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Hi everyone!
It's strange how emotions can hit you without warning. I picked up the death certificates for my dad today. No big deal, right? Burst into tears when I got back into the car. Surprised me.
Ekserb....you are so right. No matter what people say or what their profile shows, until one is in bed you never know exactly what will happen. Plus, everyone thinks swingers play with everyone they meet for hours on end at the drop of a hat. That it's one endless orgy. This couldn't be further from the truth. In almost 5 years, I can say that there are 3 men that I really enjoyed playing with and want to do so again.
It's becoming more about the fun open flirty environment over the actual sex.
Crash....Yes, they are pretty experienced.
Here are some more black....lol... guess I need to say nude. The black disappeared!
http://imgur.com/a/WnWpf
Good morning everyone!
Bob_Waters.... I'm so sorry you had that experience. I'm also sorry it ruined the lifestyle for you.. The best I can offer for advice is laugh it off and realize not everyone is that way.
We have met the most wonderful and caring people that we consider our best friends in the lifestyle. Our friendships have transcended the lifestyle...we know their kids, parents and share vanilla times with them as well.
Early on, we had an experience with a couple we call "divide and conquer". They said she was bi and wanted to be with a woman. As soon as we got naked, she turned to me and said "by the way, I don't like women". Seriously. They took us to a room with 2 blow up mattresses on the floor. She took MrSB to one and he took me to the other. It was laughable how bad the sex was. The guy I was with screamed a primal scream that shook the windows when he came. Scared me and MrSB to almost to death! MrSB couldn't get hard with her. It became clear that he wanted sex with me and used her as bait. Plus she looked LOTS better with clothes on.
The best part of that night was the next day. We talked for hours about the experience and since I had been the one on the websites looking at couples' profiles, I told him he needed to get more involved so he's sure he's attracted to the woman.
MrSB summed it up like this: it was like taking a Lexus into the shop for maintenance and given a 1972 Ford Pinto as a loaner.
So bottom line, even the bad experiences are good in that it gets us to talk and change our expectations and what we want and to be more definitive about it all. The good has far outweighed the laughable.
But boy do I have stories! lol
This next set of photos should (maybe?) appeal to the voyeur. We live in a very private neighborhood so I went outside the front door naked. I took them through my screen door looking outside. Hope you like.
http://imgur.com/a/nTFco
Good morning everyone!
Bob_Waters.... I'm so sorry you had that experience. I'm also sorry it ruined the lifestyle for you.. The best I can offer for advice is laugh it off and realize not everyone is that way.
We have met the most wonderful and caring people that we consider our best friends in the lifestyle. Our friendships have transcended the lifestyle...we know their kids, parents and share vanilla times with them as well.
Early on, we had an experience with a couple we call "divide and conquer". They said she was bi and wanted to be with a woman. As soon as we got naked, she turned to me and said "by the way, I don't like women". Seriously. They took us to a room with 2 blow up mattresses on the floor. She took MrSB to one and he took me to the other. It was laughable how bad the sex was. The guy I was with screamed a primal scream that shook the windows when he came. Scared me and MrSB to almost to death! MrSB couldn't get hard with her. It became clear that he wanted sex with me and used her as bait. Plus she looked LOTS better with clothes on.
The best part of that night was the next day. We talked for hours about the experience and since I had been the one on the websites looking at couples' profiles, I told him he needed to get more involved so he's sure he's attracted to the woman.
MrSB summed it up like this: it was like taking a Lexus into the shop for maintenance and given a 1972 Ford Pinto as a loaner.
So bottom line, even the bad experiences are good in that it gets us to talk and change our expectations and what we want and to be more definitive about it all. The good has far outweighed the laughable.
