Trans/bi curious

I'm almost 40 and for the first time I'm starting to think dicks are sexy. I don't like other male body parts but a dick just drives me crazy right now. I've been denying this thought to myself for over a year but its now to the point that I have to face reality. I'm dreaming of cock in my mouth and even hitting my prostate. Literally dreaming at night, not just fantasizing when I'm horny. I honestly don't know how to deal with this. I've just now admitted it to myself. What does this mean? I've been raised to think this is wrong. I never thought I'd have these thoughts. I'm still attracted to women way more but its weird to admit that a dick can also get me off. Please help shine some light.
I’ve found that transfemme dick can be shockingly feminine, and the more you explore your attraction to trans girls and normalize a dick on a feminine body, the less weird it seems. Plus, prostate orgasms are insane and glorious in ways that penis orgasms just aren’t, and if you are attracted to women, a trans girl is the best way to stay in that lane. Trans girls are girls and carry all the femme appeal with… some additional flexibilities.
 
I think it’s just natural for us to look at everyone sexually sometime in our life. I to never thought about having sex with a guy but when my wife was alive and healthy we started talking about having an other guy join us in bed and we both got hot .Now sometimes I think i what to have sex with a guy or a trans girl but I would have to get to know them first
I don’t know if it’s a mental block or what but i have never looked at a man sexually. Women? OMG, I am always looking at women, chatting with them, checking them out.

Transgender women drive me wild but I am like you, I have to know someone first. My girlfriend and I are staying at a hotel in an area of Manila where there are a lot of hookers. It’s entertaining to watch the street action. However i just can’t imagine sex with a hooker - meeting them and then fucking - it’s just not for me. I would rather chat with a woman and get to know her.
 
I don’t know if it’s a mental block or what but i have never looked at a man sexually. Women? OMG, I am always looking at women, chatting with them, checking them out.

Transgender women drive me wild but I am like you, I have to know someone first. My girlfriend and I are staying at a hotel in an area of Manila where there are a lot of hookers. It’s entertaining to watch the street action. However i just can’t imagine sex with a hooker - meeting them and then fucking - it’s just not for me. I would rather chat with a woman and get to know her.
Yep and you have to be care about getting robbed or getting sick from them
 
I’ve found that transfemme dick can be shockingly feminine, and the more you explore your attraction to trans girls and normalize a dick on a feminine body, the less weird it seems. Plus, prostate orgasms are insane and glorious in ways that penis orgasms just aren’t, and if you are attracted to women, a trans girl is the best way to stay in that lane. Trans girls are girls and carry all the femme appeal with… some additional flexibilities.
It’s definitely true that the more you are with a transgender woman, it seems normal for her to have a cock. Now when i see my girlfriend naked, it would be really weird if she had a pussy all of a sudden. Her cock seems appropriate to me now.
 
I'm a pan guy, though I tend to prefer those presenting as feminine. Lately I've been fantasizing a lot of having a gorgeous trans partner. It's an experience I've never had, but find the idea incredibly sexy
 
I am struggling with all the term used now. but with that being said my answer it YES
Every since m lover here (which started far from this area of the site) present the idea to me while in a fantasy;

Since then I have accepting the fact that it is a fucking turn on to me. first it was as the Tran being entered well into the situation .Then my beat off started with meeting her and learning her personal make-up and relaxed caressing leading into pure sentual Bliss.
 
I'm almost 40 and for the first time I'm starting to think dicks are sexy. I don't like other male body parts but a dick just drives me crazy right now. I've been denying this thought to myself for over a year but its now to the point that I have to face reality. I'm dreaming of cock in my mouth and even hitting my prostate. Literally dreaming at night, not just fantasizing when I'm horny. I honestly don't know how to deal with this. I've just now admitted it to myself. What does this mean? I've been raised to think this is wrong. I never thought I'd have these thoughts. I'm still attracted to women way more but its weird to admit that a dick can also get me off. Please help shine some light.
Hello , when I became single years ago I began watching porn while masturbating. I was watching anal and when they changed positions she had a smooth pink cock. I was instantly aroused to a different level. I'd go out a few times a month and hope to hook up with a sexy lady and no luck. I remember being told about how good a gay would suck your cock and like you I was thinking, this will pass. I met an individual one evening while jogging and that was my first. I was really nervous and I started to back out but he promised me to be discreet about it. I was forty then. I'm now fifty . I didn't fuck him that night . I wanted to so bad and my nerves didn't allow me to fuck him. I finally decided that I don't care what anyone thinks. If they find out. It's no one's business what I do as an adult. Of course family might be different. I know that if there's chemistry between you and whomever you chose to experience with. You will know exactly then what you were questioning. No need for titles , bi , or gay. If you feel good about it then get happy with whatever you want that day. I love pussy and gorgeous women. But a feminine male who likes to crossdress for his male is hot to me. Even a masculine can surprise you when he suddenly gets naked and he is smooth and in panties hot as well. I'll fuck and I don't bottom. You never know what will happen.
 
