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Hmm, can I just join the choir about how good this is. As a male with submissive tendencies, this is pretty much exactly how I'd like a relationship with a dominant lady to be.
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Hmm, can I just join the choir about how good this is. As a male with submissive tendencies, this is pretty much exactly how I'd like a relationship with a dominant lady to be.
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Ooh I like that. I want to be cherished.
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so locl yourself up and post yourself the key... with as many or as few stamps as u like
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Some of these links are absolutely amazing. Thanks for sharing!
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sorry to interrupt--
Erochic, you've mentioned that you have not one, but two subs. can you talk a little bit about that?
as a sub, I can't imagine ever being okay with sharing my Dom, but when I top, I do it from a place that has much in common with my role as a mother, and I can see the argument for having multiple subs. or at least, I can see where there would be room for that, if that is what all parties were agreeable to.
You mention that you couldn't imagine being okay sharing your Dom, but I think in saying that, you forget one big point. From a bdsm perspective, your Dom is not yours to share or withhold unless the two of you have agreed on exclusivity.
This is actually a topic that my Mistress and I have brought up on several occasions, and it's something that I am actually okay with. We talked about it before she started looking for a second play partner, and for the most part, the eventual partner is likely to be just that, a play partner. We haven't specifically said that no sex will happen, but at this point, she would only play with him, not fuck him. Hell, that almost makes my job easier, lol. As much as I enjoy the foreplay with my Mistress, there is definitely something to be said about having her come home horny and ready to fuck.
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Subscribed. Thank you all so much for this thread.
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You're very welcome
And I also say thank you to everyone who has posted here.
I've been a little absent from the thread... So I'll post more.
My small explorations into dominance are continuing, although one of my FWBs is turning out to be less submissive and more "active pleaser" (a term I coined recently) but it's all good.
I experimented with rope with my other FWB (sub) and he taught me to do some tying, and I'd like to do a little more tying. I'm trying to figure out how I'd like to tie him that looks hot and is also practical (and nothing extreme)
I like the look of rope across the shoulders and arms - in some of the photos Veroe posted.
Recently I've also had a bit of a fantasy about leather bondage cuffs (especially with the active pleaser). It's a kind of a gladiator image ... Kind of a strong image which is hot - but then if they are used for bondage it's like an image of a captured warrior.
And I like the idea of being able to easily clip and unclip them ... And change the position ... Clip them together behind, then in front, then overhead....
Hehe... Yes I've been thinking about it a lot
I think I need to get some ASAP!
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hey!
I hear what you're saying.
For me, they are my mate first, Dom second.
I wouldn't want to share a Dom any more than I would want to share a husband.
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Recently I've also had a bit of a fantasy about leather bondage cuffs (especially with the active pleaser). It's a kind of a gladiator image ... Kind of a strong image which is hot - but then if they are used for bondage it's like an image of a captured warrior.
And I like the idea of being able to easily clip and unclip them ... And change the position ... Clip them together behind, then in front, then overhead....
Hehe... Yes I've been thinking about it a lot
I think I need to get some ASAP!
omg, the gladiator thing!
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omg, the gladiator thing!
Oh god I'm just so totally obsessed with it right now!
It's strength combined with vulnerability. It's so hot.
I had fun last week with some military items including a belt - but I just have to get some cuffs.
I can only find them for women near me - but luckily the one I'm thinking of using them with has small wrists.
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Russel Crowe... Djimon Hounsou... *ahem*
okay, okay, this isn't the cafe'
carry on with the serious talk, i'll behave.
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Russel Crowe... Djimon Hounsou... *ahem*
okay, okay, this isn't the cafe'
carry on with the serious talk, i'll behave.
Umm .. What ... Sorry I was just googling "chained gladiator"
Haha... Yes and I'm being so serious. I've spammed by obsession with bondage cuffs across about 4 threads now
I don't like beards so Russell Crowe is out... But yes that's the general idea
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Umm .. What ... Sorry I was just googling "chained gladiator"
Haha... Yes and I'm being so serious. I've spammed by obsession with bondage cuffs across about 4 threads now
I don't like beards so Russell Crowe is out... But yes that's the general idea
you could tie him up and shave him?
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you could tie him up and shave him?
That could work
I don't like his accent either.... But that's easily fixed. He can't talk with his mouth full after all
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That could work
I don't like his accent either.... But that's easily fixed. He can't talk with his mouth full after all
exactly! Solution to everything!
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exactly! Solution to everything!
Actually I had a threesome where the guy was Australian and he kept being a bit loud and annoying (she was lovely) so I just sat on his face for the rest of the evening.
It was the perfect solution to the problem
Hehe... And supposedly he was dominant
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Actually I had a threesome where the guy was Australian and he kept being a bit loud and annoying (she was lovely) so I just sat on his face for the rest of the evening.
It was the perfect solution to the problem
Hehe... And supposedly he was dominant
Maybe he preferred you on his face than being dominant?
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Very nice!
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Actually he really wasn't that dominant ... And I could see that his wife had a lot of dominant characteristics - but she liked him to be the top.
So yes... He really wanted me to be on his face - he was a Facesitting fan and would get his wife to do it - and he took pretty well to being told what to do.
After all - one woman on your face, one woman riding your dick ... A man would be a fool to complain about that.
Hehe... Maybe this is a counter argument to the stupid claim that "all women are naturally submissive"
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