But boy do I have stories! lol
This next set of photos should (maybe?) appeal to the voyeur. We live in a very private neighborhood so I went outside the front door naked. I took them through my screen door looking outside. Hope you like.
http://imgur.com/a/nTFco
Ekserb....you are so right. No matter what people say or what their profile shows, until one is in bed you never know exactly what will happen. Plus, everyone thinks swingers play with everyone they meet for hours on end at the drop of a hat. That it's one endless orgy. This couldn't be further from the truth. In almost 5 years, I can say that there are 3 men that I really enjoyed playing with and want to do so again.
It's becoming more about the fun open flirty environment over the actual sex.
Good morning everyone!
Bob_Waters.... I'm so sorry you had that experience. I'm also sorry it ruined the lifestyle for you.. The best I can offer for advice is laugh it off and realize not everyone is that way.
We have met the most wonderful and caring people that we consider our best friends in the lifestyle. Our friendships have transcended the lifestyle...we know their kids, parents and share vanilla times with them as well.
Early on, we had an experience with a couple we call "divide and conquer". They said she was bi and wanted to be with a woman. As soon as we got naked, she turned to me and said "by the way, I don't like women". Seriously. They took us to a room with 2 blow up mattresses on the floor. She took MrSB to one and he took me to the other. It was laughable how bad the sex was. The guy I was with screamed a primal scream that shook the windows when he came. Scared me and MrSB to almost to death! MrSB couldn't get hard with her. It became clear that he wanted sex with me and used her as bait. Plus she looked LOTS better with clothes on.
The best part of that night was the next day. We talked for hours about the experience and since I had been the one on the websites looking at couples' profiles, I told him he needed to get more involved so he's sure he's attracted to the woman.
MrSB summed it up like this: it was like taking a Lexus into the shop for maintenance and given a 1972 Ford Pinto as a loaner.
So bottom line, even the bad experiences are good in that it gets us to talk and change our expectations and what we want and to be more definitive about it all. The good has far outweighed the laughable.
But boy do I have stories! lol
This next set of photos should (maybe?) appeal to the voyeur. We live in a very private neighborhood so I went outside the front door naked. I took them through my screen door looking outside. Hope you like.
http://imgur.com/a/nTFco
Good morning everyone!
Bob_Waters.... I'm so sorry you had that experience. I'm also sorry it ruined the lifestyle for you.. The best I can offer for advice is laugh it off and realize not everyone is that way.
We have met the most wonderful and caring people that we consider our best friends in the lifestyle. Our friendships have transcended the lifestyle...we know their kids, parents and share vanilla times with them as well.
Early on, we had an experience with a couple we call "divide and conquer". They said she was bi and wanted to be with a woman. As soon as we got naked, she turned to me and said "by the way, I don't like women". Seriously. They took us to a room with 2 blow up mattresses on the floor. She took MrSB to one and he took me to the other. It was laughable how bad the sex was. The guy I was with screamed a primal scream that shook the windows when he came. Scared me and MrSB to almost to death! MrSB couldn't get hard with her. It became clear that he wanted sex with me and used her as bait. Plus she looked LOTS better with clothes on.
The best part of that night was the next day. We talked for hours about the experience and since I had been the one on the websites looking at couples' profiles, I told him he needed to get more involved so he's sure he's attracted to the woman.
MrSB summed it up like this: it was like taking a Lexus into the shop for maintenance and given a 1972 Ford Pinto as a loaner.
So bottom line, even the bad experiences are good in that it gets us to talk and change our expectations and what we want and to be more definitive about it all. The good has far outweighed the laughable.
But boy do I have stories! lol
This next set of photos should (maybe?) appeal to the voyeur. We live in a very private neighborhood so I went outside the front door naked. I took them through my screen door looking outside. Hope you like.
http://imgur.com/a/nTFco
Hi everyone!
Well this is funny. The wife of the couple I was talking about texted me today. She basically said they really enjoyed meeting us and were very attracted to us. She would like to keep in touch and wants me to be a mentor of sorts. So I said sure!
Maleman...My ups driver is a nice guy! He's seen me in tank tops with no bras on. I give him homemade turtles I make every Christmas.