Hello , when I became single years ago I began watching porn while masturbating. I was watching anal and when they changed positions she had a smooth pink cock. I was instantly aroused to a different level. I'd go out a few times a month and hope to hook up with a sexy lady and no luck. I remember being told about how good a gay would suck your cock and like you I was thinking, this will pass. I met an individual one evening while jogging and that was my first. I was really nervous and I started to back out but he promised me to be discreet about it. I was forty then. I'm now fifty . I didn't fuck him that night . I wanted to so bad and my nerves didn't allow me to fuck him. I finally decided that I don't care what anyone thinks. If they find out. It's no one's business what I do as an adult. Of course family might be different. I know that if there's chemistry between you and whomever you chose to experience with. You will know exactly then what you were questioning. No need for titles , bi , or gay. If you feel good about it then get happy with whatever you want that day. I love pussy and gorgeous women. But a feminine male who likes to crossdress for his male is hot to me. Even a masculine can surprise you when he suddenly gets naked and he is smooth and in panties hot as well. I'll fuck and I don't bottom. You never know what will happen.
Exactly so..........I was suddenly widowed at 70, then dating CD's, and then a gay man. Loved every bit of it!
 
I haven’t yet managed to find a trans woman interested in meeting, but it’s becoming evident that I am bi-curious, and starting to explore that a little. Meeting someone today who’s just wanting to suck, so that seems a good way to test the waters. Still more interested in women than men though!
 
Pals in normal life tend to be different than the ones we play with. Got lots of buds, but the thought of doing anything sexual with them appalls me. Part of the fun is finding new friends assuming roles that turn us on. As long as you're not hurting anyone, of course, but that doesn't mean a little discreet fun isn't exciting.
I feel exactly the same as you when it comes to thinking about sex with any of my male friends now. But this wasn't always the case, when I was younger I had a few friends that I would have gladly sucked their cocks if I had the chance.
 
When I took my deep dive into cross dressing several years ago I was bottoming for a friend and his girlfriend. I had been playing with him occasionally for nearly two decades. I fantasized about being a total slut for men but found that I was way more attracted to women. It seemed that most men were more interested in being topped and I had zero interest in fucking hairy assholes. I was recently divorced at the time and had been suffering with ED for a few years so even if I had desire to top men I wouldn't have been able to perform. Then I met a sexy woman that was fifteen years younger than me, got my doctor to prescribe viagra, and with my new found vitality, ditched cross dressing and concentrated on bedding as many women as I could. With the aid of pharmaceuticals I discovered that my 5 3/4" cock was somehow just the right size to make women squirt, and also perfect for anal penetration with the ones that wanted that. I have now been monogamous with the most amazing woman for over four years. I have recently started exploring cross dressing again, with her knowledge and somewhat reluctant support, and although I am faithful to her, my fantasies now lean towards me being more versatile when en femme. So cute tgirls and cross dressers would be the best of both worlds for me. In my wildest dreams I would be a gender fluid slut exploring my masculine and feminine sides as well as my submissive and dominant sides with people of all genders and orientations!
 
I feel exactly the same as you when it comes to thinking about sex with any of my male friends now. But this wasn't always the case, when I was younger I had a few friends that I would have gladly sucked their cocks if I had the chance.
It never crossed my mind until well into my 40s, and happened on a whim, accidentally, even.
 
I haven’t yet managed to find a trans woman interested in meeting, but it’s becoming evident that I am bi-curious, and starting to explore that a little. Meeting someone today who’s just wanting to suck, so that seems a good way to test the waters. Still more interested in women than men though!
I don't think it means you've changed, just expanded your interests. Hope he empties your tanks.
 
His. He sent pictures of her masturbating and said he'd bring those so I could smell/taste her. He was maybe going to fuck her that morning so I could really get a good taste of her as I sucked his cock
Chickened out.
 
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