KoPilot
Obscene Epicene
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- Feb 24, 2010
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Cats and humanoid cats are completely different. Is it even D/s? (Disclosure - wife is kitty.)
Fuck if I even know. I insert myself into these conversations pertaining "exclusively" to "D/s" because if I didn't I'd barely have a postcount. I also figure that most people don't even know what they're talking about when they say "D/s" even though OP seems to have a very strict definition.
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Personally I feel my dynamic is almost a vague sort of slavery in that I can't really conceive of myself not having him as a "home base". He's where the food is, where the treats are, where the pets and scritches are. I'm dependent in that way, for better and for worse. Without him (or another like him, should that happen) I don't fare so well, and I may not even survive. I hurt myself, I depersonalize, I have a hard time holding down a full-time job. So for me, the sense of ownership, while not anything like a slave situation, with me being obedient and doing whatever he wants me to do, is palpable. Hard to explain how that's possible when we have zero protocol or anything like that, or even when I fight him tooth and nail on some things. I'm subhuman in a charming and fantastic way that makes me feel like I can do anything, I've got it fucking made.
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tl;dr, tho: p sure the answer there is "it depends".