Honesty on the Lit boards

[pink]

I agree with your sentiments Pink...and I would never criticise you or your motives for starting this thread...it just got a little silly later on with talk of databases and it only being men and people saying hideous things to each other. Thats my take on it anyway. I'm sorry that you got hurt, and I hope it doesnt happen again.
I do think its good that there is a diversity of opinion on the thread though or nothing would have been achieved anyway would it I guess?
Love and luck sweetie x

Thank you.
i didn't get hurt, i was fine, AboutFace and Lori got hurt, among others. i was simply disappointed by him.

Yes, the turn this thread has taken is fucked up. Certain people in here have turned it into a free for all. A free for all about making fun of and attacking people.

 

[keiffers]

I'm glad you made it too. I haven't had sop much fun in a thread in a long time. I just ignore the the one sided bullshit. I just want to be number one on the Blacklist. No men in the title but the men all know what the thread is. I have never had so many PM's from guys thanking me for stating what I have.

that's all you can do....come here, have fun in the 'fun' threads and ignore the BS that constantly floats around this place.....'she pissed me off' or 'he wrong'd me' belong in a freakin junior HS - if it is known that it happens all the time, like the original post said, then what is the real reason for the thread? to whine? to bash? what.....I still don't get it.....but hey I'm havin fun trying to make my place on the list LOL

 

[pink]

I'm glad you made it too. I haven't had sop much fun in a thread in a long time. I just ignore the the one sided bullshit. I just want to be number one on the Blacklist. No men in the title but the men all know what the thread is. I have never had so many PM's from guys thanking me for stating what I have.

and i've gotten pm's from men stating they've gotten hurt by women here and are too embarrassed to post so ditto.

 

[koalabear]

Thank you.
i didn't get hurt, i was fine, AboutFace and Lori got hurt, among others. i was simply disappointed by him.



You didn't get hurt, yet you started the thread. That says it all.

 

[pink]

actually it was in the original post that started the thread....

In the title, keiffers, in the title. It was about honesty.

i am done arguing with all of you. i have never in my life been so disappointed by men as i am at this moment. i am so hurt, sitting here crying actually since ia m all about honesty. You do truly make me sick,

 

[keiffers]

Thank you.
i didn't get hurt, i was fine, AboutFace and Lori got hurt, among others. i was simply disappointed by him.

Yes, the turn this thread has taken is fucked up. Certain people in here have turned it into a free for all. A free for all about making fun of and attacking people.

but what do you expect? did you expect it to be a a nice polite conversation or something like that......well I think it's no different than any other thread here....people have their opinions about the subject and are going to post that opinion....its posted out in the public for god's sake....

 

[koalabear]

In the title, keiffers, in the title. It was about honesty.

i am done arguing with all of you. i have never in my life been so disappointed by men as i am at this moment. i am so hurt, sitting here crying actually since ia m all about honesty. You do truly make me sick,

reread your past posts, your whole life has been a disappointment according to them. Some people just seem to need way to much attention.

 

[EnglishRoseFox]

Thank you.
i didn't get hurt, i was fine, AboutFace and Lori got hurt, among others. i was simply disappointed by him.

Yes, the turn this thread has taken is fucked up. Certain people in here have turned it into a free for all. A free for all about making fun of and attacking people.

This happens in R/L too to men and women, we've all been through it in some form or another. Quite often our pride is as dented as our hearts. I think we should focus more on how we learn from it...we never will...that is the human psyche unfortunately..we will make the same mistakes again..or...which is probably the camp I am in.. become slightly cynical and untrustworthy of genuine people therefore not let them in and miss out on opportunities (I dont mean so much on Lit but in R/L). Life sucks...and then its good...then it sucks...and then its good. I hope that somewhere down the line this will be a dim and distant memory and not leave too many scars.
x

 

[keiffers]

In the title, keiffers, in the title. It was about honesty.

i am done arguing with all of you. i have never in my life been so disappointed by men as i am at this moment. i am so hurt, sitting here crying actually since ia m all about honesty. You do truly make me sick,

you've got to be kidding me.....you are actually taking this thread and lit that seriously?

If you're going to let something that was posted out in public hurt your feelings, then I do believe you need some professional help getting your feelings and emotions back in check - no one on a computer is going to always be nice..it's a proven fact....I've had my fair share of situations online that people have hurt my feelings but I also realized that I can't let words on a computer screen dictate how i feel about myself.....people don't know me and have no idea who I am (they can say they do by what I say online) unless they know me in person and know the REAL me....I took the initiative and didn't give a flyin F what anyone thought of me...it's what I feel about myself and if people don't want to like me for who I am...then screw them....it's their freakin loss.....

 

[pink]

As i said, i am done here. You can play and post and make fun of this entire thread. You sure have done a wonderful job so far.

 

[EnglishRoseFox]

you've got to be kidding me.....you are actually taking this thread and lit that seriously?

