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I’m writing a story and interested in a cock sucker’s point of view. Male and female replies are welcome.

What size penis is the best to suck?

I’m guessing that on the smaller side might be more comfortable because you could fit the whole thing in your mouth, giving more opportunity to use different techniques.

But maybe it’s hotter and more enjoyable to have a long cock all the way at the back of your mouth and even down your throat.

Does girth make a difference?

I’ll ask also about a man cumming in your mouth. What’s the position for that? All the way back, cum straight down the throat, or up on the tongue, taste and swallow more important.

I want my blowjob scenes to be hot for the cocksucker as well as the suckee. But I don’t suck dick and my partner has limited experience. Thanks for helping.
 
My only experience is sucking a small cock and a large one. While a small one is easily accommodated, there is something about taking my girlfriend's large cock and gagging on it that is very exciting. Sometimes as she is close to orgasm I will take her balls deep knowing that she is going to finish soon. I will be gagging terribly but holding on until she finally shoots her load into my throat.

Sometimes on those occasions, she cums straight down my throat and I can barely taste her sweet cum. Other times I have to collect it in my mouth and I can taste its slight sweetness.

One thing I love is when my tongue is alongside the underside of her penis and I can clearly feel each throb as the semen is being ejaculated from her penis. It's like each pulse of semen is right there on my tongue as it explodes up through her urethra and into my mouth.

The other thing I love is when her hands are on my head forcing me down into her crotch as she gently thrusts her cock up into my face. As she applies more and more pressure I know that she is about to cum and I will get my reward. I love to submit to her strong and powerful cock.
 
The first experience for me was just kneeling with my mouth open and my tongue out. Those were my instructions. I was blindfolded so my role was entirely passive. He had an average length and girth but his circumcised tip was wide - which took some adjusting. He was beating off and every 30 sec or so he'd rest his tip on my tongue. A little strange for me. But the final time he had me close my lips around the head and take his semen. I swallowed and worked him clean until he pulled out. I was new to sucking men(altho I sucked myself a hundred times) so it was good to ease into the process
 
I’m writing a story and interested in a cock sucker’s point of view. Male and female replies are welcome.

What size penis is the best to suck?

I’m guessing that on the smaller side might be more comfortable because you could fit the whole thing in your mouth, giving more opportunity to use different techniques.

But maybe it’s hotter and more enjoyable to have a long cock all the way at the back of your mouth and even down your throat.

Does girth make a difference?

I’ll ask also about a man cumming in your mouth. What’s the position for that? All the way back, cum straight down the throat, or up on the tongue, taste and swallow more important.

I want my blowjob scenes to be hot for the cocksucker as well as the suckee. But I don’t suck dick and my partner has limited experience. Thanks for helping.
Not very big. I actually love small sissy clitties. They're so cute and sissies are more grateful to be sucked. They drip and produce so much of pre cum and cum, and you can deep throat them all the way so they think you're the best cock sucker they ever had.
 
As a male, I prefer smaller, they're easier to accommodate without discomfort. Taking the whole cock in is an important aspect for me. Big cocks while attractive and fun to play with are just a pain to suck off. Same with girth, fun to play with, just uncomfortable in your mouth. As for taking a load of cum, The warm spurt in your mouth is always satisfying but I don't swallow I just let it dribble out and down his shaft. Good luck with your writing.
 
I like larger than average, but not huge. I find it visually stimulating and I like there to be some challenge, which means big enough that I need to deep throat. So, 7"-8" with decent girth is about perfect. While cocks this size are notably larger than average and therefore not all that common they aren't exceptionally rare either. My wife is much better at finding the ideal ones than I am and my best cock sucking experiences have been for her lovers. I swallow and I love the taste of it so ideally he shoots it onto my tongue, but directly down my throat is fine too. I just happy to have his dick in my mouth and feel that his cum is my reward for a job well done.
 
What size penis is best to suck?

I can’t speak from the cocksucker perspective, so I am answering this for my wife, who sucks dick (mine), since she would never discuss anything like this and doesn’t know about my secret life here on Lit; and the multiple guys who have sucked my dick, that my wife also doesn't know about, including one who was my personal cocksucker (deceased) and the the ones in ABSs who I actually never had any discussion with beyond, "I'm gonna cum" and them nodding ok while they continued to suck.

