Bad girl. I pride myself on my self-control, but a man can only take so much. Best be careful what you ask for
This "works" when there's a connection. To Farawyn's point about falling for her mind and laugh before her body. Without that connection, a pic like this can amount to a dick pic equivalent (at least for me). It's sexy but somewhat meaningless.
If she shows me her current state of arousal because of her thoughts of me, that's a very different sentiment (or as the kids say - next level).
Well, of course... The only way I would know he's got to focus for the day is that I've invested in him to know. And you know what... I think he's got me wrapped around his little finger - he knows me well... as when my guy says he has to focus on work, I take it as an invite to send him something . So, who is playing who...lol?
But the other thing I'd like to add... we always say "connection" and "meaning" is what makes sex. Yes, that is true, but to what degree? How much connection is needed for it to be meaningful... valuable... soulful? And what type of connection? I'm a physical person and need spacial and kinetic connection - I connect through the body and therefore, I connect with many people easily to varying degrees. But, no matter how brief or how small, each connection is important to me - worthwhile and deserving of recognition. Fleeting connections should not be dismissed - they can be as powerful and soul defining as life long connections.