Blowing a load - quick or slow?

Yeah but they're not all bad. I had good boyfriends. I've had bad girlfriends. i mean a bad boyfriend is worse, I think, than a bad girlfriend overall, but still. And I'm not sure but can you actually control who you're attracted to?

I crushed on a guy hard in HS that I knew was bad news, we didn't date, at least not long, if really at all? More like a bad fling I guess; anyway, I wanted him sooo bad, and got him. Our first two times having sex were amazing, but after that! Meh. Even when I didn't really like him as a person, I still wanted him physically. It's so hard to understand.
There were a few back in the day in late high school and early university days where I was fucking for sport. Short term flings last maybe a few weeks or so when the physical needs make you think ā€˜they were alright’ but still went back for round 2 and 3
 
It was always up to my wife. She had complete control. When she decided I was going to cum, it was going to happen. She could make me cum in a very short time or she would keep me on the edge for as long as she wanted.
One time she went on too long and as a result, I was not able to cum. We tried again the next day and everything worked just fine.
 
My trans girlfriend always cums in me (mouth or ass) as quickly as she can. She usually blows her load in five minutes or less. One time I think she lasted ten minutes - a record for her. Sometimes she says she would like to last longer but the stimulation is too much for her and she has to cum. It's fine with me - after all my job is to make her cum.

However it got me wondering. Does your lover cum fast or slow? Do they take their time or get their rocks off as soon as they can? How do you feel about how fast they cum? Would you like it quicker or slower?
Would love to see a pic of her if you don’t mind. I’ve always fantasized about fucking a trans
 
I find that unless my wife applies stimulation to the frenulum, I can last for an extended period. If I haven't had sex for a week or so, she can usually get me to cum from soft to spurt in 5 minutes. Any longer, my wife would have a sore arm and give up requiring me to finish on my own.
 
I guess it depends on the situation. There have been times in my life where i just needed to cum. But for the most part i try to wait until my partner has cum. I used to jack off for a lady she used to give me jack off instructions and she wanted me to go slow. But the first time i hit it at a hundred miles a hour and boom like 30 seconds and i shot it all over her nightgown. After that she instructed me exactly how to do it and the go slow. She also sat a little farther away from me.
 
My trans girlfriend always cums in me (mouth or ass) as quickly as she can. She usually blows her load in five minutes or less. One time I think she lasted ten minutes - a record for her. Sometimes she says she would like to last longer but the stimulation is too much for her and she has to cum. It's fine with me - after all my job is to make her cum.

However it got me wondering. Does your lover cum fast or slow? Do they take their time or get their rocks off as soon as they can? How do you feel about how fast they cum? Would you like it quicker or slower?
Because all my lovers are women, I try to give them a very good, high quality, mind blowing orgasm to get them started, but I don't ever stop with just one, if I think she can go for more. Most women can unless they have a very difficult orgasm and they've worn me out.

Because she can just keep going, I try to bring her off a lot more after the first orgasm, quick or slow, doesn't matter to me, whichever she prefers.

There will always be another orgasm. I tend to move back and forth between orgasms caused by oral sex alone, oral sex with fingers, fingers alone, oral sex and a toy, fingers and a toy, her fingers and my cock, if she can cum from spanking and using fingers or a toy, hers or mine, that's also fun.

I have had women who enjoy anal cum from that as well as stimulation of her clitoris, a vibrating egg inside her, or her pressing a vibe wand against her clit.

I see myself as just another of her large collection of toys and ways of cumming, but, when it is my turn to cum I like to hold her down or restrain her and give her eye contact while I cum inside her.

That's hot.

And then I do like to give her clit and pussy another orgasm right after sometimes, orally and with fingers or toys.

While my cum is deep inside her, coating her freshly pounded, slightly sore cervix, that is allowing my cum to drip slowly into her womb.

Mmmmm.
 
I am a new bottom. I have had two lovers, one regular, and one I have seen only once, but hope to see again.
Regular FWB has a 7-inch cock with a big meaty head. He fucks for 10m or a little more, haven't timed him. But he will fuck me 3 times in about a 2-hour session. We only get together occasionally, so he says he wants to get his fill. Says he really likes fucking me. Usually sore for a couple days after seeing him.
The other man I met from online said he wanted me for 3 hours. I was excited but worried he would hurt me. I saw pics of his cock before meeting him. He has a bbc, 8.5 to 9 inches and thick. Did not measure him but best guess. We met in hotel room I paid for. He really did fuck me for 3 hours, with only short breaks. I was in heaven, he worked my asshole with his big fingers, opening me up and making me so horny for his big cock.
I sucked him first and was the first time I felt a cock in my throat, god I loved that. He said I am a natural born cock sucker. When he entered my ass it was without any pain at all. His cock slide inside and slowly pushed down to the balls. He fucked me in several positions, When he put me on my back, stuffed a pillow under my ass, my legs in the air and pounded me like a dirty whore I came. His cock rubbing my prostate in this position gave me anal orgasms, back-to-back. I came twice in like 5 min. Then he put me on my side and fucked me in spooning position, slow and gentle. That's when he came. Filling my ass, I leaked cum for hours afterward. My underwear was a mess that night. I was sore for only a day after, usually more sore from FWB even though his cock is smaller.
I believe I am in danger of becoming a cock whore. I am having the best sex of my life since I have embraced being a bottom. I want more and more. Considering sucking cock at the theater or glory holes.
 
I believe I am in danger of becoming a cock whore. I am having the best sex of my life since I have embraced being a bottom. I want more and more.
That's exactly how I am with my gf. I saw her today on cam taking a shower and it had been a little while since I had seen her naked. Damn, she looked good. Two more weeks before she can pound my ass with that beautiful cock! I need it bad.
 
That's exactly how I am with my gf. I saw her today on cam taking a shower and it had been a little while since I had seen her naked. Damn, she looked good. Two more weeks before she can pound my ass with that beautiful cock! I need it bad.
Billy, I see a lot of your posts. You and I seem to be a lot alike. I would like to go on a double date and we could be fucked side by side on the same bed. I would like to meet a Trans girl with a big cock.
 
Masturbating can be a couple of minutes or a few hours, totally depending on available time and inclination. Back when my wife and I would have sex I, don’t know, I usually lost physical stamina long before I ever got ā€œcloseā€. She usually finished very quickly and left me hard and frustrated a lot
 
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