Honesty on the Lit boards

[Guest]

1) In number one's case, he's since moved on ... divorced (yes, I know this for certain) and is currently in a relationship. There's truly no point in naming him.

2) How easy it is to create an alt? It happens on a daily basis. You and I both know one lady in particular that creates alts as quickly as the wind changes.

3) This isn't a "bash" thread. I didn't post what I did to hurt anyone (although they know who they are if they read it). P, AB, and L all posted about the experience with one man. I posted to let people know that it happens more than some think. Theirs wasn't the only case.

4) Come on now ... honestly ... if I were to post names, what man would be willing to talk to me after? Is our whole "relationship" going to be posted? His first instinct after reading this post would be to stay clear with the thought that "if I do her wrong is she going to put my name out there and tell the whole world who I am and what happened?" I know better than that, and as I said, I may be a bitch but I do have a heart (shhhhh ... don't tell anyone ).

Do I want someone else to get hurt by these men? No. It's each persons' responsibility to be careful of whom they talk to.

If a man truly played them, and she named him... and I liked her enough and trusted her, I'd have no problem. Really. It's only those who are players that have something to fear and hide... so if THEY avoid you isn't that like a scumbag filter?

I do understand why people don't, and you make a lot of valid points, but I do think in some cases it'd save people hassles. I am as bad as anyone. I've been sworn to secrecy by people who have told me things and I haven't said anything. One person told me herself something awful she'd done.. and let me swing in the wind and appear a prize cunt to everyone... knowing I wouldn't say anything as I gave my word. She then told me I was there for her benefit, and any fallout because of my guilt in not telling someone something was 'my problem'. Nice eh? So I do understand... and I'm not saying I'm any better.

I'd just like to say as a male I'd like to distance myself from colton white's remarks.

I've seen you about mate.. and you have accused people of nastiness, etc... but then if anyone disagrees with you then you get nasty and sarcastic. You also seem to think you are right. On everything. Full stop. So why try to debate with you? There's no point. Anyone who feels a need to post all his posts in big red letters must be very important.

Also... if you really disbelieve... as someone else said.. you are either naive or are being crass and just trying to antagonise. It goes on here all the time. It goes on 'IRL' all the time, so why should here be any different?

 

[Lorilei]

Maybe you need to look more closely at women, I think you'll find most have boobs. And pics of yummy bits of anatomy are frequently used in profiles. So by extraction you are saying that both these ladies have gorgeous breasts.

You know it really isn't up to any of us to question the details or validity of this tale. Pink, AF and Lori wanted to share an experience in the hope that others can learn from their pain. Please don't belittle what they have done by being a pedant.

*big hug* I adore the beautiful, sweet Morri.

 

[Colton_White]

let me make my stand clear here

1. I'm not that man

2. I'm fed up with enough 'advices' from the p/g ladies that they don't reply to PM, only way to gain their confidence is to play on p/g threads.

And all the time I kept telling them, if someone isn't 100 post count tht doesn't make him less human than you're. And someone with mastery on online seduction art doesn't mean he is a gentleman. but no one ever agreed. [Temptress,Sweet Erica - I'm saying this to you.]

So I'm really amazed to find out their [mature p/g ladies with more than 900post count]
'weeding out the crooks filter' [i.e. not playing with the newbies but only to the experianced/old/males with more than 1000 posts]

so if their filter is so good, how can they be fooled?

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actually I see it as, You 3 didn't gave opportunity to 3 deserving underdogs but to a one shark, so it was your mistake[/size]

@Mod Bedtimestory

you may delete my posts from this thread, after all long time it has been since i saw your unbiased bureaucratic rule manipulation tactics applied on my posts.
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time to go offline,
have a nice day everyone.

 

[Guest]

1. I'm not that man

2. I'm fed up with enough 'advices' from the p/g ladies that they don't reply to PM, only way to gain their confidence is to play on p/g threads.

And all the time I kept telling them, if someone isn't 100 post count tht doesn't make him less human than you're. And someone with mastery on online seduction art doesn't mean he is a gentleman. but no one ever agreed. [Temptress,Sweet Erica - I'm saying this to you.]

So I'm really amazed to find out their [mature p/g ladies with more than 900post count]
'weeding out the crooks filter' [i.e. not playing with the newbies but only to the experianced/old/males with more than 1000 posts] so if their filter is so good, how can they be fooled?


actually I see it as, You 3 didn't gave opportunity to 3 deserving underdogs but to a one shark,

Ahh.... so you're bitter... THAT explains it.

