The beauty of submissive men

[Wild_Honey_66]

I kind of feel worried that my sub wrote it Because it's so close to what I enjoy doing
Umm... Yeah I like the story a lot

ooooh he's yours? *rushes back to story*

 

[Veroe]

I kind of feel worried that my sub wrote it Because it's so close to what I enjoy doing
Umm... Yeah I like the story a lot

I liked it too. It was the best one I've read in the BDSM category of Literotica for a while.

 

[Erochic]

ooooh he's yours? *rushes back to story*

Hehe... It wasn't actually written by my sub (at least I don't think so) but it sure as hell could have been because it sounds almost exactly the same as some enjoyable play times we've had recently.

I feel kind of embarrassed and exposed now, because I've just told all of Lit ****exactly* what I like to do in bed

 

[Veroe]

Hehe... It wasn't actually written by my sub (at least I don't think so) but it sure as hell could have been because it sounds almost exactly the same as some enjoyable play times we've had recently.

I feel kind of embarrassed and exposed now, because I've just told all of Lit ****exactly* what I like to do in bed

Don't be embarrassed Erochic. I spend a lot of time over in the Roleplaying forum participating there and people can see what I like from that...the exposure is unavoidable so I don't spend time worrying about it.

 

[Erochic]

Don't be embarrassed Erochic. I spend a lot of time over in the Roleplaying forum participating there and people can see what I like from that...the exposure is unavoidable so I don't spend time worrying about it.

Hehe... Thank you

Well it's also a bit arousing in a kind of mental exhibitionist way
I kind of feel like I've just had sex in front of all of you - which is a bit of a turn on.

And..... if anyone wants to know what kind of dominance I'm interested in, I'll just point them in the direction of that story

 

[Veroe]

Hehe... Thank you

Well it's also a bit arousing in a kind of mental exhibitionist way
I kind of feel like I've just had sex in front of all of you - which is a bit of a turn on.

And..... if anyone wants to know what kind of dominance I'm interested in, I'll just point them in the direction of that story

There's not that many stories here on Lit where I can point to for what I like. There are some books though out there.

 

[ARoseSoSweet]

There's not that many stories here on Lit where I can point to for what I like. There are some books though out there.

Maybe its time to write your own

 

[Veroe]

Maybe its time to write your own

Calling me out, eh?

Well it is something I'm thinking about doing.

 

[twister947]

I posted another attempt at non stereotypical femdom but more upbeat and with more sex. Still getting killed in the ratings though. Do there really have to be spankings and leather boots for it to be hot? Ugh. Discouraged.

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?url=my-manda

Someone has been reading my mail. Nicely done.

 

[Erochic]

Someone has been reading my mail. Nicely done.

It is isn't it?
Just Wonderful.

Someone has been reading my diary too.

I also want to say thank you for your contributions earlier in the thread.

There was so much going on, and so many great contributions, that I fear I didn't make you feel welcome.

 

[twister947]

It is isn't it?
Just Wonderful.

Someone has been reading my diary too.

I also want to say thank you for your contributions earlier in the thread.

There was so much going on, and so many great contributions, that I fear I didn't make you feel welcome.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

sorry to interrupt--

Erochic, you've mentioned that you have not one, but two subs. can you talk a little bit about that?

as a sub, I can't imagine ever being okay with sharing my Dom, but when I top, I do it from a place that has much in common with my role as a mother, and I can see the argument for having multiple subs. or at least, I can see where there would be room for that, if that is what all parties were agreeable to.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

sorry to interrupt--

Erochic, you've mentioned that you have not one, but two subs. can you talk a little bit about that?

as a sub, I can't imagine ever being okay with sharing my Dom, but when I top, I do it from a place that has much in common with my role as a mother, and I can see the argument for having multiple subs. or at least, I can see where there would be room for that, if that is what all parties were agreeable to.

I feel like a bit of a hypocrite saying that, but it seems like apples and oranges to me.

haha-- meant to hit edit, not quote. too early for me, I should definitely be asleep.

 

[Erochic]

sorry to interrupt--

Erochic, you've mentioned that you have not one, but two subs. can you talk a little bit about that?

as a sub, I can't imagine ever being okay with sharing my Dom, but when I top, I do it from a place that has much in common with my role as a mother, and I can see the argument for having multiple subs. or at least, I can see where there would be room for that, if that is what all parties were agreeable to.

