Cock Talk

[Wand3rlust]

Again Pre-Gillette Sex

I read recently that a majority of women prefer men with beards or whiskers over clean shaved faces.

I have no preference. Not scratchy. But other than that, not fussed.

I know from previous answers that Lit women overwhelmingly seem to prefer some body hair on their dude.

Do you prefer a guy clean shaved, some stubble, or full beard?
I assume it is appreciated when we (men) groom to a degree, but how do you feel if a guy is totally shaved (head to toe)? What if it’s for his job—Swimmer, Model, Stripper?

Again, that would be their preference. I do like some fur. But it’s not a deal breaker.

According to old movies, a guy’s face should be smooth as silk before a date, what changed?

I’m not sure we should be taking advice from movies, old or otherwise.

Women seem to enjoy the beard between their legs, but whiskers take some time to become beards. What is the proper amount of whiskers to enjoy getting oral from?

I think I’d be way more focussed on what the tongue is doing than anything else…

Do you love the feeling of smooth balls on your chin, or are you fine either way?

Are balls ever really smooth?…

What criticisms do you have about past partner’s grooming habits?

None.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Are balls ever really smooth?…

Yup.

 

[Apisto42]

Pre-Gillette Sex

I read recently that a majority of women prefer men with beards or whiskers over clean shaved faces.

Huh. Color me bearded.

I know from previous answers that Lit women overwhelmingly seem to prefer some body hair on their dude.

Yeah, totally smooth is just fucking weird. #Kinkshaming

Do you prefer a guy clean shaved, some stubble, or full beard?

I grew a beard for no shave November about 8 years ago. Still there but regularly trimmed.

I assume it is appreciated when we (men) groom to a degree, but how do you feel if a guy is totally shaved (head to toe)? What if it’s for his job—Swimmer, Model, Stripper?

A dude still looks weird with zero body hair. Sickly.

According to old movies, a guy’s face should be smooth as silk before a date, what changed?

Well, our standards as a society went the way of the dodo. Guys used to wear coat and tie to go on a date as well. It was important to look good before date raping your girl in the backseat of your model T.

Women seem to enjoy the beard between their legs, but whiskers take some time to become beards. What is the proper amount of whiskers to enjoy getting oral from?

I’ve been told my beard is soft and feels lovely between thighs.

Do you love the feeling of smooth balls on your chin, or are you fine either way?

I appreciate a tongue on smooth balls more than if I’m hairy. More sensation.

What criticisms do you have about past partner’s grooming habits?

None. It’s her body.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Pre-Gillette Sex

I read recently that a majority of women prefer men with beards or whiskers over clean shaved faces.

I know from previous answers that Lit women overwhelmingly seem to prefer some body hair on their dude.

Do you prefer a guy clean shaved, some stubble, or full beard?

Clean shaven or neatly trimmed are both great. The in between can hurt sensitive skin, but thankfully that phase doesn’t last long.

The longer, scraggly beards are a huge turn off for me.

I assume it is appreciated when we (men) groom to a degree, but how do you feel if a guy is totally shaved (head to toe)? What if it’s for his job—Swimmer, Model, Stripper?

I think it would probably be odd if it weren’t job related, but thankfully I haven’t encountered this scenario in the wild.

I’ve dated men who just have very, very minimal body hair naturally and that was totally fine.

According to old movies, a guy’s face should be smooth as silk before a date, what changed?

Everything is temporary and things go in and out of style.

I mean, have you seen teenagers in socks and sandals these days? I giggle and think of little old Italian men every time

Women seem to enjoy the beard between their legs, but whiskers take some time to become beards. What is the proper amount of whiskers to enjoy getting oral from?

Unless it’s at the sandpaper stage, I’m much more focused on what he’s doing down there than the state of his facial hair. If it hurt, we’d be saving the face sitting for a few days. Or a week.

Do you love the feeling of smooth balls on your chin, or are you fine either way?

I’m trying to think if I’ve had balls on my chin? I guess that can happen during blow jobs depending on the position?

In that case, I mostly want them to be comfortable and keep it how it makes them feel most confident. If pressed, I’d go with the Goldilocks answer - not too much, not too little. Well kept and manscaped is perfect.

What criticisms do you have about past partner’s grooming habits?

