Men - Anal Play Connection To Submission?

[TheIntrepidBoyager]

Whether it's self-massage, fingering, a plug, or your Dom/Domme using a dildo on you by hand or harness, it's all included in this discussion.

The question is, how important is anal play to your submission? For me, it is a fairly important influence I guess I would call it. I find it both physical and psychological. There's no question it feels amazing and of course there are those who turn to prostate stimulation in lieu of penis stimulation but there's an undeniable mental aspect for me as well.

I'm an outwardly alpha male but I've been bi pretty much forever. I've had two adult bi encounters but I was the top in both cases. When Domme T plays with my ass or has me do it, it triggers something deep. Funny enough, as it is happening I'm more focused on the physical sensations and it is afterward that it sinks in. It really impacts my masculinity. I even find myself moving differently.

It truly does bring me deeper into submission and the distinction between my "public" persona and my home one becomes so much more pronounced. While she makes me wear panties and sometimes paints my toenails, she doesn't like me full-on crossdressing. She likes emasculating me, but to a point. So, for me, it isn't necessarily a feminization thing as it is a gay bottom thing. Does that make any sense?

Of course, her words during these acts contribute.

What are everyone else's thoughts?

 

[Gumby11747]

On a physical level, I find anal play to be extremely pleasurable. That being said, I also find it to be more than a little emasculating. My public persona is that of an average straight male but behind closed doors I have been known to become a bit of an anal slut. As you said, having my ass played with triggers something and the during times in between having someone to play with, I find myself craving it. Being forced to wear panties or paint my toenails or other emasculating things might be a small price to pay to satiate the cravings.

 

[lowcollar]

Nothing quite as exciting and emasculating as being on your hands and knees, head down, spreading your ass cheeks and begging to have your "pussy" fucked. Then the lovely pain of entry, then pleasure that follows while being called a bitch and slut. As a submissive, this is one of my favorite things. I also like giving good head after pegging.

 

[Bi4Older84]

I think that the act of being penetrated requires an inherent submission, allowing something inside of yourself-combine that with preconceived societal notions of masculinity, it makes it very easy to slip into a submissive mindset.

 

[Justme5757]

I love anal play. Being such a personal private area offering your ass to someone to use, play with and penetrate is the ultimate in offering up yourself and being submissive

 

[Dave1812]

I love anal play too. With a man I'm submissive and giving him my ass tweaks my submissive buttons.

 

[MtrFmd]

Nothing quite as exciting and emasculating as being on your hands and knees, head down, spreading your ass cheeks and begging to have your "pussy" fucked. Then the lovely pain of entry, then pleasure that follows while being called a bitch and slut. As a submissive, this is one of my favorite things. I also like giving good head after pegging.

That's what I love about this forum. Your vivid description makes my imagination go wild and I just realized I have so much more to explore in that direction...

 

[Burstplayer]

As the receiver, not for me. It's just about the pleasure zone and nothing "sub" about it. In certain positions and aspects, it can't help be somewhat submissive, but not in the kink definition per se.

 

[Samantha47]

I love anal play. Being such a personal private area offering your ass to someone to use, play with and penetrate is the ultimate in offering up yourself and being submissive

Oh yes honey

 

[BillyWalrus]

I love anal play. Being such a personal private area offering your ass to someone to use, play with and penetrate is the ultimate in offering up yourself and being submissive

Definitely that is true for me. My trans gf is my top and she likes to be dominant as she fucks. She is super feminine but when it comes to sex, she is the man. I love being submissive to her big cock - offering my holes for her to use as she wishes. We both fantasize that she is making me pregnant when she cums in my ass.

 

[Erosfan]

I love anal play. Being such a personal private area offering your ass to someone to use, play with and penetrate is the ultimate in offering up yourself and being submissive

I go absolutely crazy when she touches my ass when we are playing. When I am really aroused, I can almost cum from it. I have begged her to push in. It's a no go for her.

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

Anal Play Connection To Submission​

Sometimes. It all depends on context. There are two people that can have different mindsets. At times it feels so good that I’m lots and the pleasure it what is all about. Other times as I’m on my knees in lingerie submission is all I’m thinking about. For her doing anything could to me can be dominating.

 

[Uncut1969]

I think I would feel submissive as another man takes my cherry and breeds me with his seed! I get so hard and leaking thinking about it!

 

[Samantha47]

Feels so good to submit to anything a man wants