What's with the BBC thing?

[Jada59]

I know people have told me that they like seeing the contrast of skin colors.

My last BF was Latino. He often commented on how beautiful my skin was. I thought he had beautiful skin too. He seemed to sort of glow. But I think in his case, it was more his aura I saw. The last time we were together, I was a bit shocked to see the severe vitiligo on his lower legs. I had noticed a tiny spot prior near his belly button. I have it too but AFAIK, I only have two very tiny spots. One on my right arm, the other on my right thigh. When I used to sunbathe, you could see them. My natural skin is very pale. When I wore makeup, I had a hard time finding any that was light enough. But I digress.

Most of the time, I don't really take note of the other person's skin unless maybe they are an odd, sickly color or maybe that really dark black, almost bluish shade because it is very rare around these parts.

My new BF is black. Very light skinned in my opinion. I really didn't give it a thought but I knew he wasn't from here, based on his accent. He's from Tanzania, but he has been here for 20 years and speaks English really well.

We haven't had sex yet. He wants to get to know me first and take things slow. But we have been talking about sex. And danged if he didn't bring up the BBC thing. I'm not sure if he's really into that or not. But he did ask if I heard about the being with a black man thing. Yeah, yeah, I heard it.

I just can't get past this. My best friend (no longer with us) was white and married to a black man. In my mind, her husband was Henry. Not "that black man". And I never once thought of his cock. She never mentioned it in that regard. She did tell me a story though. Said he was sick so she tried to help him by putting Vick's Vapo rub on his chest. She didn't realize how slippery it would be and her hand went all the way down. He started howling. And apparently a wet washcloth to try to remove it, only makes things worse.

So... Is there really some sort of thing I need to be aware of? Or am I overthinking or making a big deal out of this? I just want things to be/feel normal.

 

[Jada59]

Bump.

 

[Ramone45]

Since you brought it up... There is a reason it is a "thing". I suggest there is still a taboo factor that some women find exciting. I had a girlfriend who was lily-white and loved the thought of her dad's reaction if he found out she was getting bred by BBC. Make no mistake, she was attracted to the guy and she liked the sex.

 

[Ranger3753]

I think this is perhaps the best succinct explanation for it. In reality, this is subject that could have an entire book written about it, however.

 

[Asian_Flower]

For me it was never something I was interested in. As far as I know it is a myth. I have a Chinese friend though who just loves the thought of a black guy screwing her. She has yet to find one but I dont doubt she would absolutely do it if she had a chance...even though she is married.

 

[Jada59]

Since you brought it up... There is a reason it is a "thing". I suggest there is still a taboo factor that some women find exciting. I had a girlfriend who was lily-white and loved the thought of her dad's reaction if he found out she was getting bred by BBC. Make no mistake, she was attracted to the guy and she liked the sex.

Hmmm... I don't see it as taboo but maybe some people do.

 

[Jada59]

I think this is perhaps the best succinct explanation for it. In reality, this is subject that could have an entire book written about it, however.

Hmmm... I didn't really understand that but thanks!

 

[Jada59]

For me it was never something I was interested in. As far as I know it is a myth. I have a Chinese friend though who just loves the thought of a black guy screwing her. She has yet to find one but I dont doubt she would absolutely do it if she had a chance...even though she is married.

Thanks!

 

[Ramone45]

Hmmm... I don't see it as taboo but maybe some people do.

There must be something about it to make it a "Thing". What do you think it is?

 

[cuck72]

I have a niece who's 47 now, who went black 20 years ago. She got knocked up, and has a very nice 20 yo black son now. She never went back, so as far as she's concerned it's all true, the once you go black thing. She's been bred by two other black men guys since, and she only thinks about black men now. It makes her old white perverted uncle here so hard thinking of those black guys sexing her, breeding her. I do get off thinking of her old aunt taking some of those BBC's.

 

[Shavedallover]

Ive been mounted a few times by a BBC. What got me off was the the fact they were black, muscular and hung . Even after they bred me they all still hung full.

 

[Katieb_38]

A friend of mine who I know from my swinging days was telling me about how he used to get a lot of messages from white couples when he was on a swinging site. He told me that it seemed the husband mostly instigated arranging a meet. He said how at times he had turned up at somebody's house and the wife wasn't even aware of what was going on. He said it just seemed that guys would get off watching their wife being fucked by a black guy, he also had experiences of jealousy as some guys don't realise how much pleasure he can give.

