Does forced bi always mean forcing a man to "catch" for a man?

[joy_of_cooking]

And why is that? (Okay, I have some hypotheses, but I'd like to hear it from someone else.)

My latest plot bunny is a lesdom thing where the (female) sub is forced ("forced") to have her first penis-in-vagina sex with a man. I was going to call that forced bi before I noticed the thing in the title of this thread.

 

[Britva415]

No.

 

[TheRedChamber]

As always, write the story you want to write without being too caught up on the nomenclature.

A quick Google though does seem to suggest this it is usually a female forcing a man to have gay sex (usually as the bottom or at least sucker). But if your story has the MC with two other people one of each gender then 'forced bi' would seem to fit regardless and obviously the readers will get your meaning.

For tagging purposes, I'm not sure if there's a more appropriate phrase.

 

[EmilyMiller]

And why is that? (Okay, I have some hypotheses, but I'd like to hear it from someone else.)

My latest plot bunny is a lesdom thing where the (female) sub is forced ("forced") to have her first penis-in-vagina sex with a man. I was going to call that forced bi before I noticed the thing in the title of this thread.

Once again. I’m so… fucking… vanilla…

 

[Djmac1031]

Once again. I’m so… fucking… vanilla…

If you're vanilla, that makes me ...

 

[EmilyMiller]

If you're vanilla, that makes me ...

I write sweet, romantic Gay Male now, hadn’t you heard?

Emily

 

[Djmac1031]

I write sweet, romantic Gay Male now, hadn’t you heard?

Emily

You forget I've beta read most of your recent stories.

Never bullshit a bullshitter.

 

[EmilyMiller]

You forget I've beta read most of your recent stories.

Never bullshit a bullshitter.

 

[Kelliezgirl]

 

[joy_of_cooking]

Once again. I’m so… fucking… vanilla…

I don't know what that means, but I hope it's good? DMs welcome if not.

(I know what vanilla means. Just not sure why PIV sex makes you feel vanilla by comparison.)

 

[EmilyMiller]

I don't know what that means, but I hope it's good? DMs welcome if not.

(I know what vanilla means. Just not sure why PIV sex makes you feel vanilla by comparison.)

PIV is lots of fun, trust me .

It’s the lesdom forcing a gay girl to have penetrative sex which I find .

Now I did have a femdom lesbian train a male writer of rape porn with a strap-on once. But that was just good holesome fun . And satire… hopefully obviously.

Emily

 

[joy_of_cooking]

It’s the lesdom forcing a gay girl to have penetrative sex which I find .

Here's the idea. What do you think?

There's a pair of switches, the older and more experienced one sub-leaning, the other dom-leaning. The sub has been people's "firsts" for various acts. She enjoys the emotional intimacy of guiding people through new experiences and wants to give the dom that opportunity.

The dom's receptive, but they can't think of anything the dom's done that the sub hasn't...except penis-in-vagina penetration by a guy. The dom's bi. The sub's never been with anyone but a woman, never had anything bigger than a couple of fingers in there. (People would call her a "gold star lesbian," but she doesn't self-identify that way and she's happy to let the dom "take" her gold star. She thinks it's kind of funny how big a deal people make of that. She's just not into guys.)

So they get a guy friend. There's reference to them meeting and talking off-screen but when we first see him, he's faceless in a hood and doesn't speak. When the sub tries to greet him, the dom chides her, "It's just a dildo. Stop trying to talk to it." There's a bunch of pain play as the sub is "convinced." Eventually she "breaks" and begs for the guy's cock. The ensuing sex is all about the two women, as the dom helps the sub relax enough to take the guy's penis.

Afterward, the sub confesses that it was way closer to "real submission" than she's ever been with this top before. Cute fluffy feelings and aftercare all around. (The guy might get a couple lines here.)

 

[EmilyMiller]

Here's the idea. What do you think?

I think I’d have hated it when I was in my girl only phase. But I’m conflating RL with a story.

I increasingly think that what I used to do wasn’t really BDSM. It was restrained impact play and sex and denial (B and a bit of M on my part, not so much D and S). I got off on being restrained and the impact itself, not so much the humiliation / domination aspects. None of the psychological games. I know that’s probably uncommon. Many seem to relish the psychological more than the physical.

Hence the from me. Just #notmykink I guess

Emily

 

[lovecraft68]

Forced is another word for rape regardless of straight, bi, man, woman, etc.

 

[OffNSFW]

My story "Homework Assignment" has shades of this. An omnisexual older woman has a mentor-mentee relationship with a younger woman who's only been with other women. (Not a D/s thing, but definitely a power dynamic.) The older woman sets up the younger woman with a man and waits outside like a stage parent while they fuck.

I think it's erotic--partially the intrepid steps into the unknown, plus the older woman playing with herself as she imagines what's happening on the other side of that door. But not everybody loved it, and at least one comment (in private) accused me of writing a corrective rape. Be prepared for people to take your intentions the wrong way.

 

[joy_of_cooking]

at least one comment (in private) accused me of writing a corrective rape

Wow, thanks for the warning! Will definitely try to make it clear it isn't that.