The Sexuality of Women in Their 40's and 50's

[amandate]

I also found my sex drive has gone up in mid to late 30's at the same time my husband works oversea. I don't know if the fact that he works oversea and not seeing each other causing higher sex drive when we intimate or it is biological. The other thing may come into play though is we have more quality time together when we meet. All may come to play. He always has higher sex drive than me. I also find myself taking the time to enjoy more instead of are_we_done_yet? Haha.

 

[Kelleebabes]

I blossomed like a hot house flower once I turned fifty...Who would have ever thought that turning "that number "...that dreaded number ...the big 50... the number that's known for it's own section of sad, supposedly humorous birthday cards that denote the honorific personal demise of someone's happiness because of turning an age that the general public considers "Over the Hill"...who would have ever thought that once I tuned fifty...I would truly no longer feel the need, desire or longing to be any other age other than what I am..and now, at 56, I'm still actively blooming, full flower! , on a strong vine doing nothing but carrying me upwards...twisting and wrapping around anything and everything that is willing to support the weight of this woman, with a personal agenda of self fulfilment...of developing my sexual and sensual abilities...a vine that holds tight so it can support the heavy, juicy, full flavoured character fruit...which is known by many to be called Kelleebabes

 

[srgreene]

Older women are amazing in bed and they can take more then younger women i know of that for sure

Well I'm glad to be considered amazing in bed, but no way can I compete with my younger self! I could wear out just about any man in my teens/twenties ... even thirties. Now? Being wet but not really slippery is not a great prescription for hours of entertainment!

 

[flanneland]

I blossomed like a hot house flower once I turned fifty...Who would have ever thought that turning "that number "...that dreaded number ...the big 50... the number that's known for it's own section of sad, supposedly humorous birthday cards that denote the honorific personal demise of someone's happiness because of turning an age that the general public considers "Over the Hill"...who would have ever thought that once I tuned fifty...I would truly no longer feel the need, desire or longing to be any other age other than what I am..and now, at 56, I'm still actively blooming, full flower! , on a strong vine doing nothing but carrying me upwards...twisting and wrapping around anything and everything that is willing to support the weight of this woman, with a personal agenda of self fulfilment...of developing my sexual and sensual abilities...a vine that holds tight so it can support the heavy, juicy, full flavoured character fruit...which is known by many to be called Kelleebabes

Too bad that doesn't happen with all women.

 

[greystardust]

I just turned 46. I've always been very sexual and gotten turned on easily, but I've been like a teenage boy the last few months. The littlest thing makes me horny. My pussy is almost constantly wet, and I think about the bodies of everyone I encounter, how they look when they cum, how they like to fuck, how they'd taste. I figure it has to be hormonal.

god that is sexy - you're dynamite

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

D(.)(.)

I'm way over 50. My 50's were amazing sexual years. It was like a re awakening.
Yet as I get even older, my body says I'm too old for sex, my mind says fuck every man you can find. A mind is a terrible thing to waste so I listen to the voices in my head.

 

[greystardust]

I have to agree with what seems to be the consensus here, my Libido has definitely gone up since turning 40. My husband is away alot and we've discussed outlets, hence why I initially came here, just to explore. I am 45 now, and now only one of the kids still lives at home when they aren't at Uni. It'll hopefully give me a lot more time to explore myself, and I seem to develop more and more different likes and fantasies. Unfortunately, I haven't had the time or opportunity yet to explore them all as some of you have! (All though I have done more than a bit) I can't say I am not looking forward to it! But until all the kids are gone, It'll have to be Lit with some RL exploration, rather than exploration with some Lit xx

lovely, love it Av

 

[SubmissiveMom]

Lol x check out my posts and Tumblr Lisa and all of you here x I'm 50 now, and not ashamed to admit that my libido is higher than most in their 20's and 30's I think x I'm hornier than ever and insanely lustful to explore further, even the most taboo before I get too old, lol x I just lack the freedom with my present partner, maybe I should leave him and return to my od and more adventurous x x x

 

[carlsnake]

We are past our 50's now, but when we were in our 40's and the children left home, it opened a whole new world of sexuality for us. No longer did sex have to be in the bedroom or even inside the house. Sexual frequency and satisfaction went up for both of us. Now that we have passed 60, the frequency is down, but as last night showed, the excitement and satisfaction is still there.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I was about to say

that this thread should include women in their 60s too.

