Sir_Winston54
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Why do some people consider this a truism?i am submissive because i am inferior .
Discuss and defend your point of view.
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Why do some people consider this a truism?i am submissive because i am inferior .
Why do some people consider this a truism?
Discuss and defend your point of view.
Why do some people consider this a truism?
Discuss and defend your point of view.
Nice analysis, bj! Last line is a keeper!To answer your first question, no. There is nothing inherent to these types of relationships. They are each as unique as the individuals in them.
Now to your second question: it is all relative. From their point of view it is true. You can disagree with them all you want but your odds of changing their beliefs are no greater than their odds of changing your beliefs.
That being said there does seem to be an increasing number of people who think that this belief is what it is all about. I blame the cultural acceptance and population of BDSM brought about by modern media.
Curse you E L James
Excellent discussion of your point(s) of view, All_4_Love, and clear, logical explication of your feelings and means of dealing with the topic in your own life. Thank you!Speaking ONLY for myself... not looking to be corrected or to debate.
Please keep in mind that I'm still coming to terms with understanding my feelings and preferences. I was also raised in an environment where my father was the head of the household. This may have something to do with my feelings as well.
Being inherently submissive, there is a feeling. I am hesitant to label it as inferior. I have what I would consider to be a healthy self esteem and self confidence.
This feeling, when in the presence of people with a dominant nature, makes me feel hyper aware, a strong desire to please, and yes, perhaps inferior, for lack of a better word.
I regard men as the superior sex. Again, speaking only for myself, and most certainly not because I think I am less, but because I have a respect for our differences, and it is those differences that I hold in high esteem.
With that being said, when I have made a mistake, and there is disappointment shown from the person whom I hold in that regard, it is devastating for me. It is at that point that I feel the most inferior, so to speak.
I can't rationalize it. It is just who I am. It's how I feel. I wouldn't go so far as to say this is a truism. It's just the inherent nature of my being.
This is not sexual in nature, as I feel this way around men that I'm not sexually attracted to. With anyone else, there is respect, love, and compassion, and I still hold them in high regard, but there is no feeling of inequality. It's a feeling of complete equality and embracing and sharing of our humanness, and our similarities, as opposed to our differences.
Netz, I had hoped you would toss your $0.02 in, because you *think* before you type, unlike some on the board (NOT referring to the prior responders!), and you often, as here, broaden the basic topic into something that encourages the rest of us to think along tangents we might not otherwise travel.No. I've been served by too many strong people of quality to suffer this outlook.
It's a lot of people's kink.
It's a lot of people's intellectual boner.
It's satisfying on a day you're feeling fascist. (And who doesn't have those?)
I'm intrigued by the construct, don't get me wrong. There are ways that certain people are superior to other people and it's interesting to magnify those strengths and weaknesses and make a self-made myth out of them. Good times.
But it's basically an illusion. Most people need to hide from that fact about self-granted or self-denied power, so they do.
If you took everyone in the SM world and put us onto a primitive planet, I think a lot of interesting survival stories would emerge that would belie the "I am Dominant I am Superior" myths we make up about ourselves.
Share yours, please?Great topic!!! Very curious on all the thoughts.
No. I've been served by too many strong people of quality to suffer this outlook.
It's a lot of people's kink.
It's a lot of people's intellectual boner.
It's satisfying on a day you're feeling fascist. (And who doesn't have those?)
I'm intrigued by the construct, don't get me wrong. There are ways that certain people are superior to other people and it's interesting to magnify those strengths and weaknesses and make a self-made myth out of them. Good times.
But it's basically an illusion. Most people need to hide from that fact about self-granted or self-denied power, so they do.
If you took everyone in the SM world and put us onto a primitive planet, I think a lot of interesting survival stories would emerge that would belie the "I am Dominant I am Superior" myths we make up about ourselves.
I think I'm inherently superior to everyone.
Does that count?
P much this.
Also I think it's very much an extension of misogyny since so many folks seem to use "sub" and "female" interchangeably.
I think I'm inherently superior to everyone.
Does that count?
How else could you feel, being the SpiderBunny?
Yes! It counts! You are what you believe!
I think you're inherently superior to the vast majority of the human race. Dayum raght it counts!I think I'm inherently superior to everyone.
Does that count?
Whoa...
Misogyny is a very strong word.
Whoa...
Misogyny is a very strong word.
Why do some people consider this a truism?
Discuss and defend your point of view.
I think you're inherently superior to the vast majority of the human race. Dayum raght it counts!
in·fe·ri·or
adjective
1. lower in rank, status, or quality
2. (legal definition - of a court or tribunal) able to have its decisions overturned by a higher court
noun
1. a person lower than another in rank, status, or ability.
sub·mis·sive
adjective
ready to conform to the authority or will of others; meekly obedient or passive.
The statement would be considered a truism because the definition of submissive implies a willingness to acknowledge a difference in rank and/or status. I don't think it follows that a submissive person is lower in quality, however. Even if some would like to believe it.
in·fe·ri·or
adjective
1. lower in rank, status, or quality
2. (legal definition - of a court or tribunal) able to have its decisions overturned by a higher court
noun
1. a person lower than another in rank, status, or ability.
sub·mis·sive
adjective
ready to conform to the authority or will of others; meekly obedient or passive.
The statement would be considered a truism because the definition of submissive implies a willingness to acknowledge a difference in rank and/or status. I don't think it follows that a submissive person is lower in quality, however. Even if some would like to believe it.