It's a bit of a complicated story... And I promise I'll fill you in a bit later.

The short version for the moment is that they are not really my "subs" but are Friends with Benefits who I am exploring this with - so they are not committed relationships with an expectation of exclusivity.

That being said they are friends first. I really like and respect both of them, they are really lovely men who I enjoy talking to and spending time with and having some wonderful erotic fun together - and I was lucky to meet both of them.
You might see around the boards that I sometimes use FWB or just say lovely men I'm exploring dominance with.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

It's a bit of a complicated story... And I promise I'll fill you in a bit later.

The short version for the moment is that they are not really my "subs" but are Friends with Benefits who I am exploring this with - so they are not committed relationships with an expectation of exclusivity.

That being said they are friends first. I really like and respect both of them, they are really lovely men who I enjoy talking to and spending time with and having some wonderful erotic fun together - and I was lucky to meet both of them.
You might see around the boards that I sometimes use FWB or just say lovely men I'm exploring dominance with.

that actually makes a lot of sense, and now that you mention it, I have seen you refer to them in that way.

thank you.

 

[Erochic]

that actually makes a lot of sense, and now that you mention it, I have seen you refer to them in that way.

thank you.

And the reason that there are two of them is that when I put it out there that I perhaps looking for something I found that both these guys both jumped out at me as guys I wanted to get to know.

 

[tanyachrs]

Thanks everyone for the support. It's very helpful to see that there is an audience for what I'm writing. I think Erochic is right - people looking for something like this have stopped looking here. I know I have.

Although this was written from a male sub point of view, I'm a woman. The book of which this is a part alternates viewpoints. Hopefully I'm capturing the other side well also.

My goal is to do for femdom what 50 Shades did for maledom, except well written and consensual.

 

[tanyachrs]

I am always turned on when voluntary restraints are used.

It reminded me of one of the hottest scenes I remember reading in a book. Where the domme as a punishment had the sub strip and lie down on a couch and reach up and grab the arm of the sofa. Nothing is keeping his hands there but her command and his will to obey. Then she pulls her panties down and mounts his cock still clothed so he doesn't get to see her as she uses him for her pleasure. She tells him that his punishment is that he doesn't get to cum. That she wants him to suffer hanging on the edge. That she wants him to spend the rest of the day hard and aching for her. It gets to the point where he has to come and she lets him only when he agrees to accept wearing a buttplug for the first time as a penalty.

That was from my favorite erotica writer, Joey Hill, the one that opened my eyes on BDSM too.

Which book? Have read some of her stuff and liked it and other stuff not as much. A pointer would be good.

 

[Erochic]

Thanks everyone for the support. It's very helpful to see that there is an audience for what I'm writing. I think Erochic is right - people looking for something like this have stopped looking here. I know I have.

Although this was written from a male sub point of view, I'm a woman. The book of which this is a part alternates viewpoints. Hopefully I'm capturing the other side well also.

My goal is to do for femdom what 50 Shades did for maledom, except well written and consensual.

Yes, I realised that you were a woman after I read your profile and other stories you had written (and spent a rather enjoyable afternoon doing so).

Your story really spoke to me and my experience - in fact I had a bit of a feeling of paranoia for a little while.
To my mind it was a male voice that really included the Domme as a person ... And so was very compelling.

Your book sounds wonderful! I hope it is as least as popular as 50 shades... If not more.

 

[HardCaramel]

sorry to interrupt--

Erochic, you've mentioned that you have not one, but two subs. can you talk a little bit about that?

as a sub, I can't imagine ever being okay with sharing my Dom, but when I top, I do it from a place that has much in common with my role as a mother, and I can see the argument for having multiple subs. or at least, I can see where there would be room for that, if that is what all parties were agreeable to.

Hmm so you're a sub... I'll have to keep that in mind

Sorry to interject, but that story was pretty great! It was relatively close to what I would be looking for too! Although, I'd like to think I'd be better trained to make my woman cum more than just once

 

[Veroe]

Which book? Have read some of her stuff and liked it and other stuff not as much. A pointer would be good.

