How has Lit changed your sex life?

[mpeters]

It’s given me some new outlets, that’s for sure… such as writing and publishing erotica here, as well as discussing different things in the forums. I’ve also discovered an attraction to trans women I didn’t have before, thanks to lit. Some generous ladies have shared photos with me that I’ve enjoyed, but I’m not getting a change in my sex life as far as having sex so far.

 

[AchtungNight]

It has made me more content with my mediocre sex life and patient for when it hopefully improves. Also allowed me to publish a few interesting and acclaimed stories, discuss some eye opening topics, and make a few online friends.

 

[wifewatcher1997]

Well, this is where my wife started chatting with most of her former lovers.

 

[Victoria14xs]

My husband proof-reads my stories. While I had previously shared the outline of my sexual history with him, the act of writing about my more memorable encounters has filled in a lot of details for him - which he’s very into. Very. It goes beyond the “what happened” and into how I felt - the excitement, what I was thinking (as best as I can remember).
The occasional interaction with other Lit members has bled over into the bedroom a few times, to good effect.
Overall, my experience has been good…

 

[SmokingFap]

Lit has helped me explore my bisexual interests and fantasies after a lifetime of purely hetero (but fabulous) relationships.

 

[Xenaqueen]

For me, it has opened my sexuality to another level. There are so many fabulous stories and audio. And I have had some great chats with other people. It has opened a door to a wonderful wild experience.

 

[PG564E]

Lit has helped me share my love of male on male sex. I like different genres of hot sex, but writing gay male stories really turns me on. It's nice to tell people I love sucking dicks. I used to be straight but reading and watching gay porn changed me in real life. Makes me feel very young and alive again!

 

[Easyvirtue]

Made me want to tell a certain friend I crossdress, I have always wanted a woman to shop with me, I’m afraid because we know a lot of the same people. I’m not necessarily wanting to make it some freaky thing between her and I, she cut us off a long time ago, but I’m afraid she’ll think it’s an attempt to get her back. I just can’t shop with my wife any longer, she doesn’t approve and wish I could confide in someone my kink!

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

No so much my sex life, but my confidence in sharing how much I enjoy and love orgasms and how many ways you can have fun with masturbation. It's nice to connect with people who feel the same or similar way. It made even hornier, I played a lot before but even more so since joining here. It gave me the confidence to share my photos and audios. It also have me the push to try some anal play now and again.

And you have made such a wonderful contribution to the site. I have enjoyed seeing how your sexual confidence and willing to experiment and share have grown in just a few months.

 

[Wag_that_tail86]

It made me realize that there are many who enjoy the same things I do and who have similar questions about their sexuality. It's helped me be more honest with myself about my desires.

 

[travelenman]

Personally, Lit has not changed my sex life, but I have enjoyed chatting with like-minded people with open minds who are sexually diverse.

 

[Shenanigans90]

Lit has actually help improve my sex life. Listening to the complaints of women here has helped me realize that I was the cause of many of the issues that I was blaming on my wife.

 

[Islander55]

I don't think Lit has really changed my sex life but it has helped me understand my sex drive and to realize I may not be the only woman who is more interested in sex than what some might think is proper. Also I have learned a great deal. Some of things that I do not really want to do but it is interesting to learn a bit about it. The BDSM forum has been interesting and perhaps given me a few ideas that could be fun with the right partner.

 

[AnnyMouse28]

I have become more open discussing sex since I joined Lit. I also think my interactions here gave me the courage to pursue dating in the real world, at which I failed miserably but at least I gave it a shot.

 

[lanceGibs]

I have become more open discussing sex since I joined Lit. I also think my interactions here gave me the courage to pursue dating in the real world, at which I failed miserably but at least I gave it a shot.

I am glad

 

[womaneater58]

I've learned a few techniques for pleasuring a woman as well as pleasuring myself.

 

[comegently]

Lit is quite addictive, but it's a lot of fun.
I've written several stories and published them here, as well as having some very entertaining private chats when I've been home alone, to explore aspects of sex different from those I experience in the real world - especially, as a trans feminine person, receptive sex.

 

[AnnyMouse28]

I am glad

You’re glad I failed at dating and will be alone for the rest of my life?

 

[Escierto]

It has not changed my sex life in any way.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

It’s opened a door that I wasn’t really aware of in regards to online mutual masturbation. Planting seeds using words and fantasies without needing realtime communication , Skype visualization or even given names other then Lit usernames.

E-boning is incredibly satisfying as a garnish to having a healthy marriage with a ride or die spouse.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

I have become more open discussing sex since I joined Lit. I also think my interactions here gave me the courage to pursue dating in the real world, at which I failed miserably but at least I gave it a shot.

Being a Anny Mouse fan , I’m feeling pretty good about the possibilities you’ve opened the door to In your post. Swingles is what we tag single people that have accounts and profiles on swinger sites. You might be surprised at what you will experience there as a swingle.

The forums there are usually very active with people posting about their experiences and what they are looking for. It’s a great spot to man shop , friends with benefits shop or just relax and lurk for a good fit for what you might be looking for.

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[Shane4Miah]

It hasn't changed it but it's absolutely contributed to our sex life! It's been the best place to find online Bulls for my wife. And hoping one day we'll find her Bull to meet irl from here!

 

[barefootgirl69]

I've had more orgasms here than I ever had while I was married.

 

[bill4672a]

Unfortunately, despite having been here a long time, it seems to have only added to my frustrations of late

 

[Bigboobbabe]

Lit has changed my life in a few ways.

First, I have met several amazing men IRL, and would hope to meet more.
I had my first anonymous encounter sucking a guy off in a car. 3 years ago and we still have fun.

I hooked up with the second man I ever had vaginal sex with. 34 yrs married to my only partner. That first time with a new cock was awkward. He was patient and we slept together 5 months.

I met both my Master's. The first, cyber only, introduced me to submission. When he released me, I met the Master I have had for 3 years and counting. My best friend, and my Master. I can't begin to describe all I have received from him. Fully submitted and loved it.

Met my cyber slave. He is completely devoted to me. Whenever possible we share each other by voice or video.
Almost 3 years. We will meet in person, but we both know the spark that will ignite will change us both, forever.

Most recently, I met a nice man here. We have chatted, talked on the phone 6 of 7 nights per week at this point. We had dinner plus recently and just a few days ago, he took me bare, at my suggestion. 2+ hours of fantasy fun.