Gay vs Bi vs Trans Preferences

[Jordanjack]

I was listening to a podcast the other day, and they were saying like 80% of Bi-guys are bottoms. That got me to thinking about myself, and wondering how others feel.

I consider myself Bi. I think. Although I've never had any actual experience with a cock that wasn't my own. Here's what I think about the following:

• Being a bottom to any cock: Yes, please
• Being a top for a male: No thanks
• Being a top to a trans female: Yes!
• Being a top to a trans male: No thanks
• Sucking any cock: All day, yes please
• Receiving head from a male: No thanks
• Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: Yes
• Kissing a male: No
• Kissing a trans female: Yes
• Kissing a trans male: No

Curious to how anyone else feels about these. Am I the odd ball?

 

[Escierto]

My preferences are similar to yours with two exceptions.

• Being a bottom to any cock: No thanks
• Being a bottom to a trans female: Yes!
• Being a top for a male: No thanks
• Being a top to a trans female: Yes!
• Being a top to a trans male: No thanks
• Sucking any cock: No thanks
• Sucking a trans female: Yes!
• Receiving head from a male: No thanks
• Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: Yes
• Kissing a male: No
• Kissing a trans female: Yes
• Kissing a trans male: No

In actuality, all I do and all I ever want to do is suck and be fucked by a transgender woman. Being a bottom for a beautiful woman is bliss!

 

[saintcero]

Bi here

• Being a bottom to any cock: Yes!
• Being a top for a male: No
• Being a top to a trans female: take or leave it
• Being a top to a trans male: No
• Sucking any cock: yes but it better be a good one for all day loving.
• Receiving head from a male: take or leave it
• Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: Yes
• Kissing a male: No
• Kissing a trans female: no
• Kissing a trans male: No

 

[Escierto]

Bi here

• Being a bottom to any cock: Yes!
• Being a top for a male: No
• Being a top to a trans female: take or leave it
• Being a top to a trans male: No
• Sucking any cock: yes but it better be a good one for all day loving.
• Receiving head from a male: take or leave it
• Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: Yes
• Kissing a male: No
• Kissing a trans female: no
• Kissing a trans male: No

No kissing a trans female? I assure you it’s exactly like kissing any woman.

 

[saintcero]

No kissing a trans female? I assure you it’s exactly like kissing any woman.

I would be open to being coerced, seduced, or otherwise being forced into the experience

 

[dodgeboy2]

I was listening to a podcast the other day, and they were saying like 80% of Bi-guys are bottoms. That got me to thinking about myself, and wondering how others feel.

I consider myself Bi. I think. Although I've never had any actual experience with a cock that wasn't my own. Here's what I think about the following:

• Being a bottom to any cock: Yes, please
• Being a top for a male: No thanks
• Being a top to a trans female: Yes!
• Being a top to a trans male: No thanks
• Sucking any cock: All day, yes please
• Receiving head from a male: No thanks
• Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: Yes
• Kissing a male: No
• Kissing a trans female: Yes
• Kissing a trans male: No

Curious to how anyone else feels about these. Am I the odd ball?

Here is mine:

Being Bottom to any cock: not any but for that special guy yes
Being a top for a male: Yes
Being a top for a trans female: Yes
Being a top for a trans male: Yes but not sure they might let me
Sucking any cock: Not any for the right person yes, I am not picky but I still wouldn't just chose any
Receiving head from a male: Yes
Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: Absolutely
Kissing a male: So freaking hot YES Yes
Kissing a trans female: Any time anywhere
Kissing a trans male: Yes but again not sure they would let me

Are you the oddball, I don't think there is anything odd about sexual and personal preferences at all.

 

[Swuchmann]

• Being a bottom to any cock: yes
• Being a top for a male: No
• Being a top to a trans female: Yes
• Being a top to a trans male: No
• Sucking any cock: yes
• Receiving head from a male: depends
• Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: Yes
• Kissing a male: mostly yes
• Kissing a trans female: Yes
• Kissing a trans male: maybe

 

[Jordanjack]

Here is mine:

Being Bottom to any cock: not any but for that special guy yes
Being a top for a male: Yes
Being a top for a trans female: Yes
Being a top for a trans male: Yes but not sure they might let me
Sucking any cock: Not any for the right person yes, I am not picky but I still wouldn't just chose any
Receiving head from a male: Yes
Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: Absolutely
Kissing a male: So freaking hot YES Yes
Kissing a trans female: Any time anywhere
Kissing a trans male: Yes but again not sure they would let me

Are you the oddball, I don't think there is anything odd about sexual and personal preferences at all.

You're right about the "not any" cock point. I should clarify, I'm not attracted to just any cock. It has to be attached to a person that takes good care of themselves, and is in pretty good shape. I would like it to be 5 or more inches because I really enjoy the feeling of a cock down my throat. 6-8 inches would be even better. Although I don't know if my ass can handle 8 inches as I've only played with 6" dildos.

