How much masturbation is too much?

[juan tractor]

Law of Diminishing Returns factors in there somewhere I think for the guys, no such thing for ladies that I can tell.

that might be true but i've only had experience with a couple girls, one being my wife, and they were both sort of "1 and out" ladies...

 

[juan tractor]

Law of Marginal Utility, Well put Juan.

marginal at best...

 

[Dickstroker81]

I didn't know there was such a thing as too much.

 

[lub2jerkoff]

Too much is never enough!

 

[njgirl0863]

Only if you lose desire for live/in person contact or interaction with others for pleasure....otherwise no such thing as to much. Personally I can and do several times a day. First thing in the morning, last at night and oftentimes during day several times.

 

[doowdniw]

It's kind of like the old saying about voting in Chicago...do it early and often. You'll know when you've had enough. Until then...rock on!

 

[IntmtStrngr]

...

when is it "... too much" ???
I--, I don't understand the question.

 

[HoldYouDown]

I have a vivid imagination. Always had since I was really young, but I seem to be permanently stuck in puberty. I think about sex constantly, even at work, and can barely wait until my boyfriend goes out so that I can watch porn or chat and masturbate. My friends think I'm nuts, but getting off is seriously the best part of my day.

Is constantly getting yourself off even when you get regular sex too much?

Your mileage may vary, but for me "too much" is anything that impedes my sex life. I keep masturbation at a minimum so I can either a) enjoy sex more or b) be more determined in hunting women (and not "satisfied").

 

[sandra753]

Too much is just the right amount )

 

[ffdan]

I'll let you know when I figure it out.

 

[Jasper_Whitlock]

May not seem like much to some, but I get myself off at least twice a day, often three or four. And sometimes I go for endurance, not quantity, repeatedly bringing myself as close as I can, until the slightest touch will send me over. Then I stop, wait, and then repeat the process until I get too close, and then I stroke hard and fast, getting my relief until the next time. Can anyone relate?

I kinda do that too! But not often because it takes me long enough as is. On a regular day of sex OR masturbation I take an hour an a half or more to cum. But once me and my girlfriend wanted to see how long we could Go without cumming. Five hours for me and four and a half for her (she can take a while to cum too) but I couldn't hold back after five. I fucked her until we both came.

I HAVE to cum. Every day. If we don't have sex at least once a day I end up masturbating to the stories here and/or porn videos. It's an uncontrollable need that I don't try to stop anymore. The thing is our sex life is great. I love how we are in the bedroom together because we have a lot of the same sexual taste (it don't hurt that she is tight still. I'm not a small guy.) except for my hidden like for some of the stuff on lit. Point being we have great sex but if we skip a day I need to masturbate or I feel like there's an itch in my sack that needs mighty scratching.

As for you original poster, I agree with the others here. Seems your sexual needs aren't being fulfilled by your bf. If he can't sexually satisfy you and he isn't at least supportive of your needs you need to find someone who can. Being in an unfulfilling relationship is detrimental and will only build up. I was in a similar relationship with my ex. She wasn't bad in bed, and loved how rough I get. But she wanted the sex to be angry hard and would berate me during it sometimes to piss me off. When I told her I didn't like it she shrugged me off. An when I tried discussing my own sexual fantasies she would shut me up about it. I'm a patient guy and willing to try things but she wasn't returning the favor. On top of that our relationship outside the bedroom wasn't much better and I began to resent what kind of person she was. So I ended things. Few months later I met my current girl and couldn't be happier in all areas!

You deserve the same, sweetheart.

 

[SunDevilGirl]

I don't think the desire to masturbate regularly indicates an unsatisfying sexual life.

I think it becomes too much when it's not enjoyable or when it interferes negatively with your life.

 

[jackdaw]

I don't think the desire to masturbate regularly indicates an unsatisfying sexual life.

I think it becomes too much when it's not enjoyable or when it interferes negatively with your life.

How much is too much?

When it makes you sore. That's when it's too much!

 

[mrdiscreetshh]

Guys stop tiring your body out trying to produce sperm every time you jizz everywhere. Learn to be multi-orgasmic by clenching your PC muscles. Takes a while to get used to it, but I get the same satisfaction, I'm hornier, and it feels much much better than jizzing and then saying bye bye to the world.

 

[CNYCarol]

If you go blind, you went too far. Until then, feel free to rub out another one.

 

[ror5]

If you go blind, you went too far. Until then, feel free to rub out another one.

Couldn't agree more...there is nothing ever bad about feeling good

 

[violetraven13]

If you go blind, you went too far. Until then, feel free to rub out another one.

My thoughts exactly, lol.

 

[TPMcClendon]

There's been quite a few times when I've masturbated so much that my testicles hurt like hell for hours afterwards. That's when it's definitely too much. Sometimes it can cause problems when my wife wants sex because I don't feel horny, so that can be an issue too.

 

[Elena1201]

Hand party

I made myself cum 12 times yesterday. What else was I supposed to do all day?

 

[Brent106]

I haven't hit the too much button yet, and I do it all the time.

 

[StrongMaster7]

In the olden days I would rent a VCR and a half dozen porn tapes, call in sick to work and have a one-man jerk-off orgy. I would come 6 or 7 times in a day.

Since I got married (28 years ago) I have jerked off, pretty much every day. If I know I am likely to get some action from the wife, I may skip my morning session, but I have often jerked off a few hours after sex with her because I had excess need.

Interestingly (to me), in all those years, I can't remember ever having my wife indicate that she wanted to have sex so soon after I had jerked off that I had to turn her down or that it affected my performance.

I have jerked off to the point where my cock ached from the stroking, my balls ached from cumming several times in a few hours, and to the point where the skin on my cock developed a little sore spot. Not all at the same time!

 

[jtx122]

Too much is when your partner asks and you can't service them.

 

[russko]

super fun ... guys can't do that unfortunately, but on some of my days off - I can edge for hours

the result is just a catastrophe - like 10 of them all wrapped up in one.

 

[nakedplay]

I made myself cum 12 times yesterday. What else was I supposed to do all day?

Would love to have been there for that. 6 times a day has been my most times cumming.

 

[otterpop55]

This is one of the reasons I like lit, I'm not the only one masturbating all day long lol. Sometimes I just need to settle in for an 8 to 12 hour session (or more lol) stroking my cock, chatting and watching porn.