somnophilia

[tanijaana]

This would be an interesting way to wake up if it wouldn't throw me right into a panic attack. I have to wake up on my own or I start having anxiety issues.

 

[SirQittus]

Having my partner be completely still can be a turn-on for me.

I've been known to mummify my sub in plastic wrap and cut out a hole just large enough to access the port hole. Then I can fuck away and she literally can't move a muscle.

Somewhat similar to that, my sub has a hypnotic trigger which will turn her into an inflatable fuckdoll. Quite enjoyable for all concerned.

I might give her a Benadryl trigger at some point, too.

 

[Beaforce]

Sleeping BJ

I would love to give my boyfriend a BJ while he was sleeping but hopefully it would wake him up and he could join in the fun. I think I like sex better when both people are awake. Could be fun to fake being asleep and see what my boyfriend thinks he can get away with? Maybe he would try something on me he's afraid I'll reject if I'm awake ? I see where this fantasy could be really hott... I like!!

 

[madetotakeit]

This is one of those things that completely depends on where I am mentally. How I react to it I think really depended on where my subconscious was at the time. When it was good...it was very good. The mind becoming aware before being totally awake and interactive. Recognizing what was going on, feeling my body start to respond. The animal side taking over and having sex in a very primal, uninhibited way. Very satisfying, very exhausting. On the flip side, if my subconscious was not in a particularly receptive mood...the aftermath would put me in an uncomfortably vulnerable mindset. Curling into the fetal position and feeling violated. This effect only happenened when there were trust issues being dealt with in the relationship.

However, the idea of being completely out of control, vulnerable to the whims of somebody that I trust...such a turn on. Personally I would love to be able to be in that state but at the same time be aware of what was happening from the outset. An experiment if you will of what happens when the part of me that reasons and holds back is incapacitated and the other part of me has free reign. It would also be interesting to see where the other person goes with it. When completely in control, no concerns other than his desires and needs being considered. In my opinion what a great way to obtain a better understanding of yourself and the person you are with, not to mention pretty damn hot.

 

[Guest]

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[woodacre]

this is my biggest turn on, love playing with a sleeping/passive girl, i have wrote many a story on this too, please feel free to read them and also post me ideas for stories on this, love the experience of this!

 

[Somme]

Should I feel used 'n abused by this thread - or do I just need 'nuther cuppa tea......?

 

[subbie_333]

i have a fantasy/desire somewhat along these lines, and, related to a post i made in another thread about giving my consent to be taken advantage of while sick.

And, with me, it is affected by gender reversal as well. Most Dommes (generally those without self-defense training) are generally not physically able to overpower me just because of my size. So, it kinda puts a damper on things for me to "just stay still" or to have a wimpy concept as to how She overpowers me to get a scene started.

So, having Her gain the upper hand via my being asleep/unconscious, sick, or, under the influence has an appeal to me. But, the appeal is my physically trying to resist Her advances but being unable to do so, therefore, being completely unconscious doesn't fit that idea.

Possibly related to this thread's fetish (and perhaps the generic rape fantasy) is the concept of progressing so far into the scene that i don't have the physical and/or mental strength to resist any more. Specifically as it relates to me being "raped with a strap-on", reaching that (wonderful?) point of all of my body/mind being so relaxed/tired/submissive that i am able to feel every millimeter of Her cock and my insides with every stroke. My fear is that She would feel that i am too far into subspace and/or that She would need more responsiveness, such that She would stop.

And, it think that my description in the paragraph directly above and this thread's fetish are somewhat related to the objectification thread as well.

 

[DreamSensualist]

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[ataxia.girl]

mmmm Love being woken up by having my panties pulled down or already being fucked. Also love being fucked almost passed out. i like it because my inhibitions are more removed. i can't think clearly enough to wonder if i should be doing this or that and just let my body do what it does.