 

[dodgeboy2]

You're right about the "not any" cock point. I should clarify, I'm not attracted to just any cock. It has to be attached to a person that takes good care of themselves, and is in pretty good shape. I would like it to be 5 or more inches because I really enjoy the feeling of a cock down my throat. 6-8 inches would be even better. Although I don't know if my ass can handle 8 inches as I've only played with 6" dildos.

That's what I meant but also that person would have to be a compatible person with my personality. In my younger days it would maybe have been any cock but as I got a little older it had to be someone I would want to be with not just a good looking guy with a great cock, I have slept with some ok or even what might consider unattractive guys but believe me the sex is best with a compatible one, I mean I can stay home and jerk off if need be!

 

[mpeters]

I consider myself Bi. I think. Although I've never had any actual experience with a cock that wasn't my own. Here's what I think about the following:

I’m with you here, I have been trying to manage my first experience but haven’t made the connection yet. But here’s my responses:

Being a bottom to any cock: Probably not for a gay or bi, likely for a trans woman

Being a top for a male: Likely

Being a top to a trans female: Yes

Being a top to a trans male: Possibly

Sucking any cock: Probably only for trans female

Receiving head from a male: Been trying to arrange! This is my entry level

Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: hell Yes

Kissing a male: No

Kissing a trans female: Yes

Kissing a trans male: No

Some things could well be different under circumstances or in the heat of the moment. For example I might be more flexible in a threesome with a mf couple.

 

[Sunnyade]

Being a bottom to any cock: For the right guy

Being a top for a male: yes

Being a top to a trans female: Yes

Being a top to a trans male: yes

Sucking any cock: yes

Receiving head from a male: yes

Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: Yes

Kissing a male: mostly yes

Kissing a trans female: Yes

Kissing a trans male: yes

 

[PFWilly]

• Being a bottom to any cock: Yes, never done it yet, but would like to try.
• Being a top for a male: Hmm, maybe
• Being a top to a trans female: Yes
• Being a top to a trans male: Hmm, maybe
• Sucking any cock: Yes
• Receiving head from a male: Yes
• Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: Yes
• Kissing a male: Yes
• Kissing a trans female: Yes
• Kissing a trans male: Yes

 

[MarkBurr]

• Being a bottom to any cock: Yes please. Doggy all day!
• Being a top for a male: I definitely want to try it at least once.
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• Being a top to a trans female: sure
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• Being a top to a trans male: doubtful
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• Sucking any cock: YES!!!!
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• Receiving head from a male: Absolutely….last guy gave me the best BJ I have ever received!
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• Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: Yes
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• Kissing a male: Depends…during intimacy anything goes.
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• Kissing a trans female: possibly….see above.
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• Kissing a trans male: doubtful

 

[BiDrew42]

I am bi and overwhelmingly prefer to bottom, but I can be versatile with the right partner. My trans girlfriend also prefers to bottom, so we are both versatile within our relationship. I have a gay FWB, and he is a very well-endowed top. He has never even considered bottoming.

How I feel about your list:

• Being a bottom to any cock: YES!
• Being a top for a male: Not my preference, but I am willing to top if that's what he prefers
• Being a top to a trans female: Yes. Again, not my preference, but I am willing to top for her pleasure.
• Being a top to a trans male: Yes
• Sucking any cock: YES!
• Receiving head from a male: YES!
• Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: YES!
• Kissing a male: YES!
• Kissing a trans female: YES!
• Kissing a trans male: YES!

 

[Escierto]

I am bi and overwhelmingly prefer to bottom, but I can be versatile with the right partner. My trans girlfriend also prefers to bottom, so we are both versatile within our relationship. I have a gay FWB, and he is a very well-endowed top. He has never even considered bottoming.

How I feel about your list:

• Being a bottom to any cock: YES!
• Being a top for a male: Not my preference, but I am willing to top if that's what he prefers
• Being a top to a trans female: Yes. Again, not my preference, but I am willing to top for her pleasure.
• Being a top to a trans male: Yes
• Sucking any cock: YES!
• Receiving head from a male: YES!
• Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: YES!
• Kissing a male: YES!
• Kissing a trans female: YES!
• Kissing a trans male: YES!

I am interested in the fact that both you and your girlfriend prefer to bottom. Is an issue for you or not? Did you know that she was a bottom when you began your relationship?

My girlfriend bottomed when she was a teenager (she is now 37) and decided that she would never bottom again. In fact she would go without sex (and has) rather than bottom.

 

[Chuckyou]

I was listening to a podcast the other day, and they were saying like 80% of Bi-guys are bottoms. That got me to thinking about myself, and wondering how others feel.

