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myinnerslut said:thank you both cutiemouse and lil_slave_rose for your thoughts on this topic, and for helping me work up the courage to have this conversation with Sir as well. i go back away tommorrow, but ill have a chance tommorrow mornign to speak with him in person before i go. hopefully he'll see where im coming from with this, and while i dont excpect him to lessen the punishment he has already given, hopefully in the future he will take this into account. perhaps ill look at this thread with him, as i doubt i will word anything the way it should be worded when i speak to him(he normally doesnt look at lit, though he will if i ask him to specifically look at this page). you were both a big help to me.
Auraka6669 said:Good times, spent time with my family... Then spent time with my girl doing some rather vanilla things !
All in all another great day for me
Tomorrow, not looking so well. Black Friday. /sigh
Bandit58 said:captians wench I apologise if anything I wrote upset you. From what I have read of your relationship you do not intend for it to remain online. You have plans to meet and I'm assuming that if things work out well that there will be relocation at some stage.
What I am not understanding are those who for whatever reason choose to do online only, with no plans to ever meet or have a relationship in r/l. For me, and I am speaking only for myself, that would not be enough.
FWIW I moved to another country, a decision not taken lightly considering I left behind my family and was coming to live in a city where before I was strictly a country girl. We planned a 3 week stay in His home (because of His health He cannot travel). By the end of the first week we knew I would be coming back permanently. It took 6 weeks to organise my move. Luckily Australia and New Zealand have an arrangement whereby there is free movement between them, the only thing necessary is a stamp in your passport and you can stay as long as you like. I am hoping to eventually have dual citizenship (it will be much easier once I am married to an Australian)
MasterPhoenix said:By your comment on Black Friday, I get a feeling we share a certain hell...
Hope yours went as smooth as possible...
And thanks for your replies, MP.s_red830 said:How did you manage to go so long with your Master before meeting him? I'm finding that, with my sub, we won't be able to meet for *quite* a long time (at least two or three years), and although we are very attached, I'm worried that online/phone contact won't be enough. Any guidance in this respect would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance,
Red.
s_red830 said:This is mainly directed to lsr and Master Phoenix simply because I believe they went 3 years without meeting eachother but managed to keep up a great relationship, but whoever can offer advice is certainly free to chime in.
How did you manage to go so long with your Master before meeting him? I'm finding that, with my sub, we won't be able to meet for *quite* a long time (at least two or three years), and although we are very attached, I'm worried that online/phone contact won't be enough. Any guidance in this respect would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance,
Red.
lil_slave_rose said:it has not been an easy path by no means, and throw into the mix that when Him and first started out there was someone else in MY life. we had to overcome ALOT of hurdles along the way, and there have been plenty of times both of us just wanted to give up, if you read my sig you will see the words that i live by. i made it my motto when that song came out because it's all true for me. i WOULD and DID withstand anything just to hold His hand and i'd give it all, for us, and NOT ever give up until we were together r/t.
i love Him, i have loved Him pretty much since day one. i know that seems odd and some probably won't believe me. but from the first time we talked, we just clicked (though i had to convince Him of this *giggles*) the only advise i can give is to say, if you love him, if you truly believe it's 'right' then don't give up until it IS. in the end, the very first time i saw His face in r/l i wanted to cry, i wanted to run to Him and jump into His arms but i was so shocked that it was finally real that all i could do was stand there, in shock and of course a shyness came across me that i never thought would. i'm getting off topic, but like i said, if it's meant to be..it will. lots of Phone communication is what has helped us through it. we talk on the phone ALWAYS minus the time we are at work or sleeping. cams help also. communication is key and there was a time i was not communicating with Him and we almost lost it all, so please please please keep those lines of communication OPEN. i'm hoping something i said will strike you, and help you through this. also if you ever need to chat, cry, scream or whatever, my PM box is ALWAYS open.
P.S. you can call me rose
s_red830 said:How did you manage to go so long with your Master before meeting him? I'm finding that, with my sub, we won't be able to meet for *quite* a long time (at least two or three years), and although we are very attached, I'm worried that online/phone contact won't be enough. Any guidance in this respect would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance,
Red.
Thanks. I'll try to be. Hell, I'm not sure I can handle that kind of obstacle... *sigh*the captians wench said:It's been 14 months since I first submitted to my master....and a meet is still 7 months to a year away. It's getting harder....I think maybe because of the holidays right now. I ache for him. I miss him terribly when we don't get to chat, and being 5 hours apart, some times life interupts.
There really is nothing I can say as to guidence. It's heart wrenching, it hurts, but I love him so much I'm willing to cope. There are nights that I think I'll go mad if I don't feel him, but ofcorse I don't feel him, and to the best of my knowledge I haven't gone mad. There are times that I wish I had some one closer to me, hell I'd even say at least some one in the same contenent. But the thought of some one else really doesn't apeal to me. It wouldn't be fair to some one else. I love Jounar, distance doesn't prevent that and a different partner wouldn't either.
If your sub's worth it, she'll hang in there, and the same for you. But some people can't handle that type of obstical, so be understanding if she can't.
Luciden said:Well, we've been teasing eachother a lot lately, and he hasn't punished me for purposely teasing him and making him all horny before he had to go to work. hehe ^_^
ChromeCollar said:I am glad you found what you were looking for Boob. Please keep us informed, and dont forget to share the sordid details! *waggles eyebrows*
Luciden said:oooo! yay! Boob got a slave!
s_red830 said:How did you manage to go so long with your Master before meeting him? I'm finding that, with my sub, we won't be able to meet for *quite* a long time (at least two or three years), and although we are very attached, I'm worried that online/phone contact won't be enough. Any guidance in this respect would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance,
Red.
Luciden said:Well, we've been teasing eachother a lot lately, and he hasn't punished me for purposely teasing him and making him all horny before he had to go to work. hehe ^_^