I did not enjoy when I college boyfriend asked me to shave his back. Regularly.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I’ve dated men who just have very, very minimal body hair naturally and that was totally fine.

That’s me!

 

[hotwords229_A]

I’m trying to think if I’ve had balls on my chin?

As I was going through my notifications, this post popped up in the Cock Worship thread.
Seemed inappropriately appropriate.

CAUTION: SHAVED BALLS!

 

[Apisto42]

I mean, have you seen teenagers in socks and sandals these days? I giggle and think of little old Italian men every time

At home I regularly take the dog out in socks and sandals. He’s barefoot, but I’m rocking black socks and crocs.

Unless it’s at the sandpaper stage, I’m much more focused on what he’s doing down there than the state of his facial hair. If it hurt, we’d be saving the face sitting for a few days. Or a week.

Makes note to self.

I did not enjoy when I college boyfriend asked me to shave his back. Regularly.

Fucking hell. You should have just waxed that hairy backed Mary and gotten longer between sessions. Plus it might have encouraged him to just accept it.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Getting into the swing of things.

Scenario: Your partner suggests you both go to a new, clean, friendly and, somehow, disease free Swingers Club a few towns over where you won’t know anyone (maybe you wear masks or something).

Are you interested?
What parameters would you set before going?
Have you been to a Swingers Club before? Has your partner?
What would be your goal in going?
Would you engage in masturbation with your partner, oral, full blown sex in front of an audience?
Do you want to see your partner, or be seen by your partner, with another person? Same sex? Different sex? You/they watch, or join in?
Do you think you would both chicken out in a Swinger’s Club and just witness all the debauchery, or would you lose control?
Which room of the club would you be most curious about AND afraid to enter? Glory Hole Vortex, Masturbation Station, Fuck Room, Orgy Office, etc.?
What questions would you want answered about Swinger’s Clubs?

 

[deft]

Scenario: Your partner suggests you both go to a new, clean, friendly and, somehow, disease free Swingers Club a few towns over where you won’t know anyone (maybe you wear masks or something).

Are you interested?

Absolutely. Very interested.

What parameters would you set before going?

I don't think anything further than knowing our established limits, and not expecting to cross them with other people, I guess.

Have you been to a Swingers Club before? Has your partner?

I have not, and she has not.

What would be your goal in going?

Sex.

Would you engage in masturbation with your partner, oral, full blown sex in front of an audience?

Yes.

Do you want to see your partner, or be seen by your partner, with another person? Same sex? Different sex? You/they watch, or join in?

My preference would be to see her with someone of the same sex... and I think she'd be more into that, too. I'd be very happy to watch, but super excited if I were invited to join.

Do you think you would both chicken out in a Swinger’s Club and just witness all the debauchery, or would you lose control?

I believe the first time is usually more about watching, right? Unless the urge hits... then all bets are off...

Which room of the club would you be most curious about AND afraid to enter? Glory Hole Vortex, Masturbation Station, Fuck Room, Orgy Office, etc.?

The Glory Hole Vortex... it's a little too abstract and impersonal for me.

What questions would you want answered about Swinger’s Clubs?

Lit has answered most of them, along with private discussions with people who have experience. I'm good to go!

 

[AngelicaS1780]

Getting into the swing of things.
Scenario: Your partner suggests you both go to a new, clean, friendly and, somehow, disease free Swingers Club a few towns over where you won’t know anyone (maybe you wear masks or something).
Are you interested?

If the partner was my husband, I would be absolutely floored, but he's surprised me before. Definitely interested with any partner.

What parameters would you set before going?

With husband, they would likely all apply to limiting my interactions with other people. At least the first time around. I think they would vary with the partner and our comfort level with the club situation itself. The discussion would include questions about how exhibitionistic my partner is comfortable being and what sort of interactions with others are okay.

Have you been to a Swingers Club before? Has your partner?

I have not, but have always been interested. My husband has not. As far as I know, no friends or paramours have either.

What would be your goal in going?

Since I've never been, the main goal would be to determine if the reality is as appealing as the fantasy. If so, then the goals would be to indulge my exhibitionist and voyeuristic tendencies, meet like minded people, and, depending on the partner, play with others.