I consider myself Bi. I think. Although I've never had any actual experience with a cock that wasn't my own. Here's what I think about the following:

• Being a bottom to any cock: Yes, please
• Being a top for a male: No thanks
• Being a top to a trans female: Yes!
• Being a top to a trans male: No thanks
• Sucking any cock: All day, yes please
• Receiving head from a male: No thanks
• Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: Yes
• Kissing a male: No
• Kissing a trans female: Yes
• Kissing a trans male: No

Curious to how anyone else feels about these. Am I the odd ball?

• Being a bottom to any cock: no
• Being a top for a male: yes
• Being a top to a trans female: Yes!
• Being a top to a trans male: No thanks
• Sucking any cock: no
• Receiving head from a male: yes
• Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: Yes
• Kissing a male: yes
• Kissing a trans female: Yes
• Kissing a trans male: No

 

[BiDrew42]

I am interested in the fact that both you and your girlfriend prefer to bottom. Is an issue for you or not? Did you know that she was a bottom when you began your relationship?

My girlfriend bottomed when she was a teenager (she is now 37) and decided that she would never bottom again. In fact she would go without sex (and has) rather than bottom.

It has never been an issue for us. We both love to provide each other with maximum pleasure, so we are versatile with each other and mostly bottom with everyone else. I did know she preferred to bottom when we first met. A mutual friend introduced us - I was looking for a place to live when I was getting ready to move to Australia and she was looking for a flatmate. We exchanged emails leading up to my move. She was crossdressing at the time, and working as an escort while she was at university. There was an instant attraction between us when we met, we had sex the first night after I moved in, and we have been lovers ever since. If I'm honest, I think she tops me more than I do her, but it's working well for us.

 

[Escierto]

It has never been an issue for us. We both love to provide each other with maximum pleasure, so we are versatile with each other and mostly bottom with everyone else. I did know she preferred to bottom when we first met. A mutual friend introduced us - I was looking for a place to live when I was getting ready to move to Australia and she was looking for a flatmate. We exchanged emails leading up to my move. She was crossdressing at the time, and working as an escort while she was at university. There was an instant attraction between us when we met, we had sex the first night after I moved in, and we have been lovers ever since. If I'm honest, I think she tops me more than I do her, but it's working well for us.

That’s awesome that it works for you.

My girlfriend and I are monogamous so it’s probably just as well that she is a pure top and I am a pure bottom.

 

[BiDrew42]

That’s awesome that it works for you.

My girlfriend and I are monogamous so it’s probably just as well that she is a pure top and I am a pure bottom.

That's awesome as well. I was done with monogamy after my marriage of nearly 20 years ended, and I'm lucky I met someone who understands and enjoys the same lifestyle.

 

[Escierto]

That's awesome as well. I was done with monogamy after my marriage of nearly 20 years ended, and I'm lucky I met someone who understands and enjoys the same lifestyle.

I can understand where you are coming from, believe me. I was married twice for 25 years and 20 years. I used to joke that 20 years was a life sentence in most states. Maybe I will feel the same way after my girlfriend and I have been together for 20 years!

 

[haventdonethat]

Some things could well be different under circumstances or in the heat of the moment. For example I might be more flexible in a threesome with a mf couple.

I'm sure I'd do things I wouldn't expect in a MMF because I'd be so inflamed with lust.

MMF brings out the lust in all involved. We did things that would never have been considered otherwise. And we loved it all!

 

[haventdonethat]

Consider myself sexually opportune rather than hetero, bi or gay.

• Being a bottom to any cock: Would at least try it. Preferably with a skinny cock.
• Being a top for a male: My friend sat on my cock and my knob slipped in. I blew immediately.
• Being a top to a trans female: Never thought about it. Probably in the right situation.
• Being a top to a trans male: Never thought about it. Probably in the right situation.
• Sucking any cock: Sure.
• Receiving head from a male: Sure.
• Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: Never thought about it. Probably in the right situation.
• Kissing a male: No
• Kissing a trans female: Never thought about it. Probably in the right situation.
• Kissing a trans male: Never thought about it. Probably in the right situation.

 

[M_K_Babalon]

I don't like bottoming, I'm pretty much a top. I am a oral bottom and don't care to get head, mainly because most people fail at it. Kissing is kissing, nothing special about it, other than it's a turn-on for me.

 

[Palamino19]

Bi, sometimes just want to stroke together, sometimes want to get serviced, and sometimes want to get fucked, especially if there are a couple guys.

 

[Wag_that_tail86]

I haven't but I'd like to do most of these

• Being a bottom to any cock: Yes
• Being a top for a male: Maybe
• Being a top to a trans female: Maybe
• Being a top to a trans male: No
• Sucking any cock: Yes
• Receiving head from a male: Yes
• Receiving head from a trans female or cis female: Sure
• Kissing a male: Yes
• Kissing a trans female: Yes
• Kissing a trans male: Maybe