Skowt...that was YOU? Dammit, I loved that cactus!
Ekserb...thanks! I do too but am still learning the new camera. I need to get my studio light and play with the lighting. If I"m not using the flash, the image is too dark for inside shots.
Overbatum.... Don't believe so. Our front entry is very private and there are no house fronts or driveways across from us. I'm pretty cautious.
Thank you to everyone who posted a comment!
I'm back on the stairs....
http://imgur.com/a/l32X1
Hi everyone!
Well this is funny. The wife of the couple I was talking about texted me today. She basically said they really enjoyed meeting us and were very attracted to us. She would like to keep in touch and wants me to be a mentor of sorts. So I said sure!
Maleman...My ups driver is a nice guy! He's seen me in tank tops with no bras on. I give him homemade turtles I make every Christmas.
Skowt...that was YOU? Dammit, I loved that cactus!
Ekserb...thanks! I do too but am still learning the new camera. I need to get my studio light and play with the lighting. If I"m not using the flash, the image is too dark for inside shots.
Overbatum.... Don't believe so. Our front entry is very private and there are no house fronts or driveways across from us. I'm pretty cautious.
Thank you to everyone who posted a comment!
I'm back on the stairs....
http://imgur.com/a/l32X1
Hi everyone!
Well this is funny. The wife of the couple I was talking about texted me today. She basically said they really enjoyed meeting us and were very attracted to us. She would like to keep in touch and wants me to be a mentor of sorts. So I said sure!
Maleman...My ups driver is a nice guy! He's seen me in tank tops with no bras on. I give him homemade turtles I make every Christmas.
Skowt...that was YOU? Dammit, I loved that cactus!
Ekserb...thanks! I do too but am still learning the new camera. I need to get my studio light and play with the lighting. If I"m not using the flash, the image is too dark for inside shots.
Overbatum.... Don't believe so. Our front entry is very private and there are no house fronts or driveways across from us. I'm pretty cautious.
Thank you to everyone who posted a comment!
I'm back on the stairs....
http://imgur.com/a/l32X1
Good morning!
Thank you! I really appreciate your comments.
I've mentioned that I'm also on another site. What continues to amaze me is these are basically porn sites. But the warmth and friendships that can arise are amazing. We all have baggage to deal with. Most of the time we keep things to ourselves. On these sites, there is so much more openness and sharing than I ever dreamed possible. I would never have guessed it would be that way.
Thank you for your pm's and comments about my dad's passing, the death cert and all the emotions that go with that. It means a lot.
These coffee pics I took yesterday are not the best. I was experimenting with the camera and am not happy with how they turned out.
Something tells me you don't mind being guinea pigs as I experiment? lol I'll get better, I promise!
ummmm.....if you have been able to tell already, I am a bit of a perfectionist. MrSB says I'm nutty ocd. I prefer discerning. lol...ok, maybe a little nutty ocd. But I'm not as bad as he is with keeping the tupperware organized!
I didn't not have an orgasm on the stairs. I moved to my comfy bed and had a very nice one with my favorite vibrator called Athena.
http://imgur.com/a/IeoBJ
Hi everyone!
Well this is funny. The wife of the couple I was talking about texted me today. She basically said they really enjoyed meeting us and were very attracted to us. She would like to keep in touch and wants me to be a mentor of sorts. So I said sure!
Maleman...My ups driver is a nice guy! He's seen me in tank tops with no bras on. I give him homemade turtles I make every Christmas.
Skowt...that was YOU? Dammit, I loved that cactus!
Ekserb...thanks! I do too but am still learning the new camera. I need to get my studio light and play with the lighting. If I"m not using the flash, the image is too dark for inside shots.
Overbatum.... Don't believe so. Our front entry is very private and there are no house fronts or driveways across from us. I'm pretty cautious.
Thank you to everyone who posted a comment!
I'm back on the stairs....
http://imgur.com/a/l32X1