 

[Katieb_38]

So that's totally bonkers, arranging a hotwife meeting without the wife's knowledge!!!

He said the times that did happen he just gauged the reaction of the wife, he said usually she would be mad and he would just leave. On an odd occasion though the wife would show some interest.

 

[BBCfan]

I think this is perhaps the best succinct explanation for it. In reality, this is subject that could have an entire book written about it, however.

Pretty good explanation, probably most applicable to an American perspective.

I personally enjoy the BBC thing but I also realize it is mostly silly fetishism.

My wife only dated black guys for most of her life and yet her top sexual experience was with a white guy with an average cock. She thinks the whole black lover superiority thing is ridiculous.

She had some awesome black lovers and some duds, just like exists in every race I'm sure.

 

[blkjames]

I love white pussy myself

 

[Jcam1980s]

I fantasised about watching a bbc fill my wife a lot.

 

[blkjames]

I fantasised about watching a bbc fill my wife a lot.

What you waiting on lol

 

[TheShez]

For me it's not specific to BBC. I love the thought of any big cock satisfying my wife. Why big? Because that is what she likes. We are extremely honest with all of our desires and she states openly that a small cock just doesn't arouse her.
If she where to fuck outside of our relationship it would be purely physical as she has all of her needs met with me. And the only reason why she would do it at all is to add to our own enjoyment.
With that in mind why would either of us fantasize about something that she would not even consider fucking.
So its big cock all the way for me!

 

[pumperguy191]

ok, it;s not just male BBC, for some men, it's a female BBC (beautiful black chick). My wife and I have both had relationships with black members of the opposite sex. Both were coworkers. Both were just a one time thing. I know that I would do it again, I'm not sure about the wife.

 

[StrongMaster7]

Bbc

Long ago I heard black female feminist say that black men wanted all the stereotypes about them to go away, except that one.

1. interracial taboo
2. racial stereotype/myth/fact of superior cock size
3. racial stereotype/myth/fact of superior sexual performance
4. idea of 'being bred'
5. cuckold fetish
6. sub/consent/humiliation /being used / no emotional stake


Those are my thoughts as a white male.

 

[BrendaC]

Feelings Change

When I was in my 20s I got hit on quite a bit by black guys. At the time my thing was cute young Hispanic men...would've never ever considered sex with a black man. I was in my mid 40s before I started thinking about blacks in a romantic lover sense. One night I was watching an IR porn video with my husband, and made up my mind I was going to do it. The manager at the restaurant i work at had been flirting with me, and two years ago at our christmas party we made love in his office. That led to an affair that lasted almost a year. He moved away for another job, but we still get together on occasion. As for size, he is a lot bigger than most, but not like porn star big. More like he really knows how to fuck.

 

[Ranger3753]

Hmmm... I didn't really understand that but thanks!

I'm not really sure what there is in that to not understand. Is English a second language for you?

 

[cuck72]

need a BBC to chat with

I know it's so bad of me, but I have 47yo niece who's big into BBC. She has three really great kids from three different black guys over the last 20 years. I masturbate my little old white uncle dick a lot thinking of her. Hearing her saying how hot this, or that black guy looks. I get off at times imagining my niece being gangbanged by BBC's. I think of her getting my wife / her old aunt into BBC. I know a couple black men, and get off imagining them fucking my wife's old white mature pussy.

I'm just too afraid to say something to them, even though I do get off thinking of them laughing at me. I also think of myself being a white boy bitch, sucking their BBC's. I haven't found any black guys on here that like to just chat about dominating a white guy, or couple. I guess they just don't want to waste time with those fantasy games.

 

[Islander55]

I have had sex with a black man in college many years ago. He was a bit of a nerd but helped me get through a math class which is why we had sex. (A girl should pay her debts. LOL) A really nice guy, a bit skinny and pretty average size. Now I have never been with one of these big hunky BBCs but that does seem like it could be fun. I suppose that could be the ultimate fulfillment of the tall dark stranger fantasy.

 

[blkjames]

I have had sex with a black man in college many years ago. He was a bit of a nerd but helped me get through a math class which is why we had sex. (A girl should pay her debts. LOL) A really nice guy, a bit skinny and pretty average size. Now I have never been with one of these big hunky BBCs but that does seem like it could be fun. I suppose that could be the ultimate fulfillment of the tall dark stranger fantasy.

Darker the berry,sweeter the wine lol