Wow communication and person willing to try or change good for you guys! I am on that road that’s reads one way unfortunately!I used to. My sex life with my partner wasn’t so good for a while. Recently it has been much better. Recently we went through and did an inventory with. Yes/no/maybe list. We discussed things that had never come up before. It was super helpful. I haven’t shared ALL of my kinks and fantasies, but I don’t know that I need to share everything.