Clit/Pussy Spanking Discussion Thread

The way I do it is the way my friend enjoys it and she has a body shaking orgasm most times.
She wears panties that she pulls up tight toward her chest so that hear puffy lips are bulging inside her panties. I tell her to hold them like that till she cant due to her intense orgasm. After she has them pulled tight I take a crop with a flat leather end and just lightly tap her mound not necessarily on the clit. The tapping can be just letting the crop fall onto her mound. Watching her reaction and her instructions I can increase the tspping pressure or decrease. As she gets more stimulated, sometimes her bud starts to bulge against her panties at this point the pressure of her pulling her panties up and the tapping on her mound drives her to explode.
This is something that works for us, she enjoys it and I enjoy doing it.
I do really enjoy worshipping here most delicate parts after with my tongue.
This type of sex for us is really not spanking. Please don’t think I am whipping her.
Oh my god, that sounds amazing.
Gentle, light tapping and spanking can feel so good, it makes the lips and clit so sensitive... and oral afterwards? That'd drive someone completely wild... what a vision :love:
 
An ex-boyfriend who was extremely well endowed provided the most delightful slaps with his large uncut member. I LOVED it. It felt good, not even in a pleasure from pain kind of way, it just felt good (pleasurable). This topic seems to be controversial to some. I imagine that the sensation for the receiver depends on individual anatomy. I guess mine is one that finds it pleasurable, at least in terms of the gentler slaps I have felt down there. Never went beyond a hand or penis, although I can imagine such scenarios feeling pleasurable (maybe a spatula or wooden spoon, used very gently, perhaps). Still I can't imagine, and would never be willing to submit to the whims of the person delivering this in terms of how intensely they deliver it, just because I express interest it. If it hurts or is not pleasurable, then stop.
 
An ex-boyfriend who was extremely well endowed provided the most delightful slaps with his large uncut member. I LOVED it. It felt good, not even in a pleasure from pain kind of way, it just felt good (pleasurable). This topic seems to be controversial to some. I imagine that the sensation for the receiver depends on individual anatomy. I guess mine is one that finds it pleasurable, at least in terms of the gentler slaps I have felt down there. Never went beyond a hand or penis, although I can imagine such scenarios feeling pleasurable (maybe a spatula or wooden spoon, used very gently, perhaps). Still I can't imagine, and would never be willing to submit to the whims of the person delivering this in terms of how intensely they deliver it, just because I express interest it. If it hurts or is not pleasurable, then stop.
Totally agree, maybe we should remove the word spanking. Spanking to some might be interpreted as pain . Pain is not what it is about, it is about pleasure . Everyone is different.
I have used a large wooden spoon . Once again more of a tap on her the a spank.
Thanks for your input.
 
Totally agree, maybe we should remove the word spanking. Spanking to some might be interpreted as pain . Pain is not what it is about, it is about pleasure . Everyone is different.
I have used a large wooden spoon . Once again more of a tap on her the a spank.
Thanks for your input.
Like you said, everyone is different.

But please don't presume to speak for anyone else when you opine in a BDSM-oriented forum that "pain is not what pussy spanking is about." (Based on your Lit profile and activity history, you don't appear to be a BDSM aficionado anyway, much less a practitioner, which I suspect reflects your more gentle disposition on the topic.)

Like many other women, my sweet sub's aroused bare cunt leaks like a Dutch dike when spanked. The temporary sharp intense pain she experiences with each slap of the hand or stroke of the crop is a big reason why.

If you saw or heard her so enthusiastically inflict this pain upon herself with her typical aroused zeal and adorable squeals you'd likely find it quite arousing too. I love sending her random internet porn pics or video links to puffy pink spanked pussies because it makes her instantly wet thinking about me doing the same thing to her.

Sure, different women will inevitably have different expectations, reactions, and tolerance for the level of pain inflicted on their tender lady bits when engaging in kinky play like this. But pain can be a powerful aphrodisiac, and especially so for those who enjoy BDSM play. As a reminder, the "M" in BDSM stands for "masochism", which generally refers to experiencing sexual gratification in association with receiving pain.

