Kink(s) your partner caught you doing and liked it………

My husband & I recently discovered he likes being blindfolded... that's about as far as we've gotten, LOL. Not long ago, I also attached straps (& long scarves) to the bed in the guest bedroom. I'm pretty sure I eventually told him about the straps. And that I'd like him to use on me, but no such luck. (The straps are all releasable by me, I don't want to be truly tied up... I describe this a very mild bondage, LOL.)
Keep encouraging him to be open to your desires - he'll warm to the idea to at least try it. My GF (later wife) wanted to play with some mild bondage and tied me to the bed spread eagled with light rope. She then proceeded to tease me with a feather (I was very ticklish at that time!), tongue, fingers and a riding crop (stroking rather than hitting). It went on for a while and I was more than a little hot and bothered - and she enjoyed creating the 'ups & downs' as much as I did having them. Just when I thought (hoped/prayed) she was going to take advantage of my state, the door bell rang and she went to answer it. A mutual friend from college had popped in to see her and I could hear their voices as she'd left the bedroom door wide open. My GF offered coffee and they sat and chatted while I was nervously spread on the bed naked with a feather and the crop beside me. Knowing that, if the friend wanted to use the loo which was directly opposite the bedroom, I'd be totally sprung, I had to release myself from the bonds and get dressed before casually walking out into the lounge area much to both of their surprise. The friend's comment of, "Oh, hi... you're here too." told me it wasn't a set up but, in my wildest wanking fantasies years later, I wondered if the GF would have had the friend catch me tied up and what would have happened. :love:
 
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I've been fucking a married woman who I met professionally through work. She's not my partner but often leaves he stockings or tights for me to play with after we've spent the night together. She knows i like to roll it over my cock and have a wank with them and then i tell her all about it when we meet up. She says it turns her on knowing that I'm jerking off inside her discarded stockings.
 
In my hetero marriage, my husband has never caught me at anything, 1st because I'm fairly vanilla, but also because I'm honest with him. For example, he knows... I masturbate, often more than 1x per day... what toys I have... that I take nude pictures of myself (sometimes I send to him)... that I'm on Lit & sexting with horny guys.
However, I'm considering getting a butt plug, for him (I think he might enjoy it). But maybe I'll say its for me, or let him catch me with it. I'm not sure he'll immediately warm up to the idea of a butt plug. But he does enjoy a little anal, with just my index finger, minimal movement, & no deeper than to reach his prostate. I let him do whatever movement he wants & push further down on my finger if he wants it. It took some years before I introduced him to anal stimulation, but now its a fairly common part of our sex & I can feel his contractions from it.
So sexy honey
 
My wife knows I’m turned on by wearing panties and hose, by being blindfolded and bound, and by the thought of being pegged, but she’s rejected them all, though she tried the blindfold and panties once.
 
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Hello fellow Litarians! I am curious to find whether anyone else had a kink or fetish that they kept secret from a partner, something you did alone but were caught doing by a partner but instead of being angry or disgusted they actually found it arousing and allow you to bring it in to the bedroom, so to speak.

Since I acquired a couple of Glamour porn magazines when I was a young teen I’ve been fascinated, fixated by ladies hosiery. Stockings and garter (suspender) belt, thigh high (holdups) and pantyhose (tights). The ‘models’ in the magazines all wore them and I masturbated over them for hours. As I got older, I dated girls / women that wore them to feed my growing habit which had become a fetish.

My now ex-wife wore the full repertoire. Pantyhose and thigh highs for work and stockings and a belt for the bedroom. We both worked and I often came home after her. She had this habit of tossing her wore pantyhose or stockings in to the bath to wash. I would often help with the washing, soaping up her hose while masturbating with them in the shower.

One day my ex had gone to work and it was my day off and she’d left a note reminding me to empty the bins and put them out for the next morning’s collection. I forgot to do them until early evening and hurried around empty the house bins. I picked up the bathroom bin and found a pair of discarded pantyhose which she’d obviously snagged. I couldn’t resist slipping in to them and masturbating, making a hole for my long, proud cock to go through. I was happily wanking away when my ex unexpectedly walked in to the bedroom. She’d caught me wanking several times and went ape about it saying I was doing it over other women so I expected the worst but when she saw me and my bigger than usual proud cock (8”+) a dirty smile lit up her face and she hitched her dress up moved her panties and rode the fuck out of me for half an hour, her thigh high rubbing against the pantyhose I was wearing. It became part of our sexual routine. She’d leave me a pair and I’d put them on lying in bed and she’d come in to bed wearing pantyhose too and we’d fuck for hours, sliding nylon on nylon until we were both satisfied.