Would you engage in masturbation with your partner, oral, full blown sex in front of an audience?

Depends on the comfort level of the partner. If they're game, I'd likely be up for all of the above.

Do you want to see your partner, or be seen by your partner, with another person? Same sex? Different sex? You/they watch, or join in?

I'd be interested in it all.

Do you think you would both chicken out in a Swinger’s Club and just witness all the debauchery, or would you lose control?

With the husband, we'd probably just watch and play some together on a first visit. I'd be likely to include some play with others with a more adventurous partner.

Which room of the club would you be most curious about AND afraid to enter? Glory Hole Vortex, Masturbation Station, Fuck Room, Orgy Office, etc.?

The Glory Hole Vortex would not be for me. So not that curious to enter, but definitely afraid to enter.
I'd be very curious about The Dungeon, but a little bit afraid to enter.

What questions would you want answered about Swinger’s Clubs?

I don't think I have questions about them in general. If I was considering going to a specific club, I'd have questions about their rules. I'd want to ensure that they emphasized consent and safety. And cleanliness.

 

[Apisto42]

Getting into the swing of things.

Hot. Approved.

Scenario: Your partner suggests you both go to a new, clean, friendly and, somehow, disease free Swingers Club a few towns over where you won’t know anyone (maybe you wear masks or something).

Fantasy world is fantastic. Continuing fantasy world, my partner is the following scenarios is a fwb that is only romantic enough for hot sex.

Are you interested?

Yes

What parameters would you set before going?

None

Have you been to a Swingers Club before? Has your partner?

Nope

What would be your goal in going?

Hot sex, reviling in our bodies and sensation.

Would you engage in masturbation with your partner, oral, full blown sex in front of an audience?

Yes

Do you want to see your partner, or be seen by your partner, with another person?

Yes

Same sex? Different sex? You/they watch, or join in?

All of the above

Do you think you would both chicken out in a Swinger’s Club and just witness all the debauchery, or would you lose control?

It’s all about giving up some type of control. It’s not love, it’s just straight up heightened sensation. Probably loses it appeal pretty quickly, but I think the first few times would be fairly wild.

Which room of the club would you be most curious about AND afraid to enter? Glory Hole Vortex,

What?

Masturbation Station,

I mean I can do that alone, but I’m sure some people love it

Fuck Room, Orgy Office, etc.?

Winners

What questions would you want answered about Swinger’s Clubs?

Will there be sword fighting? Is it BYOL?

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

Getting into the swing of things.


Are you interested?

…sure?

What parameters would you set before going?

Let’s just go keep an open mind and see what it’s like!

Have you been to a Swingers Club before? Has your partner?

No

What would be your goal in going?

Being in a sexually charged space with my person and experimenting.

Would you engage in masturbation with your partner, oral, full blown sex in front of an audience?

I would have to see how I felt. But being there with my person and experimenting with different levels of exhibition sounds very exciting.

Do you want to see your partner, or be seen by your partner, with another person? Same sex? Different sex? You/they watch, or join in?

No thanks . A swingers club sounds like a fun fantasy to experience with my partner but that’s my limit. I’ll do crazy things with him but I don’t want to hook up with others.

Do you think you would both chicken out in a Swinger’s Club and just witness all the debauchery, or would you lose control?

Possibly? I think just getting up the nerve to go would be a big step!

Which room of the club would you be most curious about AND afraid to enter? Glory Hole Vortex, Masturbation Station, Fuck Room, Orgy Office, etc.?

I think I’d seek out Blindfold Basement, the Costume Kitchen, and the Roleplay Recroom.

What questions would you want answered about Swinger’s Clubs?

I looked into various Lifestyle clubs out of curiosity over the years. I liked that they had different theme nights and they had “intro classes” for lack of a better term. One called it Dungeon 101 night. It seemed like a really practical way to welcome newcumers

I’d have a ton of questions. What is the privacy policy like? Discretion is important. Cleaning routines? What are the safety measures being taken to keep people following the rules? How many couples frequent the club vs people hooking up with multiple people?

 

[MedicalMuse]

Pre-Gillette Sex

I read recently that a majority of women prefer men with beards or whiskers over clean shaved faces.

I know from previous answers that Lit women overwhelmingly seem to prefer some body hair on their dude.

