Professional women that secretly like to be dominated

[KimGordon67]

Yeah .. wtf?

Can't a woman be like a woman INSTEAD of like a man and STILL kick ass in her own way?

(give us a chance to screw up as bad as you guys!)

I suspect the key is 'charming' ... successful women have to continue to be 'charming' or otherwise they're 'like men' and hideously unattractive. I'm not sure what the definition of 'charming' is, but it seems likely that it involves making sure you're always appealing to men.
Personally, I don't think that success should involve manipulating one's sexuality so one has men by the balls ... I'd really prefer it was based on my skill and aptitude at my actual job.

 

[diaperedtiffany]

I'm just chiming in: A well educated, self directed woman that knows what she wants is incredibly attractive to me. It doesn't even have to be an official education. I have met the most amazing "educated" women whom have no college degree.

The intimate desire to succeed certain people have gravitates me towards them. Many successful people have no college education. It has nothing to do with money, strangely enough. I wish I could describe this aspect better.

I will point out official education helps me to locate some of the motivated ones. I find self enrichment attractive in itself.

 

[staciliv]

I wonder if there are any professional, well educated women that have high end jobs that secretly like to be dominated and used by a man. Years ago I worked for a office cleaning company and was seduced by an older women, she was in her 40s and I was in my 20s. She was the CFO (chief financial officer) of this big company and I was on the custodial staff. She came on strong and I'm not one to turn down a hot women. So we started banging during her lunch break. The thing is she wanted me to dominate her, treat her like a cheap slut and I did. The dirtier and more aggressive I got the more she loved it. So are there any professional women out there that are the same? Professional well educated business women that secretly wants to be fucked like a cheap slut by the guy that cleans your office?

I am 41, have two PhD's, am an associate professor at a local college, and also do consulting work. I'd give all that up in a heartbeat to be a man's sex slave.

But that's just me.

 

[LanguageOfLove]

Educator, in charge at work, but I want someone to take charge in other areas.

 

[LizVegas79]

I am 41, have two PhD's, am an associate professor at a local college, and also do consulting work. I'd give all that up in a heartbeat to be a man's sex slave.

But that's just me.

5'11" former music industry wannabe who got a job as a bartender in a casino and worked her way up to be a VI,P high-heeled, Versace (knock-off) wearing babysitter for people that have more money than sense.

People look up to me in a different way than Staci, but I'd secretly throw it all away just like her too.

 

[staciliv]

5'11" former music industry wannabe who got a job as a bartender in a casino and worked her way up to be a VI,P high-heeled, Versace (knock-off) wearing babysitter for people that have more money than sense.

People look up to me in a different way than Staci, but I'd secretly throw it all away just like her too.

 

[staciliv]

5'11" former music industry wannabe who got a job as a bartender in a casino and worked her way up to be a VI,P high-heeled, Versace (knock-off) wearing babysitter for people that have more money than sense.

People look up to me in a different way than Staci, but I'd secretly throw it all away just like her too.

By the way, Liz and I are not referring to twenty-something wannabe Doms who actually only want a BJ (when will it occur to these guys that when I have a guys cock in my mouth I am in charge?). No, we're talking about honest to goodness males who "tell you what you will do bitch and you WILL do it!"

The kind of man who will protect his slaves from all danger, up to and including forfeiting his life in our defense should that be required. The kind of man who says what he means and means EXACTLY what he says. A man who takes no BS from anyone, not his slaves nor anyone else.

If I ever find that man I will lick the ground he walks on and fight like a tigeress if anyone trys to free me!

 

[ShesInsatiable]

Amatures?

 

[danielle140]

I would say that I am a professional Woman , a well spoken English girl . I am a slim petite natural redhead , 5ft 4 ins tall and for the main part very submissive . I particularly enjoy being dominated by a well endowed Man who can last for ages .
Danielle .

 

[edontario559]

By the way, Liz and I are not referring to twenty-something wannabe Doms who actually only want a BJ (when will it occur to these guys that when I have a guys cock in my mouth I am in charge?). No, we're talking about honest to goodness males who "tell you what you will do bitch and you WILL do it!"

Nothing that a ring gag and a pair of handcuffs can't resolve.

 

[Dreamliner]

Nothing that a ring gag and a pair of handcuffs can't resolve.

I believe you will discover it takes more than that.

 

[Moochienanu]

I believe you will discover it takes more than that.

SO much more.

I am a 33yo female who, at work, is in charge of keeping people alive. I am used to men (and other women) of all ages looking to me for what to do in difficult situations... but get me in the same room as my Daddy? I am a lost cause for even finding the words to say.

 

[nfrrdscnnr1]

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You give every indicatioon of being a handful or two!! Huzzahh for you!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Lost_Yonder]

Nothing that a ring gag and a pair of handcuffs can't resolve.

Sad that this is what D/s gets reduced to... Some people have to stop watching porn movies!

Curious how an old thread takes on a new life a few years later. Does anyone's attitude change? New experiences that make us reflect on our desires?

