like that theory

 

[n8Romantic]

Good theory!

Here's my theory. By the time we get older a lot of our 'equipment' isn't working as well as it used to. So. it's more likely that we make better bottoms than tops. Besides, most of us have been the 'fucker' for lack of a better term, and we want to experience what it's like to get fucked for a change of pace. Variety.

What jimmy said.

 

[youwant2]

Me

I've lost a lot of my ability to get hard and it's been quite a while since I could. Does it bother me that I can't, sure it makes me feel a little less of a man in some respects, because I can't preform like I once did. So I've decided that if I'm going to have any sex I am going to have to be a bottom. It's sort of odd that I've been reading and watching porn when this all happened, I'm a virgin to sucking and anal, but now that's all I want, I have no desire to attempt to have sex with a woman. What's that make me, I'm not sure. If you want to call me gay, I don't much care, all I want is to find the right man to have sex with and until then fantasize preferably with a partner and try to make him happy.

 

[saintcero]

It is just as Robd63 wrote above. My jerk off fantasies involved sub bottom gay sex for most of my life but my active sex life was strictly heterosexual. My age, my married sex life, sites such as Lit and Silverdaddies have softened the barriers I had against M2M. Guys do not turn me on like a woman does but a veiny cock sure does catch my eye.

Lewis

 

[WhiskeyLvr]

It is just as Robd63 wrote above. My jerk off fantasies involved sub bottom gay sex for most of my life but my active sex life was strictly heterosexual. My age, my married sex life, sites such as Lit and Silverdaddies have softened the barriers I had against M2M. Guys do not turn me on like a woman does but a veiny cock sure does catch my eye.

Lewis

Agreed. I still gaze longingly at beautiful women; there is nothing more visually pleasing. But my sex life and fantasies revolve around men and cock, in a very subservient way.

 

[tml20]

I am a 64 y/o mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thinh. Is this a common phenomenon?

MWM here. It started for me a few years ago..sometime I wake up and cock / cum is all I can think about!