Do you prefer a guy clean shaved, some stubble, or full beard?

Beard! Stubble!

I assume it is appreciated when we (men) groom to a degree, but how do you feel if a guy is totally shaved (head to toe)? What if it’s for his job—Swimmer, Model, Stripper?

Whatever. Probably wouldn’t be really that interested. Personal Preference? Hair is sexy.

According to old movies, a guy’s face should be smooth as silk before a date, what changed?

Men got manlier? Idk. I grew up with men who had facial hair. It’s what’s manly to me.

Women seem to enjoy the beard between their legs, but whiskers take some time to become beards. What is the proper amount of whiskers to enjoy getting oral from?

Any and all

Do you love the feeling of smooth balls on your chin, or are you fine either way?

Either way.

What criticisms do you have about past partner’s grooming habits?

None. I think if it makes you feel sexy, I’m in.

 

[MedicalMuse]

Getting into the swing of things.

Scenario: Your partner suggests you both go to a new, clean, friendly and, somehow, disease free Swingers Club a few towns over where you won’t know anyone (maybe you wear masks or something).

It’s a Christmas Miracle!

Are you interested?

Been there done that

What parameters would you set before going?

It’s all about the rules. Communicate. This is an experience for together, so make it about togetherness.

Have you been to a Swingers Club before? Has your partner?

Yes and yes

What would be your goal in going?

A good time, hopefully without any drama, but there are people

Would you engage in masturbation with your partner, oral, full blown sex in front of an audience?

Have done all three lol

Do you want to see your partner, or be seen by your partner, with another person?

Done that, it’s a little harder to share like that I think.

Same sex?

That’s a little easier

Different sex? You/they watch, or join in?

He always held my hand or kissed me

Do you think you would both chicken out in a Swinger’s Club and just witness all the debauchery, or would you lose control?

Parameters.

Which room of the club would you be most curious about AND afraid to enter? Glory Hole Vortex, Masturbation Station, Fuck Room, Orgy Office, etc.?

Probably glory hole vortex. You don’t really know what you’re getting

What questions would you want answered about Swinger’s Clubs?

How do they vet? What are the rules about singles?

 

[Cogan]

Getting into the swing of things.

Scenario: Your partner suggests you both go to a new, clean, friendly and, somehow, disease free Swingers Club a few towns over where you won’t know anyone (maybe you wear masks or something).

Are you interested?

This is not likely to happen since mrs. is not the public type. But if it did I'd be all for it!

What parameters would you set before going?

First time, watch and learn. Then depending on who I'm there with the rules would vary.

Have you been to a Swingers Club before? Has your partner?

No.

What would be your goal in going?

Exploring fun things.

Would you engage in masturbation with your partner, oral, full blown sex in front of an audience?

Yes.

Do you want to see your partner, or be seen by your partner, with another person? Same sex? Different sex? You/they watch, or join in?

Hard to say, but I'd like to say yes.

Do you think you would both chicken out in a Swinger’s Club and just witness all the debauchery, or would you lose control?

I'd love to interact but I don't think I'd lose control.

Which room of the club would you be most curious about AND afraid to enter? Glory Hole Vortex, Masturbation Station, Fuck Room, Orgy Office, etc.?

I'd be waiting in the dungeon for @AngelicaS1780 ..........
I have no idea what the Orgy Office is but I'd like to find out. Glory Hole isn't my thing I think but both Masturbation Station and Fuck Room sounds fun!

What questions would you want answered about Swinger’s Clubs?

Consent rules, how clean are the facilities, does everybody come as a pair are the questions I can think of now. I'm sure I have more if it would ever happen.

 

[EvaLane]

Getting into the swing of things. Are you interested?

Gee, I don’t know, I’m trembling just thinking about it

What parameters would you set before going?

Let’s just focus on making it inside after the panic attack hits, alright? Trust me, when it’s time to go, you’ll know.

Have you been to a Swingers Club before? Has your partner?

No but Toronto has some great options

What would be your goal in going?

Satisfaction,

But I suppose the goal would be to push myself to embrace parts of myself that I’ve repeatedly attempted to stifle. It’s been bottled up for so long, even with these silly little outlets, it’s just a matter of time.

