Is it enough to be inseminated or do you need to cum too?

[BillyWalrus]

This is a question for women (and bottom guys too I guess).

When you have sex with your partner, is it enough that he cums in you or do you need to have your own orgasm in order to feel satisfied?

The reason I ask is I notice over time I am less and less interested in having an orgasm myself. Just having my lover deposit her seed inside me seems to be enough for me to feel satisfied. I wondered how do others feel in this situation - is your own orgasm necessary? Desirable? Or you don't really care?

 

[pinkparkhorse]

I always love an orgasm but I get just as much if not more pleasure from making my partner cum. So in short I do feel satisfied when he cums inside me whether I have an orgasm or not.

 

[AngelColleen]

I do love having an orgasm or two or three as well as making my husband cum deep inside me. To me sex is about creating intimacy and closeness as well as pleasure. So if we have that intimacy and pleasure the end result of orgasm is the cherry on top but not necessarily required.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife definitely wants an orgasm.

 

[lily_wall_]

A man's orgasm and my own fill in the blanks between all the emotions in that moment. They serve me in different ways.

Depending on the situation, a man cumming inside me is enough to trigger my own orgasm. My orgasm is not the goal. When I'm with a man, my goal is his pleasure. Him filling me gives me sense of achievement, completeness, satisfaction, gratitude (yes, I'm sub. Why do you ask? Lol)

My own orgasm fills the blanks between the emotions. It brings balance to my mental state. I'm anxious, it calms me down. I'm sad, it makes me happy. I'm angry, it soothes me. I'm too gigly and happy, it calms me down. My orgasm centers me.

Not sure if I'm explaning it right lol

 

[BillyWalrus]

A man's orgasm and my own fill in the blanks between all the emotions in that moment. They serve me in different ways.

Depending on the situation, a man cumming inside me is enough to trigger my own orgasm. My orgasm is not the goal. When I'm with a man, my goal is his pleasure. Him filling me gives me sense of achievement, completeness, satisfaction, gratitude (yes, I'm sub. Why do you ask? Lol)

My own orgasm fills the blanks between the emotions. It brings balance to my mental state. I'm anxious, it calms me down. I'm sad, it makes me happy. I'm angry, it soothes me. I'm too gigly and happy, it calms me down. My orgasm centers me.

Not sure if I'm explaning it right lol

I thought it was a very good explanation. Thank you!