 

[EmpressFi]

I like it when foreplay starts when I'm asleep, although it's always a luck of the draw if you're gonna get horny Fi or grumpy Fi.

but I prefer we both be awake to fuck, just more fun that way

 

[MechaBlade]

even the word turns me on!

it's the desire to do dirty things to someone unconscious...or faking unconsciousness.
there's no term for the person who likes to be on the receiving end.

who digs it? who does it?

this fetish deserves a thread!
{with the word in the title}

I LOVE this fetish, but there's not a lot of good porn of it.

 

[girlofurdreams]

but normally, my first thought upon waking is emptying my bladder, so I have some limitations regarding sex acts.

hahahaha! you crack me up raw!



back to the topic at hand... my vanilla works nightshift and so i have been woken up many times by his cock between my legs, usually i consent and either wake up completely or try to drift back into my dream world... depending on how tired i am... on the rare occasion that i've been too tired i've sworn and ordered him on his merry little way...

i have woken many partners by giving them oral... i'm not sure what the appeal is of slowly kissing someone from their neck all the way down until my lips are between their legs... the more i think about it, i'm leaning towards the appeal of hearing that person moaning with pleasure while they're in a subconcious state... maybe even dreaming about someone kissing them the way that i am... and the thought of them waking to find their dreamt fantasy is an actual reality??? hmmmm not sure... but that's where i'm coming from....

and yes, i have been so drunk once that i haven't woken or been even slightly aware of having been fucked anally until i showered the next morning... that was a bit scary. i felt extremely violated. i had also been posed and photographed. not a nice feeling in the slightest and not turned on at all.

 

[ConquerMe]

even the word turns me on!

it's the desire to do dirty things to someone unconscious...or faking unconsciousness.
there's no term for the person who likes to be on the receiving end.

who digs it? who does it?

this fetish deserves a thread!
{with the word in the title}

I've fantasised a lot about similar ideas ... waking up to being fucked, or feigning sleep while someone takes advantage of me, pretending to remain unconscious while actually I have the pleasure of feeling everything.

I've also thought about what it would be like to be drugged so I'm paralysed but fully conscious, because my "attacker" or whatever wants me to feel every bit he does to me while I'm helpless.

I think for me it's that he would want me to be helpless, want to be able to do whatever he wanted to me, that holds an attraction for me. I've always been strangely turned on by the thought of a man wanting to use me like that...

But I agree with you others; it would definitely not be fun unless it was someone I trusted.

 

[unfoundiamond]

I never considered it before but...

even the word turns me on!

it's the desire to do dirty things to someone unconscious...or faking unconsciousness.
there's no term for the person who likes to be on the receiving end.

who digs it? who does it?

this fetish deserves a thread!
{with the word in the title}

Why... You wanna play dead for me? unconscious or sleeping or dead... I dk... lol, jk

My ex said he used to take advantage of me while I slept but I didn't ever know if I could believe him... he was slimy and would say yes, then no then yes.... he makes me cringe anyways....

but a hot chick who was willing wouldn't be so bad...

I believe I have done much worse

 

[Feelfreetotouch]

It's the waking up and not knowing what she did to me that turns me on.

 

[Lappdog]

This is a topic that is very near and dear to my heart. I have had a long history of sleep-related sexual experiences that manifest themselves in some sort of sleep disorder that I have. This may sound like BS, but truthfully, for as many years as my wife and I have been sleeping together, I have had frequent dream-like experiences where I initiate sex with her. I am in a state of semi-sleep, where I believe that we are consensually starting an encounter only to find later (sometimes the next day) that I was alone in the initiation as she was sound asleep.

In some instances she enjoyed my advances and allowed them to progress and continue to full-blown sex. In others, she stopped me, quite irritated by the interruption of her sleep.

Most of the time I remember the situation, though hazy in detail. However, there are many occasions where I have NO recollection and can barely believe that I did the things she tells me I do. I am fortunate that she is accepting of this situation and as I get older it seems to be less frequent.

All this being said, I have to say that I find the IDEA of sexing-up a sleeping partner exciting as well as the fantasy of having the same done to me. I have visted many of the sleep-sex porn sites and find it quite arousing even though they are often ridiculous in execution and concept.

