Blowing a load - quick or slow?

[lily_wall_]

I've been with men/women who range from less than a minute to several minutes. I think the longest was a man who lasted 40 minutes but he took breaks to stop himself from cumming.

My preference is a man who gives me the prize quicker. With woman it doesn't really matter

 

[KyleR215]

I have been what I consider “quick draw” and I have been considered “energizer battery bunny”.

I can last 2 minutes when really aroused or last 8-15 minutes if I concentrate on holding off. That is just penetrative sex.

I have had a partner that really felt that if I couldn’t last 20-40 minutes I wasn’t good enough and I had a partner that felt that if I didn’t cum within 2-3 minutes she was a failure.

Communication of expectations. That is what it comes down to.

 

[Scooter58]

I vote for slow is best. Make the feelings last.

 

[BillyWalrus]

My preference is a man who gives me the prize quicker.

That's how I feel. Once my gf shot her load as soon as she got it in and she felt bad. I said, don't feel bad, honey, I am happy that I made you so excited you could not stop from coming. After all, I want her cum!

 

[Stephie02]

I should stop talking about my past experiences with guys, people will get the wrong idea, but.

Had a boyfriend once who'd let me finish him; I always stroked him out slow, torturing him. He loved and hated it, but I liked how he'd react and it was fun!

 

[SexyAshley10]

You are so naughty Stephie, I love it. I think we have lots in common

 

[EasyBrad59]

I should stop talking about my past experiences with guys, people will get the wrong idea, but.

Had a boyfriend once who'd let me finish him; I always stroked him out slow, torturing him. He loved and hated it, but I liked how he'd react and it was fun!

I love to be tortured like that!

 

[SexyAshley10]

So would I love to be doing it

 

[EasyBrad59]

So would I love to be doing it

Well, I do have some free time this afternoon….

 

[SexyAshley10]

So do I, let's rub it up

 

[Stephie02]

You are so naughty Stephie, I love it. I think we have lots in common

I'm kinda naughty, but just with a girlfriend now. The boys were fun though! Most of the time

 

[Stephie02]

Slower = bigger load.

= bigger mess, which was fun

 

[SexyAshley10]

I'm kinda naughty, but just with a girlfriend now. The boys were fun though! Most of the time

I think you need to stick with the women, they will know how to love you right and always be there for you

 

[BillyWalrus]

I think you need to stick with the women, they will know how to love you right and always be there for you

Exactly right. I wonder why EVERY woman is not a lesbian.

 

[Stephie02]

I think you need to stick with the women, they will know how to love you right and always be there for you

Ummm yeah. No guy in over 3 yrs, don't think I'll go back

 

[Slickflboy07]

I should stop talking about my past experiences with guys, people will get the wrong idea, but.

Had a boyfriend once who'd let me finish him; I always stroked him out slow, torturing him. He loved and hated it, but I liked how he'd react and it was fun!

I would agree with him!!! But more love than anything

 

[MissMarie32]

I've been with men/women who range from less than a minute to several minutes. I think the longest was a man who lasted 40 minutes but he took breaks to stop himself from cumming.

My preference is a man who gives me the prize quicker. With woman it doesn't really

Totally agree

 

[Bisubmissiveguy]

I usually cum fast and im not big so I usually let my wife fuck other men with bigger cocks and last longer as long as she tells me about it

 

[Stephie02]

Exactly right. I wonder why EVERY woman is not a lesbian.

I like you and your posts; you support everyone and I think that's cool as fuck

 

[BillyWalrus]

I like you and your posts; you support everyone and I think that's cool as fuck

Thanks I do wonder though, given the male gender's historically poor track record, why women choose men as partners. It's really a mystery to me

 

[Stephie02]

Thanks. I do wonder though, given the male gender's historically poor track record, why women choose men as partners. It's really a mystery to me

Yeah but they're not all bad. I had good boyfriends. I've had bad girlfriends. i mean a bad boyfriend is worse, I think, than a bad girlfriend overall, but still. And I'm not sure but can you actually control who you're attracted to?

I crushed on a guy hard in HS that I knew was bad news, we didn't date, at least not long, if really at all? More like a bad fling I guess; anyway, I wanted him sooo bad, and got him. Our first two times having sex were amazing, but after that! Meh. Even when I didn't really like him as a person, I still wanted him physically. It's so hard to understand.

 

[BillyWalrus]

Yeah but they're not all bad. I had good boyfriends. I've had bad girlfriends. i mean a bad boyfriend is worse, I think, than a bad girlfriend overall, but still. And I'm not sure but can you actually control who you're attracted to?

I crushed on a guy hard in HS that I knew was bad news, we didn't date, at least not long, if really at all? More like a bad fling I guess; anyway, I wanted him sooo bad, and got him. Our first two times having sex were amazing, but after that! Meh. Even when I didn't really like him as a person, I still wanted him physically. It's so hard to understand.

Yes, true. When I wrote that comment, I thought, hmmmm what about people you are just physically attracted to? Maybe you just can't control that even if your head says it's a bad idea. I can remember being intensely physically attracted to a woman I didn't even like! But I still would have given my left ball for her!

No doubt a bad boyfriend is worse than a bad girlfriend. Is a good boyfriend better than a good girlfriend? Not sure about that one!

 

[Stephie02]

Yes, true. When I wrote that comment, I thought, hmmmm what about people you are just physically attracted to? Maybe you just can't control that even if your head says it's a bad idea. I can remember being intensely physically attracted to a woman I didn't even like! But I still would have given my left ball for her!

No doubt a bad boyfriend is worse than a bad girlfriend. Is a good boyfriend better than a good girlfriend? Not sure about that one!

Nope. A great girlfriend is Nirvana!

 

[BillyWalrus]

Nope. A great girlfriend is Nirvana!

I was speculating for the purpose of conversation. I do not doubt for a second you are right.

 

[lily_wall_]

Thanks I do wonder though, given the male gender's historically poor track record, why women choose men as partners. It's really a mystery to me

Something to do with what's between their leg... But that's just me