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When you act out of spite and superiority, that is what will be returned to you.
First, thank you for being a voice of reason, with no attacks anywhere in sight.
It's not what is happening to ms_intrigue that bothers most people; it's the fact that someone is MAKING SURE it happens to her that seems to piss them off. The question is, if you really think she should somehow pay for her actions -- as so many of you have said -- why does it bother anyone HOW she gets there?
No offense, but you are very ignorant on the subject of Karma. Karma cannot be forced, not by you and not by me. Vengeance is not and has never been a part of Karma.
I am a big proponent of natural consequences. I also believe without you intervening TL will suffer those natural consequences. It will not be on your timeline or in your way, but she will reap what she has sown. Unfortunately, so will you for the actions you are currently taking.
I could understand if the cat was not out of the bag and you sat her (or your friend) down and told them they either had to come clean or you would tell the wife. Unfortunately, that is not what you are doing. When you act out of spite and superiority, that is what will be returned to you.
So, you all want us to attack her? But not you?
And is that last question real?
No offense, but you are very ignorant on the subject of Karma. Karma cannot be forced, not by you and not by me. Vengeance is not and has never been a part of Karma.
I am a big proponent of natural consequences. I also believe without you intervening TL will suffer those natural consequences. It will not be on your timeline or in your way, but she will reap what she has sown. Unfortunately, so will you for the actions you are currently taking.
I could understand if the cat was not out of the bag and you sat her (or your friend) down and told them they either had to come clean or you would tell the wife. Unfortunately, that is not what you are doing. When you act out of spite and superiority, that is what will be returned to you.
You can attack me all you want. You certainly are. So in the interest of fairness, yes, I firmly believe she should be "attacked" as well. That's not what has happened here.
The last question is entirely real. Why don't you answer it?
Will you recognize your comeuppance when it comes around for you for the decisions you make regarding TL?
It's not what is happening to ms_intrigue that bothers most people; it's the fact that someone is MAKING SURE it happens to her that seems to piss them off. The question is, if you really think she should somehow pay for her actions -- as so many of you have said -- why does it bother anyone HOW she gets there?
You say that you believe that karma eventually catches up, but I don't believe that for a minute. If you did, you'd let it take its course in it's own time and manner. You're not after justice, you're after revenge.
On a side note, whatever happened to the little "iggy" button you were so proud of several pages back? I thought you and whynotjustsayit decided to steer clear...I guess not.
I wonder why HH would even bother posting all this on Lit? I mean who cares if ppl on here agree or not with the whole revenge plan...or even for that matter why post anything at all and just do your thing? I personally wouldn't post anything on the internet about any kind of revenge plans in black and white for fear some hacker might find out who i really was & feel the need to royally fuck with me. Also, in messing with a person's job, family, ect...may have legal consequence?? Not sure no lawyer here.
Never addressed my post at all. And no, I would not be cheering if she got hurt or killed. Now I'm not going to say I don't think people shouldn't get what's coming to them. I think that's pretty normal behavior. The difference between the majority here and you is we aren't taking action.I've had much relevant to say. As you yourself stated earlier.
Suit yourself with trying to delude everyone else but I know the real reason you'd avoid responding to me now if your comments would only be ineffective and useless.
I understand, so because she frequents this site and meets the attached guys on here, you figure outing her ways on Lit will sabotage her meeting and seducing more attached men. I feel that will be a challenge on Lit or any other social forum because even if everybody knows the deal, there are always going to be guys that will be interested in ANY chick who is DTF. If anything it might advertise that fact and make her even more enticing to a lot! I agree the situation of your friend and his wife sucks and it does makes things seem impossible to mend when the "other"person in the situation wont leave it alone. I myself, have worn the karma cape a time or two when it was me who was burned. I kept it more contained though, and wouldn't want a lot of people to know I was capable of that kind of devious behavior.You haven't figured this out yet?
It's part of her outing. She was fooling around with other people on here as late as last week. As soon as the name "ms_intrigue" started popping up, I started getting PMs from men who knew her, and women who hated her. Needless to say, my PM box has been quite busy.