 

[AppleButter]

even the word turns me on!

it's the desire to do dirty things to someone unconscious...or faking unconsciousness.
there's no term for the person who likes to be on the receiving end.

who digs it? who does it?

this fetish deserves a thread!
{with the word in the title}

I Didnt even know there was a Name to this. Im beyond Joyful right now. Im on the receiving end tho. ^_^

 

[the_mgp]

*************

 

[bharman4102]

hahahaha! you crack me up raw!



back to the topic at hand... my vanilla works nightshift and so i have been woken up many times by his cock between my legs, usually i consent and either wake up completely or try to drift back into my dream world... depending on how tired i am... on the rare occasion that i've been too tired i've sworn and ordered him on his merry little way...

i have woken many partners by giving them oral... i'm not sure what the appeal is of slowly kissing someone from their neck all the way down until my lips are between their legs... the more i think about it, i'm leaning towards the appeal of hearing that person moaning with pleasure while they're in a subconcious state... maybe even dreaming about someone kissing them the way that i am... and the thought of them waking to find their dreamt fantasy is an actual reality??? hmmmm not sure... but that's where i'm coming from....

and yes, i have been so drunk once that i haven't woken or been even slightly aware of having been fucked anally until i showered the next morning... that was a bit scary. i felt extremely violated. i had also been posed and photographed. not a nice feeling in the slightest and not turned on at all.

Suddenly, I'm having flashbacks to college....amazing what alcohol and youthful vigor can lead to!

 

[shykittyme]

I've fantasised a lot about similar ideas ... waking up to being fucked, or feigning sleep while someone takes advantage of me, pretending to remain unconscious while actually I have the pleasure of feeling everything.

I've also thought about what it would be like to be drugged so I'm paralysed but fully conscious, because my "attacker" or whatever wants me to feel every bit he does to me while I'm helpless.

I think for me it's that he would want me to be helpless, want to be able to do whatever he wanted to me, that holds an attraction for me. I've always been strangely turned on by the thought of a man wanting to use me like that...

But I agree with you others; it would definitely not be fun unless it was someone I trusted.

My goodness, Conquer...you have gotten around, Ms. 1,000+ posts!

Your post caught my eye, and I'm quoting you because you voice many of my own feelings. I, however, don't have any idea of how this would be in R/L, not having experienced it myself. The drugging thing I think, maybe as a roleplay, but only with someone I could trust unquestionably. Using the real thing, i.e. 'date rape drug' is too dangerous. But, without a doubt, there is something so very hot and exciting about imagining being surreptitiously felt up and fucked, a man doing naughty things to you on the sly...all while you are 'asleep'.

 

[Suzynhere]

i think both ways is a turn on. being taken advantage of by someone u want it to be is very erotic. and at the same time i have had many fantasies of doing something to someone i knew while they couldnt resist. i completely agree with both sides lol

 

[DeepInsideYou]

Admissions of a Somnophile

Good evening fellow writers, perverts, weirdo's and voyeurs

I was most pleased to find this thread, indeed I found this site by having googled 'somnophilia forum' and arrived at this conversation!

It appears that people cursed/blessed by a predisposition toward sleepy sex rarely discuss it. I wonder why?

Oh, perhaps because we are likely to be viewed as just slightly better humans than necrophile suicide bombers on crack?

I have never found any discussion, well sensible discussion, of the subject until now. As you seem like open minded folks I would be glad to finally offload some of my most sordid dirty secrets with you and intend to write a few somnophilia stories for the site. My first story posted is however a student-teacher forced sex story. Now in the que to be published here on site.

Somnophilia is very complex, the motivation, action and results are extraordinarily in depth. Some aspects are beyond even my desire to talk about lest my true identity ever be revealed.

Nice to meet you. If you ever share a bed with me, may I suggest you keep your backs to the wall.

[Smiles wickedly]

 

[DeepInsideYou]

Introduction To Somnophilia

As far as I can find description and discussion of somnophilia extends barely beyond a dictionary definition and a few porn sites with actresses that pretend to be asleep during sex scenes. There are also one or two written stories of course but not many. As someone who is a self admitted somnophiliac I would be happy to give a little insight into the reality of this sexual leaning. This perversion if you prefer.