 

[mikendel]

I would like to hear from others, particularly other women, about their experiences with sex in their 40's and 50's. I am 47 and almost a year ago I became a new sexual being. It has grown and grown since then. I am not sure if it's hormonal, the physical relief of my kids getting older and me not being so exhausted all the time, or what.

Usually you hear that women my age have sex drives that are declining, but mine is the opposite. I'd love to hear from other ladies about how your body and mind and libido has changed as you've gotten older.

I am feeling the same as you. My sex drive is through the roof!!! I am 50 now.

 

[guns44]

I have a huge fantasy of being "seduced" by an older woman. I've had this fantasy since I was 15, there is just something about an older woman

 

[windwater]

http://largmaturebabes.tumblr.com/post/142273622893

 

[guns44]

http://largmaturebabes.tumblr.com/post/142273622893

Perfection

 

[oggyoggy]

I've got to sacrifice a chicken or something hoping this sexual epiphany happens with my wife. She's 59 and hasn't experienced what's been described here.

 

[roc23]

http://largmaturebabes.tumblr.com/post/142273622893

I'd wife her.

 

[lantern88]

I blossomed like a hot house flower once I turned fifty...Who would have ever thought that turning "that number "...that dreaded number ...the big 50... the number that's known for it's own section of sad, supposedly humorous birthday cards that denote the honorific personal demise of someone's happiness because of turning an age that the general public considers "Over the Hill"...who would have ever thought that once I tuned fifty...I would truly no longer feel the need, desire or longing to be any other age other than what I am..and now, at 56, I'm still actively blooming, full flower! , on a strong vine doing nothing but carrying me upwards...twisting and wrapping around anything and everything that is willing to support the weight of this woman, with a personal agenda of self fulfilment...of developing my sexual and sensual abilities...a vine that holds tight so it can support the heavy, juicy, full flavoured character fruit...which is known by many to be called Kelleebabes

As a younger man who is greatly attracted to more mature women, I love this post, you are an amazing woman

 

[greystardust]

I'm way over 50. My 50's were amazing sexual years. It was like a re awakening.
Yet as I get even older, my body says I'm too old for sex, my mind says fuck every man you can find. A mind is a terrible thing to waste so I listen to the voices in my head.

I'd love to meet you darlin - love that mind

 

[misterb64]

I've got to sacrifice a chicken or something hoping this sexual epiphany happens with my wife. She's 59 and hasn't experienced what's been described here.

Same here!!! WTF do I have to do to get her mind off of the thousand other things that seem to be more important and back in the gutter with mine?

 

[Thomasoir]

I've talked to a few of the women that I am close to who are my age. That is to say over 50. They all report the same thing. Libido is through the roof. Older, wiser, and sexier than ever. A nice place to be.

 

[VampirTARA]

I am 40 years old and I am hornier than I ever was in my teens or twenties. 90% of the time my pussy feels like a collapsing star ready to explode like a supernova. With more energy than the Energizer Bunny I just want to fuck like a jack rabbit anymore... .....

 

[eroticspank]

I've talked to a few of the women that I am close to who are my age. That is to say over 50. They all report the same thing. Libido is through the roof. Older, wiser, and sexier than ever. A nice place to be.

I wonder how many women whose libido is through the roof find it hard to tell their husband? If your normal sex life is maybe once a month or once every two months, I imagine it is hard for some women to tell their husbands they are much more hornier than before.

ES

 

[HesterP]

I am late 40's and I am not sure my libido is any higher than it was when younger but I am much more experienced, know what I like and am more willing to let my partner know what I want. I suspect the key may be that at this age we have more time to think and act on sex. The kids are grown and we have fewer demands on our time. I enjoyed sex in my 30's but there always seemed to be too many things that needed doing and problems to be dealt with.

 

[HighPlainsDrifter]

Same here!!! WTF do I have to do to get her mind off of the thousand other things that seem to be more important and back in the gutter with mine?

Ditto! My arms are tired and I'm spending a fortune on lube. I'd much rather be using it with her. #nearlysexless

 

[Spenser41]

I am 40 years old and I am hornier than I ever was in my teens or twenties. 90% of the time my pussy feels like a collapsing star ready to explode like a supernova. With more energy than the Energizer Bunny I just want to fuck like a jack rabbit anymore... .....

Wow.... I would say you are in a major fucking mode..... What a wild ride that would be....