The beauty of submissive men

Nice pics, Veroe
Quietly implied in the shadows can be so much hotter than neon lights.

It's the effect of personal intuition. Give someone a sentence with a blank space in the middle and they'll fill it with the words that fit the sentence but fits their vocabulary and sense of reality too.
 
Poem I wrote

HEART OF AN UNOWNED SUB

A heart full of loneliness,
What am I to do,
Willingness to serve,
But all seems dark and blue.

Seeking with all my heart,
Yet no one found,
My heart full of tears,
Crushed on the ground.

Waiting to find the one,
And we finally meet,
Then this unowned heart,
Will finally be complete.

BY sub2 DomFemale
 
hey! :)



I hear what you're saying.:rose:

For me, they are my mate first, Dom second.

I wouldn't want to share a Dom any more than I would want to share a husband.

I can certainly sympathize with your point. Every relationship, bdsm or otherwise is naturally unique. So it's all about finding what works best for the two, or more, of you, lol.

Personally, I am okay with "sharing" my domme. It helps in my case that she is my fiance though. It's likely more natural to be okay with "sharing" her when I know that regardless how many play partners she has I will always come first in her mind.
 

I can truthfully say that this, along with pegging was something that I would never be able to get interested in. Boy was I wrong! Pegging is now one of my favorite sensations, except when I have to actually describe it in a story. Describing what it feels like to have a finger or dildo stimulating my prostate is damn near impossible!

Anyway, back to erotic asphyxiation. I absolutely love it when my domme takes control and gets rough with me, and the feel of her hand on my throat, whether it's squeezing in that exact moment or not, always lifts everything paired with it a couple of notches.

The thing that I knew I would like from the start though, has to be the blind-fold. It helped immensely when my domme was first introducing me to pegging. I would always tighten up when I saw what she was about to use on me, naturally making things that much more difficult for us. It's hard to be worried about something when you can't see it coming, and don't know what it is until it's already inside you,
 
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I can truthfully say that this, along with pegging was something that I would never be able to get interested in. Boy was I wrong! Pegging is now one of my favorite sensations, except when I have to actually describe it in a story. Describing what it feels like to have a finger or dildo stimulating my prostrate is damn near impossible!

Anyway, back to erotic asphyxiation. I absolutely love it when my domme takes control and gets rough with me, and the feel of her hand on my throat, whether it's squeezing in that exact moment or not, always lifts everything paired with it a couple of notches.

The thing that I knew I would like from the start though, has to be the blind-fold. It helped immensely when my domme was first introducing me to pegging. I would always tighten up when I saw what she was about to use on me, naturally making things that much more difficult for us. It's hard to be worried about something when you can't see it coming, and don't know what it is until it's already inside you,

Good points, Lucian.

I'll add that blindfolds are good for teasing and also a good way to build trust in a domme with their submissive. There's few things more frightening than taking away someone's ability to see, but as Lucian pointed out it can also be helpful to get a sub over hurtles such as fear.
 
The blindfold can also add a couple more elements, depending on the scenario. One element for example, is not knowing where the domme is going to "strike: next, lol.

On a similar but not unrelated note, the domme can do the exact opposite. If there is a hard surface surrounding whatever the sub is likely tied to, the domme can wear high heels and walk around it, seeming like they might be gathering tools, letting the sub's mind fill in the blanks on what they think is coming.
 
The blindfold can also add a couple more elements, depending on the scenario. One element for example, is not knowing where the domme is going to "strike: next, lol.

On a similar but not unrelated note, the domme can do the exact opposite. If there is a hard surface surrounding whatever the sub is likely tied to, the domme can wear high heels and walk around it, seeming like they might be gathering tools, letting the sub's mind fill in the blanks on what they think is coming.

Yeah, I love that...gets into the mindfuck element of Dominance and submission a lot of people can overlook.
 
No doubt. The mind fuck is often the best fuck of all, especially if you make them tell you what they're thinking, and use their own thoughts and potential fears against them. Often times, it's things you might not have thought about at the time.
 
No doubt. The mind fuck is often the best fuck of all, especially if you make them tell you what they're thinking, and use their own thoughts and potential fears against them. Often times, it's things you might not have thought about at the time.

Or what you think she might do in a scene.
 
The blindfold can also add a couple more elements, depending on the scenario. One element for example, is not knowing where the domme is going to "strike: next, lol.

On a similar but not unrelated note, the domme can do the exact opposite. If there is a hard surface surrounding whatever the sub is likely tied to, the domme can wear high heels and walk around it, seeming like they might be gathering tools, letting the sub's mind fill in the blanks on what they think is coming.

well crap! now i regret putting carpet on the floor in my basement! lol
 
The blindfold can also add a couple more elements, depending on the scenario. One element for example, is not knowing where the domme is going to "strike: next, lol.

On a similar but not unrelated note, the domme can do the exact opposite. If there is a hard surface surrounding whatever the sub is likely tied to, the domme can wear high heels and walk around it, seeming like they might be gathering tools, letting the sub's mind fill in the blanks on what they think is coming.

Unless they know where all the toys are kept *cough* Lucian *cough*.. will have to remember to start rotating them.
 
Unless they know where all the toys are kept *cough* Lucian *cough*.. will have to remember to start rotating them.

Ms A., I believe that was the point he was making. Since he knew where all the toys are kept and can hear you over there he'll conclude your planning to use something he knows is stored there. I believe you can see ways to mess with his expectations of what you intend to do with him by allowing him such knowledge.
 
Ms A., I believe that was the point he was making. Since he knew where all the toys are kept and can hear you over there he'll conclude your planning to use something he knows is stored there. I believe you can see ways to mess with his expectations of what you intend to do with him by allowing him such knowledge.

Oh she'll find a way to mess with me, don't worry, lol. For what it's worth though, it can almost always be assumed that I deserve whatever I get.
 
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