senior0074d
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- Mar 21, 2025
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It's Hard to Label Myself
The challenge I face is that labels are limiting. Yes, I may enjoy certain dynamics like being spanked or tied up, but that doesn’t mean I identify as a sub in every aspect of my life. Some days, I feel more dominant. Other times, I enjoy being the one who’s told what to do. I can switch between different roles depending on the person and the situation. The idea of being called a "good girl" or being made to submit doesn’t automatically mean I’m a sub — it's about the context, the trust, and the dynamic between me and my partner.
I’m Not Just One Thing:
I’ve come to realize that I’m complex. I can be dominant in certain relationships, but still enjoy submissive activities, especially when it’s with a trusted partner. Just because I like being taken care of or spanked doesn’t mean I want to be humiliated or controlled outside of the bedroom. The key here is trust. Without it, none of this works.
The challenge I face is that labels are limiting. Yes, I may enjoy certain dynamics like being spanked or tied up, but that doesn’t mean I identify as a sub in every aspect of my life. Some days, I feel more dominant. Other times, I enjoy being the one who’s told what to do. I can switch between different roles depending on the person and the situation. The idea of being called a "good girl" or being made to submit doesn’t automatically mean I’m a sub — it's about the context, the trust, and the dynamic between me and my partner.
I’m Not Just One Thing:
I’ve come to realize that I’m complex. I can be dominant in certain relationships, but still enjoy submissive activities, especially when it’s with a trusted partner. Just because I like being taken care of or spanked doesn’t mean I want to be humiliated or controlled outside of the bedroom. The key here is trust. Without it, none of this works.
