TheIntrepidBoyager
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Whether it's self-massage, fingering, a plug, or your Dom/Domme using a dildo on you by hand or harness, it's all included in this discussion.
The question is, how important is anal play to your submission? For me, it is a fairly important influence I guess I would call it. I find it both physical and psychological. There's no question it feels amazing and of course there are those who turn to prostate stimulation in lieu of penis stimulation but there's an undeniable mental aspect for me as well.
I'm an outwardly alpha male but I've been bi pretty much forever. I've had two adult bi encounters but I was the top in both cases. When Domme T plays with my ass or has me do it, it triggers something deep. Funny enough, as it is happening I'm more focused on the physical sensations and it is afterward that it sinks in. It really impacts my masculinity. I even find myself moving differently.
It truly does bring me deeper into submission and the distinction between my "public" persona and my home one becomes so much more pronounced. While she makes me wear panties and sometimes paints my toenails, she doesn't like me full-on crossdressing. She likes emasculating me, but to a point. So, for me, it isn't necessarily a feminization thing as it is a gay bottom thing. Does that make any sense?
Of course, her words during these acts contribute.
What are everyone else's thoughts?
The question is, how important is anal play to your submission? For me, it is a fairly important influence I guess I would call it. I find it both physical and psychological. There's no question it feels amazing and of course there are those who turn to prostate stimulation in lieu of penis stimulation but there's an undeniable mental aspect for me as well.
I'm an outwardly alpha male but I've been bi pretty much forever. I've had two adult bi encounters but I was the top in both cases. When Domme T plays with my ass or has me do it, it triggers something deep. Funny enough, as it is happening I'm more focused on the physical sensations and it is afterward that it sinks in. It really impacts my masculinity. I even find myself moving differently.
It truly does bring me deeper into submission and the distinction between my "public" persona and my home one becomes so much more pronounced. While she makes me wear panties and sometimes paints my toenails, she doesn't like me full-on crossdressing. She likes emasculating me, but to a point. So, for me, it isn't necessarily a feminization thing as it is a gay bottom thing. Does that make any sense?
Of course, her words during these acts contribute.
What are everyone else's thoughts?