I think that an average size cock is best for both comfort and enjoyment.

My fully erect penis is 5.5 inches long (which I've read is average), and not too thick, about 5 inches girth. I measured my penis properly - from the top where it meets your pelvis to the tip of the head - not the underside where you can measure from the balls to add imaginary length.

The typical mouth can generally accommodate an object, such as a hard cock, that is no more than 3.5 to 4 inches long and about 6 inches girth before it stretches too wide or enters the throat.

While in 69, and as she's cumming from my oral ministrations, my wife "deep throats" me, (or shall I say "shallow throats" me, since I don't go very deep), which means about 1.5 inches of my cock enters her throat. She seems to tolerate that well enough.

And the same from most of the guys I've been with. All tolerated my size, which is average. None seemed to choke and none laughed and turned me down.

Statistically, only about 5% of men have a cock over 6" and 2% over 7", so unless you are writing about the outliers and the porn stars, keep it real at about 6 inches.

Position for cumming in the mouth depends on the scene and the cocksucker. I've had guys take me all the way in and have me shoot down their throat, while others had me cum in their mouth and then swallow.

While I haven't had the pleasure of being a cocksucker and have someone shoot directly down my throat, I like to lick my cum off my hands when I masturbate and feel it in my mouth before I swallow. Cum is an acquired taste and my wife has never acquired a taste for it, so she's always spit. I think it's more of a consistency issue than actual taste. My cum is not bad tasting, but for me, it's not the taste that matters unless it is really rancid; but the idea of having a cock explode in your mouth that is a hot scenario.

All that said, many guys and women overestimate the size of cocks, and have been conditioned by seeing the big cock porn guys to think that cocks have to be bigger than they generally are in real life to be exciting. And so, many porn watchers and readers are more apt be stimulted by exaggerated size and scenarios than they are to real life sexual encounters.

Personally, when I suck my first cock, and probably every cock after that, I'll go for a guy who's average, like me.
 
I like larger than average, but not huge. I find it visually stimulating and I like there to be some challenge, which means big enough that I need to deep throat. So, 7"-8" with decent girth is about perfect. While cocks this size are notably larger than average and therefore not all that common they aren't exceptionally rare either. My wife is much better at finding the ideal ones than I am and my best cock sucking experiences have been for her lovers. I swallow and I love the taste of it so ideally he shoots it onto my tongue, but directly down my throat is fine too. I just happy to have his dick in my mouth and feel that his cum is my reward for a job well done.

If that is what your wife is bringing home it sounds like she is a size queen like me. As you say, the larger ones aren't all that common, but they aren't exceptionally rare either.

Everyone seems to have a set of statistics, often drawn from selectively, that supports whatever they want to believe. But all that is sort of beside the point because I don't date on the basis of pulling a random name from a representative sample of all men on earth. Like most people I seek the characteristics that appeal to me and the men I date seek the characteristics that appeal to them. And when we find a mutually agreeable pairing we tend to return to it rather than starting over from scratch every time. I know of no sure fire way to predict the size of a man's penis but there are some obvious correlated characteristics and I do seem to have the characteristics that attract the men I prefer.

When I do find a man that satisfies my desire for larger and is also a personable and enjoyable date I want to ensure that he has a good time and is motivated to see me again. So, I learned to master my deep throat technique. It takes some effort and can be uncomfortable at first. It is not at all surprising that lots of cock suckers don't want to go through that. But having mastered it (or at least become pretty good at it) I now prefer it.

As far as cum goes I swallowed pretty much since giving my first blowjob. I just thought that was what I was supposed to do, lol. And by the time I learned that some women don't I had developed a taste for it.
 
A cock with too much girth doesn't fit the mouth easily between teeth to go deep throat.

I person all like to lie with my head off the bed and be face fucked like with an average size dick. Although I don't have lots of experience.

I struggle to have semen in my mouth. I need to have hubby or Dom as far down my throat as possible. And I need to be deep into submission to finish the blow job.

However I think that hubby enjoys my struggle and watching me try to overcome it.
 