No need to take my word alone for it though. Check out this arousing video of another real-life couple for example. Be sure to turn up the volume so you can hear how much she loves it and enthusiastically begs for more. 🤩
 
So hot…..she really enjoys it!!!!
I have done it to my gf much softer , not sure she would last that long before squirting ….
 
Like you said, everyone is different.

But please don't presume to speak for anyone else when you opine in a BDSM-oriented forum that "pain is not what pussy spanking is about." (Based on your Lit profile and activity history, you don't appear to be a BDSM aficionado anyway, much less a practitioner, which I suspect reflects your more gentle disposition on the topic.)

Like many other women, my sweet sub's aroused bare cunt leaks like a Dutch dike when spanked. The temporary sharp intense pain she experiences with each slap of the hand or stroke of the crop is a big reason why.

If you saw or heard her so enthusiastically inflict this pain upon herself with her typical aroused zeal and adorable squeals you'd likely find it quite arousing too. I love sending her random internet porn pics or video links to puffy pink spanked pussies because it makes her instantly wet thinking about me doing the same thing to her.

Sure, different women will inevitably have different expectations, reactions, and tolerance for the level of pain inflicted on their tender lady bits when engaging in kinky play like this. But pain can be a powerful aphrodisiac, and especially so for those who enjoy BDSM play. As a reminder, the "M" in BDSM stands for "masochism", which generally refers to experiencing sexual gratification in association with receiving pain.

No need to take my word alone for it though. Check out this arousing video of another real-life couple for example. Be sure to turn up the volume so you can hear how much she loves it and enthusiastically begs for more. 🤩
It makes my girl squirt when I spank her bare cunt 😜
 
Like you said, everyone is different.

But please don't presume to speak for anyone else when you opine in a BDSM-oriented forum that "pain is not what pussy spanking is about." (Based on your Lit profile and activity history, you don't appear to be a BDSM aficionado anyway, much less a practitioner, which I suspect reflects your more gentle disposition on the topic.)

Like many other women, my sweet sub's aroused bare cunt leaks like a Dutch dike when spanked. The temporary sharp intense pain she experiences with each slap of the hand or stroke of the crop is a big reason why.

If you saw or heard her so enthusiastically inflict this pain upon herself with her typical aroused zeal and adorable squeals you'd likely find it quite arousing too. I love sending her random internet porn pics or video links to puffy pink spanked pussies because it makes her instantly wet thinking about me doing the same thing to her.

Sure, different women will inevitably have different expectations, reactions, and tolerance for the level of pain inflicted on their tender lady bits when engaging in kinky play like this. But pain can be a powerful aphrodisiac, and especially so for those who enjoy BDSM play. As a reminder, the "M" in BDSM stands for "masochism", which generally refers to experiencing sexual gratification in association with receiving pain.

No need to take my word alone for it though. Check out this arousing video of another real-life couple for example. Be sure to turn up the volume so you can hear how much she loves it and enthusiastically begs for more. 🤩
That's the video that turned me on to pussy spanking. So amazing. You can see how much she loves it because she keeps offering her pussy for more.

These days I prefer my knees tied and spread wide. In the beginning my lips are closed but then start to swell and slowly open. I love the strap or a crop.

And once the crop hit my anus...but that's for a different thread lol
 
I've long enjoyed turning butt cheeks a nice glowing shade of pink, but always stopped short of leaving anything but the glow. Never bruises, never welts.

So when an online lady asked me to belt-strap her pussy if we met, I was pretty sure that'd be beyond my bounds. But she sent me a vid showing what turned her on, and the intensity wasn't extreme. We did, in fact, meet and holy crap! As others have reported, the slap/sting when she was already engorged and on the edge were pure ecstasy for her!

We used a belt, a wide leather paddle, a narrow wooden paddle, my hand--and carried on for the better part of an afternoon and evening without coming up for air!! My short semi-limp dick? No problem for her--sucking it turned her on too, and she needed her pussy and tits stung more than fucking me. I'm a believer!
 
Nothing like it … slipping blindfolds over her eyes .. pulling her skimpy nice and tight and rubbing her first with the crop … Love running it over her puffy lips pushing against her skimpy panties …tapping her mound lightly watching for her nub to push against the thin matetial
 
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