Blowing a load - quick or slow?

[Stephie02]

Yes, true. When I wrote that comment, I thought, hmmmm what about people you are just physically attracted to? Maybe you just can't control that even if your head says it's a bad idea. I can remember being intensely physically attracted to a woman I didn't even like! But I still would have given my left ball for her!

No doubt a bad boyfriend is worse than a bad girlfriend. Is a good boyfriend better than a good girlfriend? Not sure about that one!

Nope. A great girlfriend is Nirvana!

 

[BillyWalrus]

Nope. A great girlfriend is Nirvana!

I was speculating for the purpose of conversation. I do not doubt for a second you are right.

 

[lily_wall_]

Thanks I do wonder though, given the male gender's historically poor track record, why women choose men as partners. It's really a mystery to me

Something to do with what's between their leg... But that's just me

 

[BillyWalrus]

Something to do with what's between their leg... But that's just me

Thinking with the little head? Or all the craziness (aggression etc) that comes with testosterone?

 

[Stephie02]

Something to do with what's between their leg... But that's just me

It does (did) have its appeal

 

[BDA73]

Been taking some time now

 

[Samtran123]

I prefer slow too, but sometimes it is just hard to control.

 

[sandybrooke]

Coffee, cock rings and a slow stroke

 

[flint9]

One of my favorite ways to start the day

 

[Canadian1968]

Yeah but they're not all bad. I had good boyfriends. I've had bad girlfriends. i mean a bad boyfriend is worse, I think, than a bad girlfriend overall, but still. And I'm not sure but can you actually control who you're attracted to?

I crushed on a guy hard in HS that I knew was bad news, we didn't date, at least not long, if really at all? More like a bad fling I guess; anyway, I wanted him sooo bad, and got him. Our first two times having sex were amazing, but after that! Meh. Even when I didn't really like him as a person, I still wanted him physically. It's so hard to understand.

There were a few back in the day in late high school and early university days where I was fucking for sport. Short term flings last maybe a few weeks or so when the physical needs make you think ‘they were alright’ but still went back for round 2 and 3

 

[Erosfan]

It was always up to my wife. She had complete control. When she decided I was going to cum, it was going to happen. She could make me cum in a very short time or she would keep me on the edge for as long as she wanted.
One time she went on too long and as a result, I was not able to cum. We tried again the next day and everything worked just fine.