I agree, it has happened with me. I fantasize about younger men sometimes. Don't know the reason though.
Why do older men become bi-curious?
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I agree, it has happened with me. I fantasize about younger men sometimes. Don't know the reason though.
peter49parker
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And that's how guys can work it out in their minds. Just a night out with the 'boys.' As for the women folk getting them some pussy while we are out sucking cock... I say go for it. Get as much as they like and hey, throw in some fat, hard cocks too.
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The way it is for me is my wife has had bad health for many years now and has zero sexy drive. I’m still as horny as I was in my 30’s early sixties now. But still need to have a sexual release. I’ve always love the taste of cum and been bi all of my life. I just have to need to be pleased and also have the need to please others.
I think it's actually natural
For me, it seems to be just the natural progression from sexual activity being purpose driven(procreation/child rearing) to purely a pursuit of pleasure. Once I realized that my "work was done" with regard to traditional norms, I opened my mind to all of the possibilities that were available. That and no longer giving a fuck about societal norms, allowed me to realize that there are so many different things I'm ready and willing to do.
For me, that only came with age and some wisdom...not that teenage circle jerks weren't fun, but really not the same thing....
For me, it seems to be just the natural progression from sexual activity being purpose driven(procreation/child rearing) to purely a pursuit of pleasure. Once I realized that my "work was done" with regard to traditional norms, I opened my mind to all of the possibilities that were available. That and no longer giving a fuck about societal norms, allowed me to realize that there are so many different things I'm ready and willing to do.
For me, that only came with age and some wisdom...not that teenage circle jerks weren't fun, but really not the same thing....
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I don’t mean to hijack this thread, but can anyone recommend a story from the non-forum side of Literotica that speaks to us late bloomers?
I second the request
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Being a late bloomer myself, you could always give my stories a read.
I'm with you, Middleman. Fear of disease puts a damper on getting this to happen for me. It would take an intimate and long friendship to allow me the trust to make this happen again, do now I live through writing about it. One of these days, I'll start submitting my stories to Literotica.
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Real personal experience stories? I always love reading them.
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Hello from Massachusetts. 56 bi curious
56 also. Welcome to the bi club.
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I think that we appreciate abd crave the opportunity to cum.
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nailed it
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Some days I just don't feel the urge and wonder where the bi thoughts are coming from. Other days I'm so horny for it and would do almost anything for another cock. My thoughts are consistently inconsistent.
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Do you find that sites like Lit and SilverDaddies tend to increase your interest substantially?
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Without a doubt. I've never checked out SD, but Lit and Tumblr certainly do. The availability of gay and trans porn on X-hamster have become go-to's. I think more than anything it is the real people on Lit discussing what they do that has made me realize that it's acceptable and possible.
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I don't think we "became" bi curious. It's more like we shed skin, un-needed baggage we've carried since childhood. Totally buying into the heterosexual construct of what's right and what's wrong. It takes awhile and no small amount of courage to recognize these once forbidden desires. Should we succeed in escaping the past's moral death grip, we realize our bisexuality not a sickness.
Yeah, look at the Americans' Self-Identified Sexual Orientation, by Generation figure here.
https://news.gallup.com/poll/329708/lgbt-identification-rises-latest-estimate.aspx
Gone from 0.3% self identifying as bisexual to 11.5% among Gen Z. I'd say that's directly due to more acceptance.
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I think you hit it right on the head. Older people of both genders often start dropping their boundaries and barriers around taboo subjects in older age, but not always. And it just makes just us younger people that love older very very very happy
Well to the point
Well stated, n8. After all, when you sit, as so many of us apparently have at this point, and thoroughly think it through, there's no logical reason why we shouldn't enjoy playing with either sex.
I know I repeat myself here, but the cock simply doesn't know or care where its pleasure comes from, does it? Nope, it's all up there in the big head, isn't it? You just need to do some housecleaning. I know it's often a hard thing to begin, but then you feel so good about the results.
The saddest part of all is seeing mile after mile of the endless posts from guys who profess so much longing and desire ... but then do nothing about it, and often proceed to throw up any number of self-imposed barriers to any real action toward the satisfaction of their curiosity or outright desire. We are so often our own worst enemies.
You need not announce it to the world; just declare to yourself that you're going to try it, and then do whatever you need to do to actually make it happen. You know that nobody is going to kick down your front door, charge in and pull your pants down while you're still sitting inert on the couch with a head full of unfulfilled fantasies. You have to get out there and actually do what (or who) you say you want to do.
When you read the many, many accounts of guys who are so thoroughly into the joys and pleasures of their bisexuality, you just need to remember that they were once where you are now. Then they reached out for the prize. We wish you the best. Hell, maybe one of us will be the one you reach out to.
Well stated, n8. After all, when you sit, as so many of us apparently have at this point, and thoroughly think it through, there's no logical reason why we shouldn't enjoy playing with either sex.
I know I repeat myself here, but the cock simply doesn't know or care where its pleasure comes from, does it? Nope, it's all up there in the big head, isn't it? You just need to do some housecleaning. I know it's often a hard thing to begin, but then you feel so good about the results.
The saddest part of all is seeing mile after mile of the endless posts from guys who profess so much longing and desire ... but then do nothing about it, and often proceed to throw up any number of self-imposed barriers to any real action toward the satisfaction of their curiosity or outright desire. We are so often our own worst enemies.
You need not announce it to the world; just declare to yourself that you're going to try it, and then do whatever you need to do to actually make it happen. You know that nobody is going to kick down your front door, charge in and pull your pants down while you're still sitting inert on the couch with a head full of unfulfilled fantasies. You have to get out there and actually do what (or who) you say you want to do.
When you read the many, many accounts of guys who are so thoroughly into the joys and pleasures of their bisexuality, you just need to remember that they were once where you are now. Then they reached out for the prize. We wish you the best. Hell, maybe one of us will be the one you reach out to.
I agree with these guys. I fantasized for most of my adult life and was to afraid to act on it. Finally I stopped worrying about what friends and family would say and just acted on my desires.
I am not out by any means, I just keep it to myself and whoever I interact with.
It is fun on many levels and and I will continue to enjoy the sexual company of men and women.
Be safe but let yourself have some honest fun.
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