Tried Deep Anal Masturbation & Suffered

[amigayorbi]

hi guy,

i wa pretty horny a few weeks back and was talking to guys online and was on cam...i was instructed to insert deeper things in my ass.


after a carrot , i tried a big plastic spoon...it was amazing..i came really good...but found that i was bleeding a bit.....i saw a doc and he said there was not muc harm...now everything is okay..

but it has put me many a step back in trying anal masturbation and anal sex for the first time...any advice?

would really help!

 

[Missouribiguy]

Did you use lube?

 

[howbo]

hi guy,

i wa pretty horny a few weeks back and was talking to guys online and was on cam...i was instructed to insert deeper things in my ass.


after a carrot , i tried a big plastic spoon...it was amazing..i came really good...but found that i was bleeding a bit.....i saw a doc and he said there was not muc harm...now everything is okay..

but it has put me many a step back in trying anal masturbation and anal sex for the first time...any advice?

would really help!

Absolutely easier on the ass= www.aneros.com but if are going to buy check out www.amazon.com and/or www.adulttoyscheap.com and search aneros. Much lower prices if have the model, altho aneros site is having 20% sale until 11/9. Put in HAUNT as discount code.

 

[amigayorbi]

im not sure it was good enough

Did you use lube?

i used baby oil n my saliva...just that the spoon was not finished properly n ha some soft but dangerous edges...i discovered that later

 

[priapusone]

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yes try aneros for your first time....its niceandgentle for a different kind of cum too!

 

[amigayorbi]

yes try aneros for your first time....its niceandgentle for a different kind of cum too!

thanks! but im not ure whether it has healed properly or not..just too scared

 

[Stella_Omega]

A few weeks ago? You're healed, or else you're ready to go to the hospital with sepsis. Most likely, the bleeding was from tearing around your anus, more on the outside than inside. You have to wash outside tears, because they get reinfected every time you poop. Use antibiotic ointment-- the greasy kind-- as a barrier.

Use some common sense next time you play, please. Run your fingers over whatever it is. or put it in your mouth first. Take a look at it. get something better for lube-- you can buy lube in regular old drugstores these days. Or get coconut oil from the gorcery store, which is also good for your tissues. "a little" is usually not enough. About when you think it feels too slimy to hang on to with your fingers-- that's when you have enough lube for your butt. Or even a little bit more than that.

 

[Chrissi]

Just don't use those items with "sharp" edges. I always get the willies when I see/hear pics of a guy with a bottle, soda can, or some hard plasitic implement up their ass.

You were on the benign end of the scale and just suffered some minor tears and bleeding. Having that spoon handle snap off in your hole would leave a razor sharp point/edge and in that case you would be lucky to get timely medical attention.

Best
Topher

 

[Chicago69]

If your really concerned about avoiding this again in the future, I'd suggest going with regular toys, like a buttplug or a dildo, making sure they are clean and you are well lubed. I would stay away from random foreign objects. Or at least carefully inspect them beforehand. And remember, clean and well lubed.

Have fun.

 

[photobuff56]

If your really concerned about avoiding this again in the future, I'd suggest going with regular toys, like a buttplug or a dildo, making sure they are clean and you are well lubed. I would stay away from random foreign objects. Or at least carefully inspect them beforehand. And remember, clean and well lubed.

Have fun.

Yes this the smart thing to do.

 

[bisexualsmoker]

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I can relate. It's easy to cut yourself, but
now I just use my fingers, I find I can penetrate pretty deep and there's no
worry about infection.

 

[amigayorbi]

thanks!

thanks for ur help guys..and the advice..really appreciate it..

i did apply an ointment in the beginning..now things seem to be normal..i hope so..

but i have stopped poking at all....but i do get the urge many a times....

 

[james2346]

just lube it up. My first time was rough, but it did get better and better

 

[Noira]

D:

No spoons! That's even worse than the vegetables! Get something meant for the task, like a dildo or anal plug! asdlfkjdf it should be healed up just fine, use lots of lube (not baby oil, if you have to use a DIY lube use Crisco, that's nice and thick and okay to eat... remember, anything you stick up your butt should be something you'd be willing to put in your mouth!), and NO SPOONS!

Seriously, you can go to Walmart and get proper lube, and there's never a thing as 'too much lube' for anal play.

 

[JaxRhapsody]

But...spoons go in your mouth...

I cant remember Everything i used to stick in there before i was of age and money to buy a dildo. I at least used a condom over it. I still havnt found my gspot, lol.

 

[amigayorbi]

D:

No spoons! That's even worse than the vegetables! Get something meant for the task, like a dildo or anal plug! asdlfkjdf it should be healed up just fine, use lots of lube (not baby oil, if you have to use a DIY lube use Crisco, that's nice and thick and okay to eat... remember, anything you stick up your butt should be something you'd be willing to put in your mouth!), and NO SPOONS!

Seriously, you can go to Walmart and get proper lube, and there's never a thing as 'too much lube' for anal play.

Thank you so much for your advise..

Just that I'm still shaken up! May be I can hook up with a doc and explore this with him..that would keep me assured ..hopefully!

 

[lowcollar]

Never use baby oil....lots of problems. Use KY or some other water based lube.