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I definitely agree. I think it's a maturity or sexual maturity thing. The older I get, the more open I get to the ideas of new things. In my early twenties, none of this would have appealed to me in the least. Funny how things change
This is a topic I'd love to read more about. The psychology behind this, how it fits into people's lives. If any guys want to get their thoughts off their chest r.e. this, I would love to hear it.
When I talk to men about sex, kinks, etc. in real life, no one has ever admitted to this as a preference, so I never get to discuss it, yet on these forums it is so popular. I find it so intriguing that it seems to be a desire that many men have, but also one that many feel they need to hide.
Sexuality, preferences, gender - this all intrigues me...like many other Litsters I suppose.
(I have never felt it's my place to comment on these kind of threads before, they're obviously not targeted at me, but if you shout me down, I can take it).
It's funny, but that thought has been plaguing me for the last few weeks as I wonder if I am alone in that I would rather suck another guy's cock than kiss him on the lips.
During a couple of MFM encounters the other guy tried to kiss me, but once I felt his beard/stubble, I was revolted and declined, but sucking his cock and being sucked by him was a real turn on especially when I shared his cock and cum with my woman. I consider myself bi curious. or am I gay, bi curious, or bi??
So are there other guys out there that feel the same about kissing vs sucking a cock??
This is a topic I'd love to read more about. The psychology behind this, how it fits into people's lives. If any guys want to get their thoughts off their chest r.e. this, I would love to hear it.
When I talk to men about sex, kinks, etc. in real life, no one has ever admitted to this as a preference, so I never get to discuss it, yet on these forums it is so popular. I find it so intriguing that it seems to be a desire that many men have, but also one that many feel they need to hide.
Sexuality, preferences, gender - this all intrigues me...like many other Litsters I suppose.
(I have never felt it's my place to comment on these kind of threads before, they're obviously not targeted at me, but if you shout me down, I can take it).
While I have some curiosity about what another guys cock would be like, I dont have any romantic interest in guys...ironically, kissing seems more intimate and romantic that sucking.
I'm strictly a Cocksucker. I LOVE sucking cock! I love having very big cocks forced down my throat. I don't have a gag reflex and I love being savagely throatfucked and eating cum! But kissing another man???? YECHHHHH ! What do you take me for? Some kind of faggot???
Can we make this more interesting?
Would you rather have another man kiss you, or fuck your ass.
Neither is not an acceptable answer.
Love to suck cock as a pre-cursor to having my arse fucked. Kissing? NO thanks.
Kissing is affectionate getting on towards love. Sucking is sex. Lots of people who might be inclined to have sex with a guy are queazy heading down the road of kissing as it opens the doors of being in a relationship. Kissing is tender, tenderness between men is a touchy topic even for guys who will do felatio.
I'm fascinated that I am a rare exception on the thread! I can't conceive of any pleasure in contact with another person's genitals without there being the face-to-face, person to person aspect of it as well.
For all my exclusively hetero experience, I did at a Christmas party have a several seconds lips on lips close embrace with a really camp gay friend of mine who had been teasing me in front of mutual friends along the lines of "I'll not kiss you Simon cuz you'll be embarrassed." He said it once too often! But the thing is, I found it not only a lot of fun to call his bluff, but a very pleasurable thing to be sensual for a few moments with a man whose friendship I value and whose expression of his sexuality I admire.
I've been thinking: the attraction for me is about my sense of solidarity with men who are really expressively sexual. What I mean is this: I am thrilled that I have learned to be a good lover and to give and receive huge joy in sexual exchange with my woman; and that drives my admiration of and attraction to other men who do likewise - and to celebrate that potency with each other just seems a delicious thing to do!