It was in: Vampire Mistress. The book that turned my opinion around was The Vampire Queen's Servant (Picked up at first because I like Vampires). Before reading it I thought BDSM was only a thinly veiled license for an asshole to act like an asshole towards another human being. Especially in regards to femdom. You have to admit the plethora of femdom stories here on Lit extoll the image of a domme being aloof and often abusive. What I love about Mrs. Hill's work is that while she doesn't back down from that hard edge in her domme characters that she adds depth and sophistication to in her characterizations.

Also she's awesome at constructing a sex scene pacing to build a reader's anticipation of what will happen-something most stories on Lit fail utterly to do well if at all. There's no foreplay or buildup to their scenes and don't even get me started on the 2-D characterizations. Pure wank-fodder, forgotten once I'm done masturbating. Not so with Mrs. Hill's works. Her characters like Lyssa, Danniela, Alanna, Jacob Green, Mac Nighthorse, Gideon Green stick with me.

Mostly the male submissives: They're not sissies in fact most aren't even submissive or have never thought of themselves that way (which often provides they're conflict in the story) they're alpha-males, soldiers, policemen...etc. They're the guys on the cover of romance novels girls get all gooey over but they submit to their domme characters without sacrificing that alpha-ness about them. Not an easy thing to do as a writer, but Mrs. Hill does it magnificently IMO.

She also does Maledom very well too. The Ice Queen, Unrestrained are two off the top of my head from that category.

Anyway I'm going to stop spamming Erochic's thread here. Suffice it to say I'm a fan of Joey Hill.

Her stuff that didn't hit me as well...her mermaid series for some reason I didn't like as much as her Nature of Desire or Knights of the boardroom or Vampire Queen series.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Thanks everyone for the support. It's very helpful to see that there is an audience for what I'm writing. I think Erochic is right - people looking for something like this have stopped looking here. I know I have.

Although this was written from a male sub point of view, I'm a woman. The book of which this is a part alternates viewpoints. Hopefully I'm capturing the other side well also.

My goal is to do for femdom what 50 Shades did for maledom, except well written and consensual.

I thought the story was fantastic! even sent it to a friend of mine who I think will be able to identify with Derek. looking forward to reading more of your work.

Hmm so you're a sub... I'll have to keep that in mind

Sorry to interject, but that story was pretty great! It was relatively close to what I would be looking for too! Although, I'd like to think I'd be better trained to make my woman cum more than just once

don't think you have me pegged, mister.

 

[ed4242001]

i spent many years exploring femdom, and came away unsatisfied, coming to conclusions that it just didn't quite fit. Your intro reminded me about the period when i really developed a deeper understanding of what i craved for as well as the reflection that provided of my own identity. I credit a lot of my understanding from reading numerous female led relationship blogs that appeared to present couples living out a dominant submissive through ordinary daily activities and plain dress.
A child of a single Mom, largely raised by two older sisters, i have always been comfortable in an environment at home and at work when women are my leaders, and i see my primary focus to be pleasing them, and at work, helping them be successful.
This, of course, is at odds of our culture, and, quite frankly, contrary to the ways of many women I have met. While I am convinced that, on the average, women make much better leaders at work and at home, I don't take the view that all women are smarter, brighter, more capable, and more gifted that the least of men. There are many women who thrive more on drama than achieving goals, and celebrate more in another woman's loss than in her gains. In the same way, there are extraordinary men that build effective networks, truly care for their subordinates, while being good homemakers through a balanced approach to lift.
A lot of intro to get to my point--the most erotic art, for me, of female domination is carried in the posture, the position of the head, and the eyes. Photos that don't draw me into aching to follow her just don't appeal to me as much those that do, even if the ones that don't do have all the stereotypical attire and accessories. A woman in a pair of jeans and cotton shirt CAN do more to awake my submission desires and fantasies, if the image draws me in.
As far as male submission pics go, I do like many of the ones on malesubmission.com. For me, it needs to clearly show his vulnerability and desire to please her.
Thanks for starting this thread ... will be interesting to follow.

 

[Saucyminx]

I posted another attempt at non stereotypical femdom but more upbeat and with more sex. Still getting killed in the ratings though. Do there really have to be spankings and leather boots for it to be hot? Ugh. Discouraged.

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?url=my-manda

Voted and commented. Very nice job.

 

[SovereignShe]

I'm still very much sickened by most FemDom scenes and art. It doesn't fit my style. For a submissive man to give such a gift to me, he deserves to be cherished.