I once had an affair with a very successful lawyer who ate men up during the day. But at night and on weekends she needed to be taken, slapped, tied, and subjected to pain. Needless to say, that's not my style so we didn't last, but her switching from a dominant, aggressive woman at work to such a sub was quite intriguing. Regretfully, we weren't together long enough for me to fully understand her desires and needs. But I must say, there was something quite enticing about taking a woman all dressed up in her professional clothes...

 

[Ropebunny]

Nothing that a ring gag and a pair of handcuffs can't resolve.

Simple, but when consensual (as it all should be) ain’t it the bloody truth?

Sometimes, it isn’t so easy to give up ones power, or accept the need to feel powerless. I fight it. Pretty hard to feel powerful when someone else has taken the use of your hands and mouth from you. At that point it’s just a waiting game till you crack. I don’t usually take long which is always somewhat disappointing.

I am looking forward to finally doing a proper interrogation scene at some point. Give me the proper motivation to test my endurance

 

[Uksubgirl]

Xxxxxx

 

[Jaaarsh]

At a previous job I knew a very smart and professional woman who was a director. I was a few links lower on chain but we had an easy and professional relationship. After working together for about a year we both ended up leaving the job for better opportunities. We’ve kept in touch and there has certainly been a bit of flirtation here and there. At one point she was describing how she was into men who were very dominant and would choke her in bed. I wonder if she felt like she spent so much time “being the boss.” she just wanted to stop thinking and let someone else do it all. Wish we had had the opportunity to get together but the timing just wasn’t right.

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

I’m a 41-year-old professional woman with a senior management position in a start-up. At work I have a reputation for being a no-nonsense take-charge manager who get things done. (I once joked with my boss that if he kept giving me responsibilities I’d wind up running the whole company.)

However, in the bedroom I definitely enjoy being dominated. I love kneeling naked in front of him to suck his cock. I love being held down and overpowered and “taken”. I love being tied up and forced to cum. I think my coworkers would be shocked.

 

[Hornyhornyukminx]

I’m a 41-year-old professional woman with a senior management position in a start-up. At work I have a reputation for being a no-nonsense take-charge manager who get things done. (I once joked with my boss that if he kept giving me responsibilities I’d wind up running the whole company.)

However, in the bedroom I definitely enjoy being dominated. I love kneeling naked in front of him to suck his cock. I love being held down and overpowered and “taken”. I love being tied up and forced to cum. I think my coworkers would be shocked.

Totally understand this... I’m in charge at home and at work, I do everything and make most decisions, my partner is easy going and knows my decisions are generally the correct ones so when it comes to the bedroom I want to be dominated, pushed against the wall, held down, cheeky bit of rough... think there needs to be some balance in your life!!

 

[phil1955]

While my wife was not in a high level position, she was a teacher and ran a high school library. She also pretty much was in charge of the household. I tend to be laid back but have recently discovered that she likes someone to take charge during sex most of the time. She says it is nice to feel desired and to be able to let go and just enjoy the experience. I have been working on this and do find it challenging but also very rewarding. It forces me to become more attuned to her mood and needs.

 

[OspreyPower]

While my wife was not in a high level position, she was a teacher and ran a high school library. She also pretty much was in charge of the household. I tend to be laid back but have recently discovered that she likes someone to take charge during sex most of the time. She says it is nice to feel desired and to be able to let go and just enjoy the experience. I have been working on this and do find it challenging but also very rewarding. It forces me to become more attuned to her mood and needs.

I know several women in high level positions who are card carrying subs who crave domination and want to be completely controlled. In addition to their pure submissive desires they find it helps them in real life. More focused, relaxed, happier.

Nothing to EVER be ashamed of.

Accepting who WE OURSELVES are is probably one of life's biggest challenges. Power to you all!

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I’m a 41-year-old professional woman with a senior management position in a start-up. At work I have a reputation for being a no-nonsense take-charge manager who get things done. (I once joked with my boss that if he kept giving me responsibilities I’d wind up running the whole company.)

However, in the bedroom I definitely enjoy being dominated. I love kneeling naked in front of him to suck his cock. I love being held down and overpowered and “taken”. I love being tied up and forced to cum. I think my coworkers would be shocked.

I am so attracted to this type of woman!!!

 

[Uksubgirl]

I posted here before but deleted my message, due to putting too much pi in the post.

This is me, I'm too ashamed to admit or do anything about it in real life though.

I am well educated and a senior HR manager in a bank, I struggle with this side of me and nobody in reality would ever guess, at work I'm so self assured and business orientated.

 

[KuriousKatUK]

This definitely applies to me too. Day to day I'm constantly in charge, standing up in front of people and telling them what to do.

Being able to take off my 'in charge' hat when I get home is quite frankly... incredible. Having my partner in control when I'm home and being completely at their whim is so liberating. Having the two states of mend offset each other actually really helps me relax too.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

This definitely applies to me too. Day to day I'm constantly in charge, standing up in front of people and telling them what to do.

Being able to take off my 'in charge' hat when I get home is quite frankly... incredible. Having my partner in control when I'm home and being completely at their whim is so liberating. Having the two states of mend offset each other actually really helps me relax too.

There is freedom in relinquishing control