Maybe if you didn't talk in semi-text talk, and like a 15-year old it may help a bit? Maybe if your sentences actually made sense? Maybe if you didn't come over as a complete tosser? Who knows... there are plenty of possibilities why they didn't reply.

You keep referring to the females as 'P/g ladies'... so I assume you are from elsewhere. Why am I not surprised?

C'mon? Who are you really? I may start running sweep on it. We can split the proceeds 50/50.

 

[bowtie4u]

WTF......what a waste of time

 

[Colton_White]

You keep referring to the females as 'P/g ladies'... so I assume you are from elsewhere. Why am I not surprised?

Well I don't belong to p/g acco. to their defination of less than 100 posts made in the game threads..

 

[agent2407]

Ahh.... so you're bitter... THAT explains it.

Maybe if you didn't talk in semi-text talk, and like a 15-year old it may help a bit? Maybe if your sentences actually made sense? Maybe if you didn't come over as a complete tosser? Who knows... there are plenty of possibilities why they didn't reply.

You keep referring to the females as 'P/g ladies'... so I assume you are from elsewhere. Why am I not surprised?

C'mon? Who are you really? I may start running sweep on it. We can split the proceeds 50/50.

will you do an "is it a,b,c,d,e,?"

respect to you for your response here, I was too irked by his remarks to be patient!

Very well constructed couple of posts

 

[Guest]

will you do an "is it a,b,c,d,e,?"

respect to you for your response here, I was too irked by his remarks to be patient!

Very well constructed couple of posts

Yep... I could start a game thread... who is this alt?

And not allow any plebs with less than 100 posts to enter.

 

[Morrigu]

Yep... I could start a game thread... who is this alt?

And not allow any plebs with less than 100 posts to enter.

LMAO

 

[agent2407]

Yep... I could start a game thread... who is this alt?

And not allow any plebs with less than 100 posts to enter.

fanfuckingtastic

 

[Guest]

I doubt your story - three women online find out they've commen lover? HOW? can you elaborate it? i 'm doubting you're just making a story here from a film i saw named 'Kill JOe or something' in that 3 ex g/f gather up to get the cheating one man straighten up with a introducing a new g/f to him who'll later dump him.

Openly and honestly exercising my right not to read crap. I shall not be reading anything else you post.

 

[AboutFace]

Yep... I could start a game thread... who is this alt?

And not allow any plebs with less than 100 posts to enter.

Would be a great thread, IMO.

Moving on.... moving on.... let's not let one asshole ruin a very good and healing thread.

http://i153.photobucket.com/albums/s215/aboutface864/emoticons/thdontfeedtrolls.gif

 

[toys_em_us]

Would be a great thread, IMO.

Moving on.... moving on.... let's not let one asshole ruin a very good and healing thread.

http://i153.photobucket.com/albums/s215/aboutface864/emoticons/thdontfeedtrolls.gif

Healing thread..... The DR is IN!

 

[koalabear]

Would be a great thread, IMO.

Moving on.... moving on.... let's not let one asshole ruin a very good and healing thread.

http://i153.photobucket.com/albums/s215/aboutface864/emoticons/thdontfeedtrolls.gif

just a hint.....you have many trolls/alts here that greatly exceed 100 posts......

 

[AboutFace]

Healing thread..... The DR is IN!

mmm..... I do believe that I need an appointment, Doctor.

 

[AboutFace]

just a hint.....you have many trolls here that greatly exceed 100 posts......

Very many. Crawling, in fact. That's why ignore is your friend.

 

[toys_em_us]

mmm..... I do believe that I need an appointment, Doctor.

I'll make an opening for you.... how bad is your desire to be seen?

 

[pink]

I doubt your story - three women online find out they've commen lover? HOW? can you elaborate it? i 'm doubting you're just making a story here from a film i saw named 'Kill JOe or something' in that 3 ex g/f gather up to get the cheating one man straighten up with a introducing a new g/f to him who'll later dump him.

Women talk, you need to learn that right now. Even if not the closest of friends, we talk, we figure things out, we are smart. We have gut insticts that tell us when we are being lied to. i have learned to follow my gut.


i was not one of the women involved in the cyber incident. Please read that closely, i was not one of those women in the cyber triangle. Perhaps they can enlighten you as to how this happened. All i know, was i received a PM from one of them. The man she was involved with, had mentioned my name to her, told her i was a friend he had met in person. Yes, you heard that right, he mentioned my name to his online lover. i guess he never figured she would contact me to chat.

