Please feel free to share your experiences here.
Did you ever use a strap-on?
Was ever one used on you?
How did it feel for you (active or passive part)?
Would you do it again?
Hi all, first time poster, but I just had to post on this thread as I find this such a hot topic and have really enjoyed reading everyone's posts, not to mention being very turned on.
I had fantasized about being fucked with a strap-on for years. I enjoyed anal play with dildos, vibrators, fingers etc with many girlfriends, but it took a long time to find someone who really wanted to indulge my fantasy and please me by fucking me with a strap-on. The first time I tried it didn't really happen, we both sort of chickened out. Then we found the right dildo, the right harness, the right lube and just went for it. It was the most amazing experience, and I had an incredible orgasm.
I have been fucked like this by a few of my girlfriends now, and it remains the most prominent part of all of my fantasies. It's not so much a PYL/pyl thing, although that can be a great part of it. For me it is some strange combination of feeling very exposed when on all fours about to be penetrated, feeling vulnerable while being taken, and simply the amazing feeling of being fucked in the ass. Reading that back I know it sounds very pyl, but what I mean is it isn't necessarily a role-play thing.
When I "confessed" my fantasy to my current girlfriend I was fucking her in the ass from behind and just whispered in her ear that my fantasy was for her to fuck me like that with a strap-on, just as she came; I think for her it was then a rather fitting role reversal when she first fucked me, and she almost squealed with pleasure when she reached round and found my cock rock hard and desperate for release. It's still a regular part of our sex life and we keep trying to find the perfect dildo...
I wrote my first story at Literotica on the subject, which is a bit rough round the edges but was great fun to write. Anyway, just thought I'd add my two pennies worth in.
Max.