We got divorced after issues but I still seek women that wear hosiery and hope they don’t mind me slipping in to a pair of sheer pantyhose for great kinky sex!
I'd say being a naughty wife of hot wife. Now I never really cheated on my husband but I did find it exciting. For fun if my husband was out of town or out with his friends I'd dress up a bit on the slutty side and attach a toy to a giant stuffed Gorilla I have. I'd then roleplay that another man was fucking me and I was cheating.

One day during work I was super horny and wanted to play my naughty game so bad. During my lunch break I'd quickly drove home to have my fun. On the way home my husband called to say hi and we chatted as I drove. When I got home I told him I was going to grab some lunch and said my goodbyes. I tossed my phone into my purse and quickly made my way into our bedroom. I got my giant gorilla strapped up and stripped down while enjoying my naughty talk and game as I got my relief.

As I was dressing I heard an odd noise and after doing some searching discovered I had never actually ended the call with my husband and he just heard everything. Now we have cameras at our house to both watch the property and to watch our dogs so he knew I was alone and I told him it had just been some naughty masturbation. He said whatever it had been it had been hot because he had gone into the bathroom and jacked off to me getting off.

From there we talked more about things like threesomes and some other kinks we wanted to try and if it was good to leave them as fantasies or to have some fun and we went from there.
 
When I’d buy my wife dildos I’d buy the ones I liked because I knew I’d be sneaking around using them myself .
Wife caught me when i was lookng at dildo ,which i can,t say because i don,t want to be banned,but it,s a best friend...So she demanded me to buy one and put a performance on in front of her,and it,s her kinky fetish fav to see how much i love to ride this big dildo,she loves it when i,m such a slut
 

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Wife caught me when i was lookng at dildo ,which i can,t say because i don,t want to be banned,but it,s a best friend...So she demanded me to buy one and put a performance on in front of her,and it,s her kinky fetish fav to see how much i love to ride this big dildo,she loves it when i,m such a slut
I love me some slutty wives
 
Not exactly ‘caught’ me doing, but I love ass worship. I would keep sort of letting my tongue stray down a little when I was giving my wife head, and she eventually worked out that this was no accident and that she liked it a lot. So, yeah, now we’re at the point where she knows how much I love rimming her - and often invites me to.
 
"You've never seen a woman play with a banana before", I said, looking my husband in the eyes as I slid the large curved fruit up and down between my tits. I thought the poor man would cum right there. Mind you I was 28, he was 26 and married less than a year. A few minutes later I was laying on our bed, fucking myself with the bare fruit as my guy jerked off on me. I then pulled it out and broke it in half. Making him eat one pussy soaked end, while I dragged my half through his cum and up to my lips. That's when he learned I occasionally have a thing for food play.
 
In my hetero marriage, my husband has never caught me at anything, 1st because I'm fairly vanilla, but also because I'm honest with him. For example, he knows... I masturbate, often more than 1x per day... what toys I have... that I take nude pictures of myself (sometimes I send to him)... that I'm on Lit & sexting with horny guys.
However, I'm considering getting a butt plug, for him (I think he might enjoy it). But maybe I'll say its for me, or let him catch me with it. I'm not sure he'll immediately warm up to the idea of a butt plug. But he does enjoy a little anal, with just my index finger, minimal movement, & no deeper than to reach his prostate. I let him do whatever movement he wants & push further down on my finger if he wants it. It took some years before I introduced him to anal stimulation, but now its a fairly common part of our sex & I can feel his contractions from it.
You don’t sound very vanilla to me, I love a butt plug. I’ve never had a finger from someone else and want it.
 
