Newbie has some questions / Am I a sub?

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I'm feeling much better now, just PM me if you need to talk, I'm here.

I just might sometime in the near future, although many of my doubts and questions have already been answered by the posts on the first page.
I opened the thread just to learn about bdsm labels and am finding out so much about Romantic literature and socio-political theories, both of which interest me a lot! Will have to come back and read the later posts more thoroughly when it’s not so late!

Thank you L!

 

[Chilllax]

I just might sometime in the near future, although many of my doubts and questions have already been answered by the posts on the first page.
I opened the thread just to learn about bdsm labels and am finding out so much about Romantic literature and socio-political theories, both of which interest me a lot! Will have to come back and read the later posts more thoroughly when it’s not so late!

Thank you L!

The one thing I have learnt is to avoid compartmentalising myself. Labels are a convenient construct but we are human after all. Speaking for myself, I have realised that I have dominant tendencies but also am willing to let the other person have agency, if you will. What does that make me? Don't know and quite frankly don't care.
As long as you understand yourself and can articulate it, labels don't matter IMHO. Going to go back into the shadows so I don't hijack this beautiful thread from @Liberia