C'mon guys I dont like to think of anyone being that upset it makes them cry...someone post their naughty bits or something and turn this thread around *wry smile* x

 

[CelticFlame]

So here we’ve one sided sympathy and one sided blame game.
But I'm trying to figure out what could be the possible circumstances that forced the man to act like that.[as I told before I’m not that man]

Day-1 . man meets p/g lady NO.1 that’ve fun time together

Day-2. Lady 1 is too busy with her other buddies so man thinks he should better find someone else, after all he comes online only for company –he is lonely divorced in his real life.

Day-3 man doesn’t find anything, but he keeps posting around in game thread hoping somewhere it’ll come out good result. In the process he ends up having more than 1000 posts. he matures slowly on how to do sweet talk to impress ladies.

Day-4. Man finds lady no.2. She thinks “oh my, this guy is sooooooo active in game thread, means he’s really trustworthy!, [may be she orgasmed looking his post count as ‘1000+’]
So man & lady2 have fun together.

Day-5.lady2 again busy with some other guy [lit is too competitive place] so man is again loney, in the mean time lady1 shows up cause her best buddies haven’t showed up tonight, so she is free. So man & lady1 have fun time together.

Day-6.lady1 again busy, lady2 shows up, again they’ve fun time.
[size=+1]
Sooner or later, man figures out if he wants to stay in company he needs to do all that sweet talk, after all lit. is a pretty competitive place for men to find women. so he ends up telling lies cause he doesn’t want to loose any of the 3, after all he’s never sure whether he will get some company every time he comes online. He wasn’t cheating – he was only creating a buffer stock of online lady friends, so every time he comes online he can be sure he’ll have some company. [/size]

Alright that’s plain dishonesty in someway, but what about these men
1.who keeps sending pm or posts to ladies “hi you’re really beautiful, I loved your pictures, I read your story is was very interesting, your avatar is very cool, I completely agree with you about what you posted on xyz’s thread.” In short most time the hidden message is [I’m too loney, I need some company so I’m sending such sweet talk things all over, sometimes 5 ladies at once, and I don’t care how you look, write, all I need is something with boobs and pussy] I’m sure most of you “honesty conscious” ladies responded back saying “thank you very much”

So when you say ‘honesty’ You need to see all these things too. other wise its just one sided talk.

1.[red] I'm not saying you ladies are bad [/red]
2. if someone is to blame for the dishonesty, then its the real life lonelyness or something that lacks in the real life, that's why people do dishonesty to find some company and buffer stock online on lit board.

Dude, I have read every post you have put here so far, trying to figure out what your issue is... the only things I see here are 1) you have a real hard-on for ladies of the Playground 2) You have a severe case of "post-count envy" for the men of the Playground 3) once in every 50 words you do make some sense and 4) The more aggitated you get, the more incoherent your writing becomes.

Chill the fuck out Dude, settle down, play nice and perhaps you will fit in. If that is too hard for you, then perhaps you need to crawl back under the rock you came from and leave these people alone.

 

[koalabear]

C'mon guys I dont like to think of anyone being that upset it makes them cry...someone post their naughty bits or something and turn this thread around *wry smile* x

Thanks, I was running sort on Kleenex.

 

[Calvin]

I'm like WOW!... there have been exciting threads in the PG over the years but this one is right up there.

Lot's of good points... many truths & experiences shared.

But really... why are we all here debating stuff that is just part of life? We can only be responsible for our own actions and it seems sometimes we waste so much energy on throwing out words at each other that will just die when the thread goes away... only to repeat again another day.

Here's a novel idea... let's just all shut our comps off and go find a flower to smell and just take pleasure in the fact that we are alive.

Everybody have a great day....

 

[lovemonster]

People, stop arguing, think of the children, for god's sake!!!!!!!

 

[koalabear]

People, stop arguing, think of the children, for god's sake!!!!!!!

Make friends with Kool Aid, with Kool Aid make friends.

Did you know that sympathy is between shit and syphilis in the dictionary.

 

[keiffers]

People, stop arguing, think of the children, for god's sake!!!!!!!

http://i139.photobucket.com/albums/q288/nellmeister/spank.jpg

 

[lovemonster]

Make friends with Kool Aid, with Kool Aid make friends.

Did you know that sympathy is between shit and syphilis in the dictionary.

Go and get your cock out totally inappropriately, it's been hours!

 

[lovemonster]

http://i139.photobucket.com/albums/q288/nellmeister/spank.jpg

*bends over and wiggles*

 

[keiffers]

*bends over and wiggles*

ok then much better

 

[done_got_old]

C'mon guys I dont like to think of anyone being that upset it makes them cry...someone post their naughty bits or something and turn this thread around *wry smile* x

Can you believe only one PM when I used my real picture?

http://www.literacyrules.com/LITerotica/boob12s.jpg

 

[koalabear]

Go and get your cock out totally inappropriately, it's been hours!

......player

 

[keiffers]

Can you believe only one PM when I used my real picture?

http://www.literacyrules.com/LITerotica/boob12s.jpg

damn ur hot!!

 

[koalabear]

Can you believe only one PM when I used my real picture?

http://www.literacyrules.com/LITerotica/boob12s.jpg

ROFLMAO.......

 

[lovemonster]

ok then much better

I aim to please