Comshaw
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It's a stupid question for a number of reasons. For starters you parsed out one bit of his entire rant (his rant was bullshit) but you took one part of it and focused on it as if it was particularly relevant to the conversation at hand. He didn't assign any blame to anybody about how the households became single parent, simply stated it as a fact and moved on to the results. Results you didn't question or challenge. (snip)
Below is the entire text of his quote. 2/3rds of it are on the evils and repercussions of single female mothers feminizing the male California youth. That's what I addressed in my post. Vette blamed the majority of the ills of the male youth of California on those single mothers, without ever calling to task the absentee fathers. My answering post was directly relevant to his, so it was completely relevant to the conversation at hand.
He didn't state "facts". He had no reference, no backing for his assertions, so as far as I'm concerned they are opinion, not fact. And you know what they say about opinions. I'd also call 2/3rds of a post much more then "a bit" wouldn't you? So in effect I parsed out the majority of the post as a target for my reply.
vetteman said:Originally Posted by vetteman View Post
I live in a state who regularly sends two female senators to Washington. A state where male youth are not allowed to be boys, where they are systematically feminized by a female dominated education system and a massive entertainment industry that indoctrinates them in female superiority from childhood. Many of those who not thoroughly fucked up in the school system return home to female dominated households where they are further feminized by NDAH (no dad at home). Most of those will wind up in the nations prison systems. Fucking over the American male is an industry in my state, so don't whine to me about your perceived injustices. I'll simply call you on your ignorance.
(snip) Nobody advocates absentee dads but that doesn't mean that we volunteer to mentor. The reality is that even those of us who MIGHT want to volunteer wouldn't in the modern era. There is only one reason an adult male wants to hang out with a boy and it's not mentoring. Even if it is the very last thing you need to do in modern day America is be seen with a child that isn't yours doing anything but backing away slowly.
Your first sentence makes no sense at all. Of course no one advocates absentee dads, that was never ever mentioned. However that doesn't mean you should also ignore it. That's what Vette did by focusing on one half of the problem, the single mothers.
And what does not volunteering to mentor have to do with advocating absentee dads? I think you need to get the logical sequence in your sentence straight.
You believe there is only one reason, and I take it you're talking about sex, an adult male wants to hang out with a boy? Really? Your mind works that way? You feel that way do you? That all men who are mentors, or who want to help boys find a better way to deal with life are also secret pervert pedophiles? Really?
And above all you believe mentoring is a bad idea and not worth your time or trouble? So helping someone in trouble, or helping them to stay out of trouble isn't worth the time and effort?
That mindset, that type of lame excuse is a lazy ass cowards way of not doing anything about a problem except bitch about it. There are a lot of good men helping boys stay out of trouble, teaching them how to be responsible, how to make sound decisions. If you feel every man who helps a kid find his way is a pedophile, you are either a past victim, a secret pervert or a raving coward.
This is the same bullshit argument the RWCJ gives about taxes everyday by the way. Example:
If you think taxes are too low and the deficit too high what have you done? Have you personally written a check to the IRS and done your part? Have you done anything other than bitch about the situation?
What have you done other than slander the rich and spew your vile hatred?
So you believe it's not OK to call someone to task for doing nothing about a problem they perceive is the root cause of a situation, but it is OK to bitch, moan and complain from the sidelines without ever really doing anything? Yea the cheap seats are a lot easier aren't they? Thanks for clarifying that.
I take it the last sentence is targeted to me? And when have I slandered the rich? When have I spewed this vile hatred? You can't point to a time, or place or post where I have. And since you can't I think you should rescind the accusation.
If you don't it's no big deal. This conversation will be here as a testament to your error.
Comshaw