somnophilia

[Netzach]

Endymion was always my fave classical myth. I love to get my guy started in the middle of the night so he's not totally awake till I've climbed on.

Good stuff.

 

[shy slave]

Well, who wouldn't like to be pleasured while you just lay there and do nothing?

I wouldn't.

That intense concentration on 'just me' would be very difficult to take.

I prefer serving him, or being used in a sadistic way; I feel less exposed.

When a man has wanted me to do nothing, I have been known to get very upset and tearful, completely unable to cope with it all.

Maybe I am alone in this, but that would not be the first time lol

I can understand the appeal of this fetish though.

I didn't know it had a name.

Dolf, where do you find this stuff????

 

[dolf]

Dolf, where do you find this stuff????

well...i'm a pervert!

i was thinking about my kink and i figured there must be a name for it...so i added the latin, somno and philia, ran it through google and it turns out i was right! just logic really.

yay me!

 

[shy slave]

well...i'm a pervert!

i was thinking about my kink and i figured there must be a name for it...so i added the latin, somno and philia, ran it through google and it turns out i was right! just logic really.

yay me!

'yay you' definitely.

Either that or

Nice lingerie, the tassels look good

 

[dolf]

'yay you' definitely.

Either that or

Nice lingerie, the tassels look good

i love sales *swoon*

 

[HoHoBomb]

well...i'm a pervert!

i was thinking about my kink and i figured there must be a name for it...so i added the latin, somno and philia, ran it through google and it turns out i was right! just logic really.

yay me!

smart one

 

[TrueSwitch]

hmm

I havent tried this completely yet, but I've enjoyed being woken up to my lover playing with my nipples and getting ready to fuck me. Hopefully soon he'll surprise me

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Master keeps threatening to wake me with a dick in my ass. He snores a lot so by morning He's refreshed and I'm sleeping like the dead to catch up on a restless night assuaged only by industrial strength earplugs.

Keep waking up when He applies lube. If He ever tries to dryfuck my ass while I'm asleep I may just turn on the bastard.

 

[Quint]

...........

 

[NemoAlia]

That reminds me of a joke my father tells, about a woman who's in a coma and her husband, who wants to know what he can do to help bring her back around.

The doctor says no one knows exactly what she can hear/feel, but the husband should feel free to experiment with various kinds of stimulation. In fact, if they had a moment of privacy, he might even consider oral sex.

Half an hour later, the entire nurse's station comes running. The wife's heart has stopped. They ask the distraught husband, who has been in the room the whole time, what happened.

I was following the doctor's advice, and she just started to choke!

 

[crruel]

I think I could get away with this.

 

[Vail_Indigo]

actually, I saw something about this on one of the many flavors of Law And Order.
I never thought about it much, though.
But now that I do, it is VERY exciting!

 

[RawHumor]

No no, use your natural impulses. Go with the flow.

Heh... I need a woman who's open to such things.

 

[RawHumor]

well...i'm a pervert!

i was thinking about my kink and i figured there must be a name for it...so i added the latin, somno and philia, ran it through google and it turns out i was right! just logic really.

yay me!

You have to adore a pervert with a brain.

 

[bustyblondebombshell]

Having my partner be completely still can be a turn-on for me.

I've been known to mummify my sub in plastic wrap and cut out a hole just large enough to access the port hole. Then I can fuck away and she literally can't move a muscle.

That just sounds so hot to me....

 

[Sterling]

I honestly had to go and bump this thread up because I had to comment.

Ive been in BDSM relationships before and my last partner was my lovely little sub who did what I liked her to do...

Anyway... She had a suggestion about drinking untill she passed out and then finding out what I've done when she woke up.

It was deliciously hot, and I must say, I was very depraved to enjoy it so much but she was vomiting all the next morning so we just stuck to our mock rape and beatings. Such a shame.

 

[FurryFury]

I've got to "just say to no" to fucking with my precious, and not often enough gotten, sleep.

We did try it once sorta. I said fuck me when you come in one morning if you want to. Neither of us found it very satisfying. I think we both would have preferred masturbate when we were awake and alone to that. It was tepid at best for us.

