AG31
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When I was in my twenties I discovered that not all people have the same experience when it comes to mental imagery. In fact, some people (like me) have almost no ability to make mental visual images. I now realize that was why I felt baffled when tips in the Sunday supplement for remembering names by associating a picture with them just didn't work for me. I thought I had a "picture" in my mind. But what I really had was a non-visual idea. It was quite an Aha! experience when I learned how people can vary be in this regard.
Last week I had a similar experience. Ever since the idea of transitioning gender became a topic of public discussion, I've been puzzled. I just couldn't conjure up what it meant to "feel" a different identity than one's body had. I didn't think much about it, but now I believe this may be another instance of how people's brains can vary. The Aha! happened when I read this statement by @secondlullaby, 'apparently attachment to gender is something a lot of us are lacking. When I say "I don't understand" it, I mean I literally do not understand.' Oh! So maybe "attachment to gender" is like the ability to make mental visual images. Some people have it and some don't. And there are lots of points in between.
Anyway, it set me wondering. Here are some of my questions. Although I'm interested in everyone's responses, I'm particularly interested in hearing from people who have never experienced gender dysphoria.
Edit: Great answers so far. Thanks to all. This is probably a little late, but I should have clarified that I'm not including sexual orientation under the heading of "gender identity." For my purposes a person who has a mental identity of male can be oriented toward men or women or both. Likewise for a person who has a mental identity of female.
1 - Does what I said above make sense to you?
2 - Do you have a sense for your own gender apart from just inhabiting a particular physical body?
3 - If "yes," to #2, are you able to describe what that mental experience is?
4 - If "yes," to #2, does this involve wanting to participate in the behavior society expects of a gender? In other words, if society didn't have different expectations/norms for the sexes, would your sense of your own gender identity be as strong?
Last week I had a similar experience. Ever since the idea of transitioning gender became a topic of public discussion, I've been puzzled. I just couldn't conjure up what it meant to "feel" a different identity than one's body had. I didn't think much about it, but now I believe this may be another instance of how people's brains can vary. The Aha! happened when I read this statement by @secondlullaby, 'apparently attachment to gender is something a lot of us are lacking. When I say "I don't understand" it, I mean I literally do not understand.' Oh! So maybe "attachment to gender" is like the ability to make mental visual images. Some people have it and some don't. And there are lots of points in between.
Anyway, it set me wondering. Here are some of my questions. Although I'm interested in everyone's responses, I'm particularly interested in hearing from people who have never experienced gender dysphoria.
Edit: Great answers so far. Thanks to all. This is probably a little late, but I should have clarified that I'm not including sexual orientation under the heading of "gender identity." For my purposes a person who has a mental identity of male can be oriented toward men or women or both. Likewise for a person who has a mental identity of female.
1 - Does what I said above make sense to you?
2 - Do you have a sense for your own gender apart from just inhabiting a particular physical body?
3 - If "yes," to #2, are you able to describe what that mental experience is?
4 - If "yes," to #2, does this involve wanting to participate in the behavior society expects of a gender? In other words, if society didn't have different expectations/norms for the sexes, would your sense of your own gender identity be as strong?
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