Should this all really be unleashed somewhere roof-collapsible? Perhaps some free for all, running-of-the-whores outdoors type deal would be safer for everyone involved

Would you engage in masturbation with your partner, oral, full blown sex in front of an audience?

I’m quite impressionable… it wouldn’t take much encouragement or acknowledgement to spur me on.

I don’t think I’d be touching myself much, at least not consciously - I do that enough all alone in my room but I can see myself getting carried away while my partner touched me.

Wouldn’t want to let down the crowd, right? Too late to back out now

Do you want to see your partner, or be seen by your partner, with another person? Same sex? Different sex? You/they watch, or join in?

I have a feeling this sort of club would expose us both in ways we never imagined.

I’d be watching his eyes more than anything, whether they were on me or perhaps more focused on the unfamiliar cock pushing past my lips. Is he watching me or is he watching the men watching me? When will enough be enough for him?

Do you think you would both chicken out in a Swinger’s Club and just witness all the debauchery, or would you lose control?

There’s a reason I keep to the safe side of the street. Take a dangerous girl and put her in a dangerous place… well, even I know 1 + 1 = debauchery

Which room of the club would you be most curious about AND afraid to enter?

I’m alreadyyyy wondering if all of the facilities are cooed or not…

What questions would you want answered about Swinger’s Clubs?

When is men’s night and can I come?

 

[deft]

When is men’s night and can I come?

Yes. You can definitely come.

 

[lavendersilk]

Will there be sword fighting? Is it BYOL?

Bring Your Own Laser?

 

[EvaLane]

Bring Your Own Laser?

 

[redsnowbunny]

Bring Your Own Laser?

And THIS is what came to mind.

 

[lavendersilk]

Getting into the swing of things.

I thought you meant this at first. I don't kink shame.

Scenario: Your partner suggests you both go to a new, clean, friendly and, somehow, disease free Swingers Club a few towns over where you won’t know anyone (maybe you wear masks or something.

In lieu of masks, I would accept condoms.

Are you interested?

Yep!

What parameters would you set before going?

There would be a list of things we both feel comfortable doing and not doing. Hard limits, soft limits, etc.

Have you been to a Swingers Club before?

No.

Has your partner?

N/A

What would be your goal in going?

Pushing my comfort zone a little bit.

Would you engage in masturbation with your partner, oral, full blown sex in front of an audience?

Yes.

Do you want to see your partner, or be seen by your partner, with another person? Same sex? Different sex? You/they watch, or join in?

Yes.

Do you think you would both chicken out in a Swinger’s Club and just witness all the debauchery, or would you lose control?

Mmm, not sure. Depends on if we pregame(edge each other, no drinking) before going. If I'm horny enough, all my inhibitions go out the window.

Which room of the club would you be most curious about AND afraid to enter? Glory Hole Vortex, Masturbation Station, Fuck Room, Orgy Office, etc.?

I might be afraid to enter The Glory Hole Vortex because it implies you would never leave... All the others I would be curious/excited about.

What questions would you want answered about Swinger’s Clubs?

I would want to read all of the Yelp! reviews before hand. Make sure it was inspected for cleanliness and safety. Antibacterial wipes and security guards at the ready.

 

[GallantWriter]

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That's wild

 

[redsnowbunny]

I thought you meant this at first. I don't kink shame.

this is hilarious

 

[hotwords229_A]

My preference would be to see her with someone of the same sex...

Hell yeah!

the main goal would be to determine if the reality is as appealing as the fantasy.

This is always the catch.

Is it BYOL?

Bring Your Own Lance?

I think I’d seek out Blindfold Basement, the Costume Kitchen, and the Roleplay Recroom.

These are all WAY better than my suggestions.

Have done all three lol

does everybody come as a pair are the questions I can think of now.

This is a good question. I assume singles are not allowed, but I don’t know that. This, however, could be a lot of fun to go with a “friend” instead of a partner.

When is men’s night and can I come?

On Men’s Night you would be coming A LOT!

I thought you meant this at first. I don't kink shame.

That’s the beginners club. You gotta start somewhere.

 

[Apisto42]

BYOL: bring your own lube.

Y’all are a bunch of dirty perverts for thinking anything else.

(But you were right about the sword fighting)