Before you start thinking i am a man hater, i can assure you i am not. i love men, been hurt by my share, loved several, still love a few despite not being with any of them seriously, chat with a select few men on a regular basis. i am very honest and upfront about being happily single. i tell them all that. Each of them know how i feel about them, i am very open and honest. i do believe it is possible to have feelings for several people at once. Just be honest with them, don't lead anyone on.

 

[hdlynnette]

Loreili and Pink_ are same persons,
because they've in their profile boobs pics and nothing else.

so it kinda makes 'indicator' that they may be both one person and two profiles.

Hey....I have boobs....if I put a pic of them in my profile, does that make me the same person as Lorilei and Pink too??

 

[pink]

I've read this post with an found it both interesting and enlightening. I was introduced to Lit by a Lady I mt in another online forum. We chatted and flirted for a while before it kind of just "faded" out.

Let me say that in the beginning, I was like a lot of other nubes...I PM'd ceaselessly hoping to find a female partner - or as many as I could. I had a couple of "flings" and one or two that lasted longer. Yes, I even met someone I met here.

Also, in the beginning I was not sure how ladies would react to my seeking out multiple partners, so I lied about it. I'm not proud of that, but it's a fact. As I got to know some folks here, (well, at least "e-know" them), I became more comfortable and confident. I don't feel the need to hide anything about myself here if asked, but I'm careful about volunteering information.

Yes, I'm married, and NO, she doesn't know.

Currently, I'm not having regular contact with anyone (not for lack of effort mind you), but I'm maturing, so I'm a little more discriminating in my contacts. I I'd be lying to say I don't want some type of sexual component to a "relationship". However, that wouldn't sustain m for long, as I need some conversation outside that.

I'm very sorry for those who have gotten hurt. Some of the lying - judging from my own imperfect conduct, is to hide the truth until you're sure it's a two -way street. Some of it is because of a lack of decency. I wouldn't trust anything here completely for a long time as a general rule. It's better to err on the side of caution.

Ladies, also remember that while most of the guys here are nice decent folks, this is PRECISELY the type of site someone will visit if they want anonymity with the ability to deceive and manipulate.

I hope we can all have safe careful fun here.

i am glad we got you to think about some things. That's all this was about, it's not about screaming or accusing. We women make mistakes too, not always being truthful.

my advice is just be honest about being married. Make as many wonderful friends online as you can and you never know, you might find someone to fill a void that your life has.

.

 

[AboutFace]

I'll make an opening for you.... how bad is your desire to be seen?

I need to be seen badly, darlin'.... we'll talk.

 

[bowtie4u]

MY god how long is this going to go on.......better yet why am I here lol

 

[keiffers]

Loreili and Pink_ are same persons,
because they've in their profile boobs pics and nothing else.

so it kinda makes 'indicator' that they may be both one person and two profiles.

I guess that makes EVERY single female on here the same person, since they all have boobs and they've put them on their profile at one time or another (what a case of multiple personalities!!).....and all of us guys are just individuals who are after the exact same woman no matter who we talk to.....

geez dude, from reading your posts, if you don't like the way things are here, then there's the door, and don't let the door hit ya in the brain on the way out!

no one forces you to stay here and if you have nothing better to say than to call all the women the same person because of the boob pics in their profile, then why do you stay.....obviously because you're a tard and you like to do nothing than antagonize everyone else....well lemme let you in on a little secret.....you won't win here.....cause I can guarantee that the longer you stay, you will end up saying something to one particular person and they will eat you for breakfast....it won't be me, but I know it'll eventually happen and you'll have no one to blame but yourself and the big fat sign that you carry around that says 'I think I know it all'

moron....

 

[exividere2]

I am cynical and never trust anyone anyway,
hence the words I live by are in my sig line...

That being said it is my belief that this is a
sight that is dedicated to fantasy & play. Truth
is not often found in either. If one thinks of it as
fantasy and nothing more, then I think one will
be fine.

I have learned that nothing here is real, especially
monogomous relationships. Most people come here
to escape what the real world deals them day to day.
I don't think this is the place to find that special someone
or special relationship...

I think that if you go into a relationship here, expect
nothing and you will not be disappointed.

Just my humble observations & experiences.

I'm not going to tell you your opinion is wrong, but sometimes things happen even when you're not looking for them. And sometimes they are truly wonderful things ...that transcend online and move into RL.

That said...I think threads like these shouldnt be started at all if you can't handle someone playing devil's advocate...even if they are a "moron"... don't invite others to comment if you can't take everyone not being sympathetic... that's all I'm saying. Not a personal slam...just my opinion on these kinds of threads in general.

 

[pink]

MY god how long is this going to go on.......better yet why am I here lol

It's just a chat, it'll die in time. i really don't understand why it bothers you?