Each to their own of course.

 

[iluvyou3638]

even the word turns me on!

it's the desire to do dirty things to someone unconscious...or faking unconsciousness.
there's no term for the person who likes to be on the receiving end.

who digs it? who does it?

this fetish deserves a thread!
{with the word in the title}

you should read Middlesex, there is a scene like that when 2 girls are kind of exploring their sexuality and one of the kind of pretends to be asleep, but she is really into it

 

[Honeybunnny]

i'm really into that, have been for years and don't know why. have never tried to, but i want. there's just something about being taken advantage of that drives me wild.

 

[snowy ciara]

Me personally, I'm not into it, either giving or recieving. I have such bad chronic insomnia that when I am finally asleep, I prefer to stay that way. My Domme is quite understanding. She always lets me sleep, but reminds me to feel free to wake her up. There was a rather cute letter to Savage Love about this. The young man had obtained permission from his gf to molest her in her sleep, but whenever he tried to do it, she'd move away. He wanted to know how to make her stay asleep and not move away. I forgot what the answer was. Maybe I'll go through the archives and find it later.

 

[Rosie_Riveter]

Me personally, I'm not into it, either giving or recieving. I have such bad chronic insomnia that when I am finally asleep, I prefer to stay that way. My Domme is quite understanding. She always lets me sleep, but reminds me to feel free to wake her up. There was a rather cute letter to Savage Love about this. The young man had obtained permission from his gf to molest her in her sleep, but whenever he tried to do it, she'd move away. He wanted to know how to make her stay asleep and not move away. I forgot what the answer was. Maybe I'll go through the archives and find it later.

Benedryl.

 

[twysted73]

I've been on the giving end. (God the mind on her.) She/we had shared this fantasy of hers and being the type I wanted to make it happen for her a.s.a.p. She looks at me and says, "Promise me...next time we drink and I pass out, do it and film it for me. I want to watch myself being violated, I want to masturbate to it and I want to see if I recall anything."

I aim to please. I got her drunk, she passed out, I grabbed the camera. It was a thrill because I felt I shouldn't be doing so without her permission (although it had been expressed previously).
But it's exciting due to many factors. A.) I was making her fantasy come true. B.) She trusted me so much to request and depend on me to do so and C.) *shivers* <-- that's "C" by the way )

It was such a no-pressure/no expectation event. She asked, I answered and it was hot.
I had never done so and it was liberating in a very intense and intimate fashion. very difficult to explain really, but let's simply say the dynamics, the elements, the trust all came together to create that "perfect storm" situation where you'd not really be able to repeat it without detracting from the memory.

Ugh...fuck I miss....



*adendum * What about that date rape drug? The one that incompcitates <sp?> and leaves you aware? If you were with a trusted lover...it'd be completely possible so long as the dosage was correct.

Just saying...

 

[magdelena69]

Could never do this. Past experiences gone awry? Yes. And in so far as that "date rape drug," GHB or ruhiphinol (spelling is wrong I am pretty sure), not only is it the most terrifying thing in the world to experience, but it gives by far the worst hangover of anything I have ever done, which is actually saying it may possibly be the worst hangover of pretty much anything. Especially when experienced in the hospital. Just really really scary. Not only dehydrated, headachy, nauseous, and sleepy hangover, but also the I want to kill myself sort of emotional hangover. This may just be my experience, but please be aware it can suck suck suck. Not to mention the legal implications if something doesn't go as planned, or if your partner decides they don't like it, before, during, or after.

 

[alyse]

i'm really into that, have been for years and don't know why. have never tried to, but i want. there's just something about being taken advantage of that drives me wild.

Same here, it's a great feeling of helplessness.

 

[InstantRice]

Research Help

Hello everyone,

I'm attempting to write a research paper about somnophilia for a sexology class, but there's not much out there in the academic world. What I'm looking for are personal stories, why it appeals to you, what you get out of it, etc. Obviously, I won't use names or anything like that in my paper, I'm just looking for different insights. I won't use anything without permission, either. Any help anyone can send my way would be awesome, and I'm sorry if this isn't quite the place for this kind of request.

Thanks!