Is it cheating or not?

[bronzeage]

To sneak around and have sex with someone, while in a committed long term relationship with someone else, who is completely unaware of it?

It seems like one of those blurred line things, but it's important to what everybody else thinks.

I mean, is it one of those "what you don't know can't hurt you," things?

 

[dolf]

cheating: shagging, blowing, snogging, hand jobs,
blowjobs, foot jobs and titty wanks.

i'm on the fence about ear jobs...

 

[snoopydaddy59]

To sneak around and have sex with someone, while in a committed long term relationship with someone else, who is completely unaware of it?

It seems like one of those blurred line things, but it's important to what everybody else thinks.

I mean, is it one of those "what you don't know can't hurt you," things?

I do believe most folks would consider this "cheating".....

 

[Lancecastor]

"I've looked on a lot of women with lust. I've committed adultery in my heart many times."

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[VaticanAssassin]

cheating: shagging, blowing, snogging, hand jobs,
blowjobs, foot jobs and titty wanks.

i'm on the fence about ear jobs...

I so want to stick it in your ear...

 

[bronzeage]

cheating: shagging, blowing, snogging, hand jobs,
blowjobs, foot jobs and titty wanks.

i'm on the fence about ear jobs...

Is that when I hear you coming?

 

[Pookie]

cheating: shagging, blowing, snogging, hand jobs,
blowjobs, foot jobs and titty wanks.

i'm on the fence about ear jobs...

Belly button poking is another iffy for me.

 

[suckonsimon]

Which is the real "Cheating"?

Someone married and sex-starved seeking some private consolation and relief?

or ...

Someone married and yet repeatedly making her- or his-self unavailable for sex for every damn reason in the book, to the point of leaving their spouse a diminished grieving wanker?

An objective question: I know nothing about either option - thankfully.

 

[Lancecastor]

NOBODY on the GB is a cheater.

At least until their Spouse finds out and the 's appear.

 

[vibes]

cheating: shagging, blowing, snogging, hand jobs,
blowjobs, foot jobs and titty wanks.

i'm on the fence about ear jobs...

Anal is okay then?

 

[butters]

cheating: shagging, blowing, snogging, hand jobs,
blowjobs, foot jobs and titty wanks.

i'm on the fence about ear jobs...

mind the splinters....

CAN YOU 'EAR ME, MOTHER? I SAID ''MIND THE SPLINTERS''!

 

[MrRandyWatson]

Yes, it's cheating. But yes, it's also only trouble if you get caught.

 

[Riles]

If you can't/wouldn't do it with the s/o sitting next to you, it's cheating.

 

[MastersWench]

Which is the real "Cheating"?

Someone married and sex-starved seeking some private consolation and relief?

or ...

Someone married and yet repeatedly making her- or his-self unavailable for sex for every damn reason in the book, to the point of leaving their spouse a diminished grieving wanker?

An objective question: I know nothing about either option - thankfully.

This is pretty much what came to mind right away when I first read the original post.

 

[Lancecastor]

This is pretty much what came to mind right away when I first read the original post.

Just another rationalization for cheating...

 

[dolf]

my effort at a serious response.

withholding sex if you don't want sex isn't cheating. but expecting a person to remain faithful if you're unwilling to work towards a sex life is unreasonable.

getting sex elsewhere is cheating. if you're unhappy enough to want sex elsewhere then you should either end it or own it.

despite what some crazy, controlling loonies believe, it isn't cheating to flirt, to hug, to hang out, even if you do have sexual feelings towards that person.

if a person's jealousy makes them unreasonable in their demands, they forfeit the right to have a say over the other person's actions.

 

[chillywilly2]

How did this thread ever get a reply

 

[Lancecastor]

Every couple has its own intimacy contract, spoken or unspoken.

To some, flirting/hanging out with someone you have sexual feelings for is tantamount to or can be considered cheating.

To others, it's not.

 

[dolf]

Every couple has its own intimacy contract, spoken or unspoken.

To some, flirting/hanging out with someone you have sexual feelings for is tantamount to or can be considered cheating.

To others, it's not.

it is ridiculous, so I dismiss it.

 

[bronzeage]

How did this thread ever get a reply

No one is really paying attention.

 

[parodyluvr75]

LTR and I have arrangement, I flirt with others and tell them not to tell her, then she comes along and calls me a hussy. It works for us.

 

[dolf]

No one is really paying attention.

ear sex is no joking matter.

 

[VaticanAssassin]

LTR and I have arrangement, I flirt with others and tell them not to tell her, then she comes along and calls me a hussy. It works for us.

If you ever want tot move up to the coveted position of hoor you will have to work on said flirting.

 

[parodyluvr75]

If you ever want tot move up to the coveted position of hoor you will have to work on said flirting.

Are you saying I'm a lousy flirt?

 

[VaticanAssassin]

Are you saying I'm a lousy flirt?

I would go with challenged.... But of course you know how PC I am.

You can start you self improvement by sending me pictures of your ears.