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Erochic said:
But there's those little signs like the look in his eye, the small beads if sweat, the bite of a lip, the clench of the fists, the exhalation, the muscles moving under the skin...
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That exquisite level of attention is not lost on a submissive man. In a three year relationship with a Dom, I could swear that time stood still when I was with her. Her focused attention caused me to focus my attention, but I could barely keep up. I learned quite a bit about myself in those three years, and even more in the years following the day when she told me our relationship was irretrievably broken.

It has now been 10 years since that breakup. I miss her terribly, but I smile whenever I recall that timeless state with her.
 
Great thread Erochic! I will be following it closely, and thanks for shedding light on the topic. Very intriguing so far.
 
I posted a story in the vein of a couple of the comments above and it got crushed in the ratings. The general public prefers the stereotypical view, I think. Ah well, it was hot to me.
 
coati said:
That exquisite level of attention is not lost on a submissive man. In a three year relationship with a Dom, I could swear that time stood still when I was with her. Her focused attention caused me to focus my attention, but I could barely keep up. I learned quite a bit about myself in those three years, and even more in the years following the day when she told me our relationship was irretrievably broken.

It has now been 10 years since that breakup. I miss her terribly, but I smile whenever I recall that timeless state with her.
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I'm sorry for your loss man.

You're definitely right when you say that that level of attention is not lost on us. One of my favorite parts is when I'm bound and blindfolded, and I know she's close. I find myself completely and totally lost in the anticipation of her touch and attention, regardless of what form it happens to come in.
 
tanyachrs said:
I posted a story in the vein of a couple of the comments above and it got crushed in the ratings. The general public prefers the stereotypical view, I think. Ah well, it was hot to me.
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As long as it was hot to you, and you enjoyed it, that is all that matters!

That said, could you post the link (if that is allowed here) or send it to me via PM?
 
My question is, does anyone really want a submissive man? I wish the answer would be yes but I don not think it is.
 
4yourpleasureiam said:
My question is, does anyone really want a submissive man? I wish the answer would be yes but I don not think it is.
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I would.. maybe not 100% submissive, but definitely in the bedroom... i like to think a service male would be nice... :) does all the laundry, cat boxes, cooking, that type of thing :)
 
ARoseSoSweet said:
I would.. maybe not 100% submissive, but definitely in the bedroom... i like to think a service male would be nice... :) does all the laundry, cat boxes, cooking, that type of thing :)
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Oh no! Not the cat boxes. How bout the laundry and dishes?
I'll do the bathroom, too, and yard work. But i don't cook for shit.
 
4yourpleasureiam said:
My question is, does anyone really want a submissive man? I wish the answer would be yes but I don not think it is.
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Of course there is. The catch is finding the partner who shares your idea of what submission is while also being compatible in all the other necessary ways.
 
Well, i can be trained to cook, and God knows i've cleaned out cat boxes.
But i haven't washed a car in a long time. As long as you like auto car washes we should be good.
Thanks for the kind response, Rose
 
pensivepoet said:
Well, i can be trained to cook, and God knows i've cleaned out cat boxes.
But i haven't washed a car in a long time. As long as you like auto car washes we should be good.
Thanks for the kind response, Rose
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You can detail the car instead :) And you are welcome :)
 
ARoseSoSweet said:
Would be much easier with a warm body.. but I make do. Thank you! :)
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Aha! A fire. I'm an excellent cutter, chopper, splitter, fire builder. A damn regular paul bunyon!
Will it get me out of dishes? Nevermind, i'd gladly do them while you stayed warm.
Goodnight Ms Rose, it was nice to meet you.
 
4yourpleasureiam said:
My question is, does anyone really want a submissive man? I wish the answer would be yes but I don not think it is.
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I do like submissive guys, at the moment I have 3 online slaves and 2 subs: and they want me to be the subject of their adoration. It's a responsibility to make sure that i take care of them with tasks and such but I love it.
 
Nothing like that feeling of being dominated, giving up control to a lover is a turn on.
 
pensivepoet said:
Aha! A fire. I'm an excellent cutter, chopper, splitter, fire builder. A damn regular paul bunyon!
Will it get me out of dishes? Nevermind, i'd gladly do them while you stayed warm.
Goodnight Ms Rose, it was nice to meet you.
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Oh no, you are not getting out of dish duty! Too bad I don't have a fire place! you can sit at my feet and keep those warm and then the rest of me should be warm :)

Nice to meet you as well
 
ARoseSoSweet said:
Oh no, you are not getting out of dish duty! Too bad I don't have a fire place! you can sit at my feet and keep those warm and then the rest of me should be warm :)

Nice to meet you as well
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It would certainly be a priviledge and an honor to do so for you, Ms Rose.
Maybe you have better plans for my energy than chopping wood.
So sorry i dozed off, but i did wake to rush back and check the thread.
Ok, back to my snooze
Night, Ma'am
 
4yourpleasureiam said:
My question is, does anyone really want a submissive man? I wish the answer would be yes but I don not think it is.
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Oh there are many of us who like submissive men. The challenge is to find one that is able to submit and follow. Most seem to want to determine how they will be led which isn't following now is it? They need the patience to first establish their submission before seeking indulgences from their mistress (even at Christmas time).
 
It is difficult...

policywank said:
Oh there are many of us who like submissive men. The challenge is to find one that is able to submit and follow. Most seem to want to determine how they will be led which isn't following now is it? They need the patience to first establish their submission before seeking indulgences from their mistress (even at Christmas time).
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Hard not to offer suggestions.. But ever so good to please.. Just anxious to offer more ways to please fully
 
just4friends said:
Hard not to offer suggestions.. But ever so good to please.. Just anxious to offer more ways to please fully
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Yes but she may not want suggestions anymore than drivers want directions from the back seat. Submissive should first understand what is expected of him and follow that lead. To do otherwise is not to follow regardless of the merits of your intentions.

As my mistress told me early on - start by shutting the fuck up and doing as your told and we'll take it from there.

Offering directions when you don't the destination is frustrating, self-indulgent and clearly not following. A man pestering a woman for what he wants and pretending he is serving her interest is no different than any other.
 
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