For a person really into so called sleepy sex the existing material is not all that satisfying. People seem to miss the deeper aspects and conflicting feelings involved. Feeling at times arrogant and powerful whilst at others moments feeling like a slave to lusts that are seedy or unpleasant to process.

Between some somnophiliacs and necrophiliacs there is little more than the matter of a few degrees of heat. For others, the presence of the unaware mind of the sexual receiver is very important. The movement of the receiver, or lack of it, is crucial to them getting the maximum satisfaction from their activities. The level of previous intimacy with the receiver also plays a large part. I do not think many people with this sexual leaning would find much in common with rapists as seen by society, or consider their own actions rape. The action, to them, exists in a dark grey area of sexuality. It all really comes down 'what would they do if they woke up'. Which becomes a moot point to an experienced somnophiliac as it would hopefully never happen.

Any sensible person would not initiate the sexual activity in a situation with a high chance of trouble. Firstly it would be with someone with whom there is at least a fifty-fifty chance of being let off. Actually asking the receiver is one way of doing this, seemingly, but I do not think many somnophiliacs would be able to stick with this diluted format for very long. No more than heroin addicts can easily make do with drinking a beer to get their high.

The optimum really is being with someone that you know will at least let you off for doing it the once. Many sexual partners will perhaps let one major faux pas slide, perhaps at least once anyway. Obviously a longer term partner is more likely to let it slide a few times (assuming you are slack enough to wake them up a few times). Saying that of course one has to judge well whether their partner is more likely to wake up screaming and grab a iron to brain you with. It is probably not for the likes of a young former prom queen conservative Christian wife. Common sense applies just as with leanings toward bondage and sadomasochism, or many fetish and perversions.

There are actions involved that become almost rituals. Very deliberate, psychologically intensive actions are required. For example cold hands would never do, nor excessive movement or noise. Warming ones hands on ones own skin is wisest to get them to body temperature. Only after this would you consider resting the fingers, then palms and finally a whole hand on the receivers skin. There it would remain for perhaps several minutes before considering moving it toward the other persons sexual parts, whether that be a penis, ass, vagina or breast.

Likely one would lift a finger at a time and slowly shift the palm and repeat the process painfully slowly working toward the desired area. All the while willing the person not to wake, listening to their breathing, monitoring any tiny movements. If all seems to be going unnoticed you may get brave and shift the whole hand almost directing to the spot and begin getting your fingers under the material of any underwear (assuming that in most cases they do have some on).

Ideally the receiver would have crashed out pretty drunk or particularly tired out. If they woke up and joined in it would be pretty shit. It is not something to be shared in a relationship, it is selfish and completely one sided. If the other person does wake up and by luck enjoys it, they would have to be a damn fine actor to make it work. I have no idea if I have had this happen, but it seems likely that it may have occurred at least once or twice over the years.

As a man with a preference for women only, I of course have to be aware of the risk of actually cumming in or on the person receiving my attention. It would be a bit of a give away in the morning. I imagine, I have no doubt, that there are guys out there that cum inside sleeping strangers and get the hell out of the area before the person wakes up. That is however an extreme I personally do not feel the need to head toward. For me that is heading out of the grey area and toward the realms of the men that drag women into bushes and have their way with them. Perhaps not quite the same, but leaning towards it at least.

Any orgasm would have to be followed by swift manoeuvre so that ejaculation was on a part of the bed away from the person, in ones pants or on ones own body. Apart from the desire to keep the activity mostly secret, a 'moral' stance has to involve not wanting to get the person unwillingly pregnant if that may be a possible side effect of the actions.

I suspect that somnophilia is something that occurs rather like alien abductions. It happens in the night to more people than anyone would suspect. Most can't remember it occurring as it is in altered states of conciousness, and those who are loosely aware of it doubt their own experience of it as it seems too bizarre to believe.

Hope that this serves as an intro and helps inspire some stories!!!!

 

[DeepInsideYou]

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