In my hetero marriage, my husband has never caught me at anything, 1st because I'm fairly vanilla, but also because I'm honest with him. For example, he knows... I masturbate, often more than 1x per day... what toys I have... that I take nude pictures of myself (sometimes I send to him)... that I'm on Lit & sexting with horny guys.
However, I'm considering getting a butt plug, for him (I think he might enjoy it). But maybe I'll say its for me, or let him catch me with it. I'm not sure he'll immediately warm up to the idea of a butt plug. But he does enjoy a little anal, with just my index finger, minimal movement, & no deeper than to reach his prostate. I let him do whatever movement he wants & push further down on my finger if he wants it. It took some years before I introduced him to anal stimulation, but now its a fairly common part of our sex & I can feel his contractions from it.
I would love it if the wife bought me a butt plug. It was more of a taboo thing a few decades ago - but these days I'd try pretty much anything with my partner - just a shame she has gone the other way - more vanilla than ever.
 
She didn't catch me, I volunteered.

I was pretty sure no other guy had opened up, to these practices in particular (her tales of her exes were not exactly fond memories), but I didn't want the kind of marriage where I couldn't be me, so ...

I told her that beyond simply enjoying seeing her (and other women--looking at/reading porn/erotica was NOT something to be ashamed of, for EITHER of us) wearing lingerie, but that I wanted to use her bras and panties to masturbate with and ejaculate into. Further, I told her about wanting to (I had never yet) jerk off with a stocking on my cock (a stocking SHE owned) and about the ONE time I jerked off into a coworker's high-heeled shoe without the coworker's knowledge or permission. Up to this point, she was a (yech) pantyhose girl (practical--but NOT sexy once the skirt/dress was hiked up or taken off--YMMV), so we (me!) bought her old-fashioned nylons (flesh-toned, black, surprisingly readily available at any good department store [we had one at the time--today it's all web-web-web], white tough [I was man enough to shop the ladies' hosiery section in a department store; a bridal shop was a bit too pervy for me--in hindsight, brides-to-be, but probably not their moms, would have been a little turned on at the implications of a "skunk at the picnic"]; red just wasn't me [FASCINATING how red replaces black for my black guy friends' imaginations]). Nylons were easy. Sexy garter belts? I would have had an easier accessing the formula for Coca-Cola.

But I persevered. She never wore heels (such a story from our wedding!), so that fun never got off the ground.

But stockings? Tied around the balls she loved to play with? ("Kinda how it all starts, I guess.") Uh-huh. Leather ball-separator. Not comfortable for me; tequila-class lose-your-shit for her. (OF COURSE I let her! You telling me you think she doesn't/wouldn't trade some of her discomfort or even pain for your pleasure? IDIOT--go back to school. Push-up bras? "Sexy, and 'my own grandmother wouldn't recognize me,' but not exactly comfy." Go ahead, ask her.)

I guess this is a long way of saying--as much as your partner might not LOVE your kinks, they'd rather you share them and give them a chance to indulge as many as they can than you hiding them or worse, outsourcing them. Respect their limits (which are not chiseled in stone, I found out) and GIRLS ESPECIALLY: It's really okay to let him know if you have special buttons to press, just like you want to know his.
 
My wife discovered my stash of pantyhose (tights for us here in the UK) and as a consequence now knows that I like to wear them for masturbation. She has worn tights and bodystockings for sex and seemingly enjoys it, and allows me to wear nylon briefs with a penis sheath.
Very recently we travelled somewhere very cold and I wore tights with no underwear, for the purposes of keeping warm under my jeans but also in the vain hope she would see how turned on I get when I wear them. All she could say was that she found the sight "disturbing".
She has even said in the past that she worries that wearing them will "turn me gay" so what was I to expect?
My tights activities are therefore somewhat open in our marriage but she knows only a fraction of what I get up to in provate with my nylon fetish and I suspect it will stay that way now
 
An ex caught me sniffing a pair of her knickers while I was wearing another pair wanking, turns out she loved it, ended up with my cock in her mouth and a vibrator in my ass. After that she would buy pairs she wanted to see me in and would leave her dirty ones in my work bag
Would love to be caught in this state
 
Hello fellow Litarians! I am curious to find whether anyone else had a kink or fetish that they kept secret from a partner, something you did alone but were caught doing by a partner but instead of being angry or disgusted they actually found it arousing and allow you to bring it in to the bedroom, so to speak.

