Cicca_Jai
Literotica Guru
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You started here http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=70808104#post70808104
If not click the link and go back. One must learn to crawl before they can learn to run with the big boys.
*Things you should know* We get a lot of mail. I myself, probably the least noticeable/enticing person on the site get about 50 mails a day. Minimum.
I answer the ones that really stand out as being something special first before moving on to the less than stellar. Finally IF I get around to it, I will reply politely, if at all possible, to the seriously messed up.
Lesson One.
Chose Your Target with Care:
Subsection- Thread stalking-
Thread stalking is fine before making the initial contact.
This allows you to get to know us a little better. Our likes and dislikes, sometimes, we even post deeply personal information that will help you avoid blowing things up in a spectacular fashion. Take Notes! while thread stalking.
1) Profiles- READ THEM!
If I get one more email from someone wishing to RP a MMF with me being one of the M's I'm going to steal the launch codes AND USE THEM!
Again Take Notes!
2) Now you feel you are ready to craft the missive of her lifetime.
STOP-
You are a random dude, do not get your hopes up. You may well, craft the best email, in the history of emails, and still not hear back.
This is called: Rejection It is not the end of your little world. Just take a beat and chill.
3) Form Letters: No. Never. Ever. Just. No. Please see the "how not to" thread for more details.
4) ******The right way to approach any lady is with respect.******
You know that thing you have around your mom and the nuns at your's kids' school.
5) Honesty is key.
If you are 67, married, slightly pudgy and have no hair... Say that. In a fun clever way of course. Some chicks dig that.
it might be your lucky day, if you have stalked her properly you should have a decent idea as to if you have half a chance.
6) Look at your notes: What do you know about the person to whom you are reaching out through various cables, satellites and other gizmos and doodads?
6.2) What caught your eye? Was it her Smile, her sense of humor?
Pick 1 or max 3 things to point out to show us you put a lot of effort into this.
7) Spell check- It is your friend please do use it.
In summary-
We are fairly easy to get to know around here. If you take a little time and effort.
Do this right and watch them melt into your little RPing arms
You may now applaud.

~C~
If not click the link and go back. One must learn to crawl before they can learn to run with the big boys.
*Things you should know* We get a lot of mail. I myself, probably the least noticeable/enticing person on the site get about 50 mails a day. Minimum.
I answer the ones that really stand out as being something special first before moving on to the less than stellar. Finally IF I get around to it, I will reply politely, if at all possible, to the seriously messed up.
Lesson One.
Chose Your Target with Care:
Subsection- Thread stalking-
Thread stalking is fine before making the initial contact.
This allows you to get to know us a little better. Our likes and dislikes, sometimes, we even post deeply personal information that will help you avoid blowing things up in a spectacular fashion. Take Notes! while thread stalking.
1) Profiles- READ THEM!
If I get one more email from someone wishing to RP a MMF with me being one of the M's I'm going to steal the launch codes AND USE THEM!
Again Take Notes!
2) Now you feel you are ready to craft the missive of her lifetime.
STOP-
You are a random dude, do not get your hopes up. You may well, craft the best email, in the history of emails, and still not hear back.
This is called: Rejection It is not the end of your little world. Just take a beat and chill.
3) Form Letters: No. Never. Ever. Just. No. Please see the "how not to" thread for more details.
4) ******The right way to approach any lady is with respect.******
You know that thing you have around your mom and the nuns at your's kids' school.
5) Honesty is key.
If you are 67, married, slightly pudgy and have no hair... Say that. In a fun clever way of course. Some chicks dig that.

6) Look at your notes: What do you know about the person to whom you are reaching out through various cables, satellites and other gizmos and doodads?
6.2) What caught your eye? Was it her Smile, her sense of humor?
Pick 1 or max 3 things to point out to show us you put a lot of effort into this.
7) Spell check- It is your friend please do use it.
In summary-
We are fairly easy to get to know around here. If you take a little time and effort.
Do this right and watch them melt into your little RPing arms
You may now applaud.

~C~