There is also the fact that Google eventually caches everything. That's why there is a Facebook page dedicated to this, a few other pages out there that lead right to her, and of course...this fine thread at Lit, with so many mentions of ms_intrigue that Google cannot possibly miss it.
So thank you -- all of you -- for your help in making this little part of the outing happen.
I understand, so because she frequents this site and meets the attached guys on here, you figure outing her ways on Lit will sabotage her meeting and seducing more attached men. I feel that will be a challenge on Lit or any other social forum because even if everybody knows the deal, there are always going to be guys that will be interested in ANY chick who is DTF. If anything it might advertise that fact and make her even more enticing to a lot! I agree the situation of your friend and his wife sucks and it does makes things seem impossible to mend when the "other"person in the situation wont leave it alone. I myself, have worn the karma cape a time or two when it was me who was burned. I kept it more contained though, and wouldn't want a lot of people to know I was capable of that kind of devious behavior.
I just feel such plans need to be carefully thought out to avoid any errors that could backfire. I would also urge your friend to take a break from these types of sites until his relationship improves. Good luck!
As I have said many times before, she IS still trying to contact him. But I don't recall anybody stepping up and saying, "Oh, what? Really? Holy shit, she's still trying to contact a man years after the fact? That bitch is stalker-material!"
Instead, it's all about calling me names and trying to bring ME to heel. Because, you know, I'm the one who's here and willing to fight with you over it. Drama and all that. If it weren't so sad it would be funny, I think.
Fortunately, I'm not concerned about what any of you think here, because like I said before, this is a virtual locker room. None of you are my friends. None of you could possibly have any impact on my choices.
I am sorry to see that ms_intrigue/The_Librarian gets so much loving attention here, because she is someone who will take any scrap she can to justify her actions. She's selfish enough to think that you all actually care about her, and that you are coming to her defense.
Only a few people here have gone on record to say she's a homewrecking whore. The rest of you are all about "she must have problems" and "she needs help" and "counseling is good." That might work for most people. But people like her take things like that as permission, because now she has an excuse: That she's messed up! That she can't help it!
That is complete and utter bullshit, of course. But you keep feeding it to her.
I guess all I can say in closing is that if you have a husband who plays on Lit, beware. If you are a man who is playing on Lit in the hopes of finding someone who cheat with, remember that your little dalliance might turn into a nightmare. Very bad people here can hide behind whatever persona they want, and the gentle "you need help" attitude is often just the kind of tacit approval they need to continue doing the immoral things they do.
You finally asked an intelligent question, so I responded with an intelligent answer.
Otherwise - I'm sitting here with my wine and chocolate, enjoying the snark being delivered your way.
This proves that you are not reading any of our posts, except to pick and choose what you want to see. Okay, she IS contacting your friend-I never said she wasn't. What I was saying was that if that's what's going on then you need to be helping him out. When somebody says "If" it sometimes doesn't mean that they doubt the situation. Learn to read through an entire post before you respond.
Also, you obviously ignored where I said I felt that TL had no remorse for her actions, only that she got caught. Am I throwing stones? No, because I have no right to do that to anybody, but am I condoning her actions? I'd like to see anywhere where I said that she needed "help' or was "misunderstood" or said "there there, it's okay, we all make mistakes."
Oh good grief. Perhaps her craziness IS karma for what my friend did. His wife actually suggested that very thing, so your epiphany was reached by someone else well over a year ago, and definitely considered.
The point here is not how my friend is paying for what he did, but the fact that ms_intrigue has NOT paid for what SHE did.
I have never said my friend didn't deserve karma. I have simply said that karma needed some help in balancing the scales.
Your post sounds almost gleeful that you might have found some way to make me look like an even worse person than you have already painted me out to be. Sorry, man. That won't work.
But ironically enough, it does remind me again of "group think" -- logic didn't work for any of you, so now your posts have taken a tone of attack. You REALLY don't see how you mimic each other like lemmings, do you?
I'm seeing more "Goodbye Earl" in his posts.You really needs to watch seasons 1 and 2 of My Name Is Earl.
most of this board cheats