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it would be easy to blame this trend on heteronormative mainstreamers entering BDSM, except that the leather clubs used to try to maintain the same dynamic. Tops-- Masters-- could run the clubs, not bottoms, slaves. However... nothing got done in a timely fashion in most cases, until the clubs began electing the less superior types -- who would talk to each other and damn the protocol.
This this a hundred times this. I'm not saying sexism in leather never, hardly that, but I AM saying the veneer of "Domism" and "lil silly subbies" is more often comically silly than anything else the moment you leave people's fantasies behind and take a look at who's actually leadership material.
Still the leader = better fallacy is so ingrained in us as people it's amazing.