Since I acquired a couple of Glamour porn magazines when I was a young teen I’ve been fascinated, fixated by ladies hosiery. Stockings and garter (suspender) belt, thigh high (holdups) and pantyhose (tights). The ‘models’ in the magazines all wore them and I masturbated over them for hours. As I got older, I dated girls / women that wore them to feed my growing habit which had become a fetish.

My now ex-wife wore the full repertoire. Pantyhose and thigh highs for work and stockings and a belt for the bedroom. We both worked and I often came home after her. She had this habit of tossing her wore pantyhose or stockings in to the bath to wash. I would often help with the washing, soaping up her hose while masturbating with them in the shower.

One day my ex had gone to work and it was my day off and she’d left a note reminding me to empty the bins and put them out for the next morning’s collection. I forgot to do them until early evening and hurried around empty the house bins. I picked up the bathroom bin and found a pair of discarded pantyhose which she’d obviously snagged. I couldn’t resist slipping in to them and masturbating, making a hole for my long, proud cock to go through. I was happily wanking away when my ex unexpectedly walked in to the bedroom. She’d caught me wanking several times and went ape about it saying I was doing it over other women so I expected the worst but when she saw me and my bigger than usual proud cock (8”+) a dirty smile lit up her face and she hitched her dress up moved her panties and rode the fuck out of me for half an hour, her thigh high rubbing against the pantyhose I was wearing. It became part of our sexual routine. She’d leave me a pair and I’d put them on lying in bed and she’d come in to bed wearing pantyhose too and we’d fuck for hours, sliding nylon on nylon until we were both satisfied.

We got divorced after issues but I still seek women that wear hosiery and hope they don’t mind me slipping in to a pair of sheer pantyhose for great kinky sex!
It was a long way to the lou and the litter box was right there. In doing so I found the act very arousing, like doing something I'm not supposed to. The next morning I tried it again. After I peed I ran my fingers through my labia squatting over the box. This exploration graduated to full masturbation in the act, until the day I decided to defecate into the gravel. So there I was naked ad a j bird, pooping into a litter box running my fingers to my g spot panting like a dog, when in walks my husband. I didn't notice him until he stood above me , I can only imagine my look of shock and embarrassment. He grabbed me by my hair and jerked off into my face, finishing with , good girl. This went on occasionally for about a year.
 
In my hetero marriage, my husband has never caught me at anything, 1st because I'm fairly vanilla, but also because I'm honest with him. For example, he knows... I masturbate, often more than 1x per day... what toys I have... that I take nude pictures of myself (sometimes I send to him)... that I'm on Lit & sexting with horny guys.
However, I'm considering getting a butt plug, for him (I think he might enjoy it). But maybe I'll say its for me, or let him catch me with it. I'm not sure he'll immediately warm up to the idea of a butt plug. But he does enjoy a little anal, with just my index finger, minimal movement, & no deeper than to reach his prostate. I let him do whatever movement he wants & push further down on my finger if he wants it. It took some years before I introduced him to anal stimulation, but now its a fairly common part of our sex & I can feel his contractions from it.
It took me a long time to enjoy it - but now do regularly and actually ask my wife for it - Rimming me while I jerk off, fingering me or all out pegging me (She really gets off on it and often cums while taking my ass). Honestly, the direct sensation does little for me, but watching her get turned on as she takes me - especially from behind - is a HUGE turn on
 
It took me a long time to enjoy it - but now do regularly and actually ask my wife for it - Rimming me while I jerk off, fingering me or all out pegging me (She really gets off on it and often cums while taking my ass). Honestly, the direct sensation does little for me, but watching her get turned on as she takes me - especially from behind - is a HUGE turn on
So she's using a strap on? (Not just plugging you by hand.) And you're watching in a mirror?
 
So she's using a strap on?
Yes. She has a couple :)
(Not just plugging you by hand.) And you're watching in a mirror?
Exactly - On all fours, both of us facing the mirror watching her face glow with both passion & power, those tits jiggling as she thrusts, when she cums its beautiful. I encourage her "take me baby, fuck that ass" it really turns her on
 
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