Why do older men become bi-curious?

[Bathtubbill]

Maybe it's because a hard cock is fucking sexy

 

[Jeph77]

Maybe it's because a hard cock is fucking sexy

It's like you sent up a flare.

 

[Jeph77]

It's like you sent up a flare.

That pearly eye, looking at you.

 

[Bathtubbill]

That pearly eye, looking at you.

With all the pent up pleasure it has to release

 

[Jeph77]

With all the pent up pleasure it has to release

You feel obliged. No, compelled.

 

[Bathtubbill]

You feel obliged. No, compelled.

It would be rude not to

 

[Jeph77]

It would be rude not to

Let's get you taken care of.

 

[LeeKee]

 

[Bigboobbabe]

Maybe a drop in sex as our women become less interested. My wife and I haven't had sex in over 10 years but if she caught me stepping out it would be my fault.

It's sad how true that is. My friend hasn't had sex with wife in 14 yrs.
I can't feel guilty about giving him affection, contact, pleasure, and a feeling of self-worth.
I have been in his car when she called. On speaker, she was a total bitch the way she spoke to him.
When the call was over, I hugged him and held him tight. Nothing sexual in that moment. My sole intention was to let him know his worthy.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I don’t think i am talking about relationships really. I am talking more about encounters, and opportunities for encounters. A sexual encounter and a relationship (of any sort) are very different things.

I am not the worst looking wretched man in the room. For my age I am complemented on my looks fairly often. But if I am horny and want an orgasm, men are quite honestly the easiest option. Most of my MM encounters since I have been an adult involved almost no communication other than a hand or a mouth or watching. I am in a large city right now and if I had a bit of time and the inclination I could walk out of this building and find a male sex partner, using an app or just my knowledge of cruising even.

If I wanted a MF encounter, there would understandably need to be a dialogue and the building of trust that could lead (sometime) to an encounter in the future. Female cruising does not exist.

I can confirm.
It has been a very rare time i have had sex or sucked a cock of a guy with less than several days chatting and a g-rated public meeting.

 

[badonkadoku]

sum it up in a nut-sack.

Such an apt phrase! Love it!

 

[Easyvirtue]

My experience is stemmed from my only experience with a man in my early 30’s. After meeting my wife and being married for only 22 years the separation and decline in our sexual situation has driven me to desire my past transgressions. I can only fantasize about my past with him as I grow resentful of the arrangement we have now.

 

[Justynewhitney]

I enjoy the thought of being gay more than actually acting it out. I masturbate to cock exclusively now and have been for about three years. I'm 67 have a belly and a 4 inch cock. When I was in my 30s I spent about a year sucking trans prostitute dick. Been fucked and like it. I really want to suck cock again, but can't find the right person and circumstances.

 

[TryGuy35]

I enjoy the thought of being gay more than actually acting it out. I masturbate to cock exclusively now and have been for about three years. I'm 67 have a belly and a 4 inch cock. When I was in my 30s I spent about a year sucking trans prostitute dick. Been fucked and like it. I really want to suck cock again, but can't find the right person and circumstances.

Interesting how things change like that and what gets you horny now versus younger and how it evolves. The spice of life and lust is an interesting journey for sure

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I enjoy the thought of being gay more than actually acting it out. I masturbate to cock exclusively now and have been for about three years. I'm 67 have a belly and a 4 inch cock. When I was in my 30s I spent about a year sucking trans prostitute dick. Been fucked and like it. I really want to suck cock again, but can't find the right person and circumstances.

Interesting how things change like that and what gets you horny now versus younger and how it evolves. The spice of life and lust is an interesting journey for sure

While 'tastes' do change with age, I am absolutely sure that becoming bi-curious is not just evolution.
#1) As sex wanes in hetero marriages - mostly in the female partner - the need to continue to experience sex doesn't just die in the male partner
#2) Because of #1 (and still while loving his wife), the male begins looking
#3) Finding a female partner is rife with issues since most women are not just looking for "No Strings Attached" sex
#4) Contrary to #3 (most women are not just looking for "NSA" sex), and because of #2 (still while loving his wife), most men ARE looking for NSA sex.
#5) Because most men ARE looking for NSA sex, they can find it with other men in similar situations
#6) A lot of men, if not most, have either previously masturbated to porn that focuses on cock or have had M2M sexual 'encounters'.

 

[trucker6142]

I am a 64 y/o mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thinh. Is this a common phenomenon?

I belive, that since we are getting up there in years, why not try something once. No one is forcing us into it.
I finding highly erotic.
My wife and I watched gay porn during our play dates. She enjoys it immensely.
I've asked what it feels like to have my cock in her ass, and she has trouble with explaining the feeling.
We have starting to explore her Pegging me. And yes I enjoy it. I feel I'm ready to at least find some guy in my area who might be In interested in show the ropes. Yes the wife would be watching at least.

 

[IrishBarmanBi]

I'm not complaining, love older guys

 

[ndoorfin]

we stop caring what others think

 

[spawnofdavey]

I think for me, it's a realisation that you can have just as much fun with other men as you can with women.

 

[jimmyturtleman]

I don’t think i am talking about relationships really. I am talking more about encounters, and opportunities for encounters. A sexual encounter and a relationship (of any sort) are very different things.

I am not the worst looking wretched man in the room. For my age I am complemented on my looks fairly often. But if I am horny and want an orgasm, men are quite honestly the easiest option. Most of my MM encounters since I have been an adult involved almost no communication other than a hand or a mouth or watching. I am in a large city right now and if I had a bit of time and the inclination I could walk out of this building and find a male sex partner, using an app or just my knowledge of cruising even.

If I wanted a MF encounter, there would understandably need to be a dialogue and the building of trust that could lead (sometime) to an encounter in the future. Female cruising does not exist.

Female cruising 'does' exist, but it usually requires a cash transaction, and it's highly illegal. Just saying.

 

[pntyhseluvr]

Yes, that is the hard part. Lots of men seem interested, but in the end they decide to keep their fantasies as just that. To me, that would be a bit frustrating. I need to know if I'd like it or not

If it worked out that it could be arranged that we were at the same hotel I’d definitely find out if it was just fantasy or not. At least stroking and sucking.

 

[Gabe619]

A few years back I decided I wanted to try gay sex after many years of watching gay porn. I am married, but found myself more and more intrigued by men. So I found a local cruising spot. My first time was nerve wracking, but it felt so natural to suck a cock and I loved it. Been back there a few times since. In the ME postcode area here.

 

[pntyhseluvr]

A few years back I decided I wanted to try gay sex after many years of watching gay porn. I am married, but found myself more and more intrigued by men. So I found a local cruising spot. My first time was nerve wracking, but it felt so natural to suck a cock and I loved it. Been back there a few times since. In the ME postcode area here.

I’d try that but wife tracks my phone. A hotel meetup at one I’m supposed to be at for work would be the only way to scratch that itch.

 

[Gabe619]

I’d try that but wife tracks my phone. A hotel meetup at one I’m supposed to be at for work would be the only way to scratch that itch.

Damn, she tracks your phone?! That sucks and sounds really like she is the jealous, or possessive type.

 

[captainhedy]

I found masturbating and sucking other men a lot of fun, having been married for over 45 years. It's good to find people who just want sex and appreciate sex. Now I'm always on the look out for a nice guy with a nice cock