My wife says that her only experience with a really big one was not good because it was uncomfortable to keep her mouth open wide enough to avoid tooth contact. She has never had a really small one, so she supposes average ones are her favorite size to suck.
 
My wife says that her only experience with a really big one was not good because it was uncomfortable to keep her mouth open wide enough to avoid tooth contact. She has never had a really small one, so she supposes average ones are her favorite size to suck.
Thanks for asking her.
 
I love sucking very big cocks. The bigger the better. I like the challenge of forcing myself to take them as far down my throat as I possibly can. I'm fortunate in not having a very strong gag reflex so I have always been able to accept most of them all the way down to the root. I haven't had the pleasure of sucking monster cocks like the ones you see in porn, but I have sucked cocks that measured over 9 inches and thick! I'm unable to breathe with a very big cock in my throat, But I do it for as long as I can before running out of air, then going back down again. I also like it when he cums in my throat, although I'm unable to taste the cum because it goes straight to my stomach. The men with big cocks tell me that it feels fantastic when I use my throat muscles to squeeze and massage their cock by swallowing around the cock stuffed down my throat. One guy held my head and wouldn't let me up for air until I almost passed out. Most men don't have cocks big enough to completely cut off my air so I'm usually able to breathe with their cocks in my throat, but I really love the very big ones.
 
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The biggest cock I’ve been able to handle was
Just short of 8”. But it was fat. One thing that helps me is being able to remove my dentures.
My friend that I visit a lot is about 5”. He can do whatever he wants to my mouth and throat with that size.
 
The biggest cock I’ve been able to handle was
Just short of 8”. But it was fat. One thing that helps me is being able to remove my dentures.
My friend that I visit a lot is about 5”. He can do whatever he wants to my mouth and throat with that size.
Funny you should say that. My personal cocksucker had dentures. The first time he went to suck me, he shocked me when he stopped and removed them. Of course, his toothless mouth bobbing up and down on my 5.5" cock didn't bother me at all. He could take me all in and never once scratched it.
 
Funny you should say that. My personal cocksucker had dentures. The first time he went to suck me, he shocked me when he stopped and removed them. Of course, his toothless mouth bobbing up and down on my 5.5" cock didn't bother me at all. He could take me all in and never once scratched it.
I haven’t found anyone that hasn’t mentioned how good it feels, when I take them in my mouth and deep into my throat. I have a friend with dentures so I know how it feels when he blows me. I love it.
 
Smallest I've sucked was about 5" and the biggest about 10". I feel comfortable with about 7-8". When a guy cums in my mouth I let him decide if he wants to be in my throat. My own preference is to have my lips sealed around the head and feel him pump cum into my mouth.
 
I’m writing a story and interested in a cock sucker’s point of view. Male and female replies are welcome.

What size penis is the best to suck?

I’m guessing that on the smaller side might be more comfortable because you could fit the whole thing in your mouth, giving more opportunity to use different techniques.

But maybe it’s hotter and more enjoyable to have a long cock all the way at the back of your mouth and even down your throat.

Does girth make a difference?

I’ll ask also about a man cumming in your mouth. What’s the position for that? All the way back, cum straight down the throat, or up on the tongue, taste and swallow more important.

I want my blowjob scenes to be hot for the cocksucker as well as the suckee. But I don’t suck dick and my partner has limited experience. Thanks for helping.
Cock is cock and I'm a cumslut ho. I'll take any size. For me a good looking trick, in shape, with a brain and nice to me, can have anything from a toothpick to a baseball bat. I'm adaptable.

I like black men. Not because of size but competence. They know what a cock is for.

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I'm a size queen, though I should note that my experience is limited.

Most of my men have had average cocks at best -- only about five inches, maybe six -- and I've enjoyed each one. But there was one fellow at a bathhouse last spring who had a monster, both long and thick (no, I didn't go looking for a measuring tape). Awe inspiring, and I never took the whole thing. With more experience, perhaps I could have managed. I gave it my best just the same.

Yes, it was a challenge, and I had to take a couple breaks to rest my jaw. Still, it was a thrill each time I felt the head push into my throat. I would love to try again, though I doubt I'll ever see him again.
 
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