Veroe
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Good point, but if he were erect I'd have to have put that pic in the form of a link as per Lit's pic posting policy of which I try to adhere to.
The beauty of submissive men
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Good point, but if he were erect I'd have to have put that pic in the form of a link as per Lit's pic posting policy of which I try to adhere to.
Erochic
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How did I miss this thread?!! It was started before I went on a bit of (another) hiatus...
I'll have to come back and read when I have time!
Welcome!!
I'm so glad you found it
It's a pretty long and free flowing thread - and it's been wonderful that people have posted so much to it - photos, links, discussion, stories, poems ... And shared experiences.
Please read and enjoy and feel free to post too.
SEVERUSMAX
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Posting to this thread for a primary reason of wanting to discuss this matter for greater realism in some stories. Hope that doesn't bother people. While I generally write with more of a male dom slant, I have written some fem dom/male sub stuff, and I would like to see if I could improve upon what I have written thus far. Realism and more of a sense of the other side of the coin, the sense of a side of BDSM that moves beyond stereotypes and negativity, humiliation, etc. In short, male subs and dominant females as, well, people. Three-dimensional, complete people. What makes them tick. That sort of thing.
For the sake of full disclosure, I am a switch in RL.
For the sake of full disclosure, I am a switch in RL.
Wild_Honey_66
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LucianDevine
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Mmmm, I love the feel of a tongue, teeth, or lips on my neck and or ear.
SultryKitten75
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This thread just makes me sad for what I don't have.
I hope you get the chance to live out the wants and desires, this thread is making you think upon and crave. Life is short. Find, enjoy, experience, relish in it all... And push limits.
sub2DomFemale
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I look at this thread and yes it saddens me that I don't have a Domme to give her my all but it gives me hope that there is a thread that cherishes the beauty of male submission. I do hope to find my Domme sometime in the future but even if I don't. I know that my male submission is a beautiful thing.
beardedmariner
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I hope you get the chance to live out the wants and desires, this thread is making you think upon and crave. Life is short. Find, enjoy, experience, relish in it all... And push limits.
This thread isn't making me think about it. I've known. It's just really hard to find a domme.
SEVERUSMAX
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Well, in a consensual D/s relationship, the ultimate control actually lies with the sub in the sense that they voluntarily submit to that person, trusting them with the power temporarily. Speaking from the experience of both ends, as a switch, I think that there is something of a particular honor and compliment that you give someone by trusting that person to dominate you, by voluntarily surrendering yourself to that person's will.
SEVERUSMAX
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I wish you good fortune, friend. Other people might not understand your needs or might think less of you for them, but you have the right to pursue happiness and I naturally hope that you find it.
On a different note, I should like to observe that I think that the submission is also beautiful when it's done to a man by a man. Since this is about the male submission, not per se about the woman's dominance, in this thread, it's a relevant point, I think.
Another obvious beautiful thing about it, as with a woman's submission, is that the submission of either frees the submissive to enjoy what is done to him/her with less guilt at times, which is an issue in our culture, like it or not. There is a greater sense of freedom from responsibility in such cases.
beardedmariner
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I hope you get the chance to live out the wants and desires, this thread is making you think upon and crave. Life is short. Find, enjoy, experience, relish in it all... And push limits.
I agree with you about submission. Sadly true male dominance, in the days of 50 shades is hard to find. I like men and women, but I prefer my dominant to be real.
sub2DomFemale
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I agree it is hard for us males to find a Domme. I don't know how many times I feel like giving up. I just have to keep pushing on and tell myself that there is a Domme out there for me somewhere. We can't give up.
SEVERUSMAX
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I agree with you about submission. Sadly true male dominance, in the days of 50 shades is hard to find. I like men and women, but I prefer my dominant to be real.
This is why I don't read books like that. They warp your expectations. I think that actually being a switch helps me figure it out better how to dominate than any Hollywood or fan fiction novel. I know what is real dominance based on what I recall from the sub mode.
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sub2DomFemale
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Yeah, don't give up. You never know when you'll find her.
Yes we can't give up. Even when it looks the darkest. We keep pushing forward.
SultryKitten75
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I agree completely. While I never read the books...I did see the movie opening night. I know we all have different perceptions on what we consider D/s ...but the movie left me disappointed, as what is portrayed in the move, is NOT what I myself, see as a D/s relationship.
SEVERUSMAX
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I take it that you're either a Domme or a switch. Yeah, Hollywood has warped perceptions of the lifestyle. Probably based on the guys who go to a dominatrix just once out of curiosity or desire and get scared shitless the first time that they enjoy it. I say that because so many producers and directors are male even now, though the other side of the coin scares a lot of women, too, no doubt. Afraid that they're selling out the Sisterhood if they like to submit.
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sub2DomFemale
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Hollywood can never really portray the true heart of a submissive
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That is sadly true. They're repressed types, a lot of them afraid of their own desires.
sub2DomFemale
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Submission is my gift, something Hollywood would never understand
SEVERUSMAX
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Exactly. To you, it's a part of your soul. Not many people get that.
sub2DomFemale
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Exactly, it is part of my soul. people don't understand the struggle a male sub goes through daily with society telling us to be strong macho men, when only thing I want is to show my strength through my submission.
SEVERUSMAX
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If that is what you need, go for it. The stronger man is true to himself, even if others do not understand.
sub2DomFemale
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Wow, I just realized something. I can talk about my submission and not feel bad about talking about it.
