So I just ended up reading an erotic story that involved way too much "humiliation" and slang terms than I'm used to. It has been an hour that I've finished reading it.
But I can't get the characters out of my head , the slang languages are flying in my head. And I'm like "Eeeeh so dirty ! I'll do x,y,z if someone did this to me."
How do you calm yourself after reading something out of your comfort zone?
I know erotica are fiction meant to titilate us . I think the problem in my case is : when I read a story, I immerse myself into the character, I just don't read it from a 3rd party's view; it's like reading erotica = visualizing myself in the character plus imagining everything near me (story's environment).
Now, in real life bdsm , there is after care . No such thing for reading erotica.
But I can't get the characters out of my head , the slang languages are flying in my head. And I'm like "Eeeeh so dirty ! I'll do x,y,z if someone did this to me."
How do you calm yourself after reading something out of your comfort zone?
I know erotica are fiction meant to titilate us . I think the problem in my case is : when I read a story, I immerse myself into the character, I just don't read it from a 3rd party's view; it's like reading erotica = visualizing myself in the character plus imagining everything near me (story's environment).
Now, in real life bdsm , there is after care . No such thing for reading erotica.